Tips For A Healthy Life (Take Action Today!)

Cori (00:00):
Welcome to the Redefining Strength Podcast. Everything you need to succeed on your health and fitness journey. Even the stuff you don’t want to hear. I know what to do, but I just can’t make myself do it. I think we’ve all had those moments. It’s really hard at times to parent ourselves, and this is a big, but if we don’t embrace that knowing isn’t doing and find a way to take action, we are never going to see the results we want. I love the quote, the world is full of educated fools because I think we can all relate to this. We go searching for more information, searching for a new plan. We seek to learn more, partly because we hope there’s a magic pill or some quick fix out there, but we think that in learning something, something will magically click that will all of a sudden get us to our goals.

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And that’s just not the case. No matter how much knowledge we have of we can’t implement those things, ultimately that just keeps us stuck and we’re very educated, but we’re still the fool because we’re not at our goals. So I want you to take a good hard look at yourself as you maybe want to work towards a new goal. Are you doing a lot of research, searching for some quick fix or not even something you think is a quick fix, but some answer out there when in reality you have enough information, you just need to take action on something? This is where that shiny object syndrome comes into play, and we kind of do it to ourselves where we go in search of something new because we don’t want to just do something that we already know we should do, and this is where we have to go.

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What change am I resisting against the most? Because that’s probably the one I need to make. What’s the unsexiest of unsexy habits that’s sitting right there that I could do right now that I’m not taking action on? Because when we do that reflection, that brings us back to what truly will move us forward from where we’re at right now, not even where we used to be, because I think a lot of times we also get caught up in searching for some answer based on where we feel like we should be based on where we used to be. Oh, in my glory days I was here. I used to be running marathons. I used to have abs. I used to, well, it doesn’t matter what you used to have, what matters is where you’re right now. And so in order to not just be an educated fool, in order to have knowing payoff and doing payoff and getting the results that you want, you first really have to assess where you are right now.

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If you assess your current lifestyle, your current needs, your current goals, your current mindsets, and you do that reflection, you’re going to be able to find one action you can take today. And then I say one action for a reason, because so often we see all the things we should do, all the things we could do, but it doesn’t matter. It’s that whole phrase, and I think this analogy is really gross, but also very accurate. You eat an elephant one bite at a time. Same thing goes for our habits. There’s a lot of things we could do. There’s a lot of things we probably should do, but ultimately we can only do so much. And so if we can take action on one little thing that builds momentum, we don’t recognize enough that so much of what we take action on and how we actually move forward and see success is because of our mindsets.

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And if you feel successful doing one thing, you’re going to want to do more of that. If you feel unsuccessful doing something, you’re not going to want to do more of it. If you’re doing less, you’re going to want to keep doing less. And so much is that momentum of our mindset. So if you know where you’re at and you find one small action you can take, you’re going to feel successful in taking that and you’re going to want to do more. We get caught up in seeking some ideal, some perfect mold that we should be fitting instead of assessing who and what we are and then taking one small action with a minimum. And when we get caught up in perfection, which I’m sorry, we’re human and we’re flossing, but we’ll never be perfect, we’re going to hold ourselves back from doing something, and we do.

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We go in search of more tools, more tactics, but really we need more time taking even imperfect actions to see results build. So I would urge you, if you’re struggling with knowing and feeling like you just can’t see the results, I know I just can’t get myself to do it first, really assess where you’re at. Second, really set one small change you can do and focus on those minimums. And then also think about goals in terms of habit changes. Celebrate success with the boring basics and the implementation of the boring basics. We only set our goals is I want to fit back into those jeans. I want to look fabulous in these photos. I want to do that pull up. What about just saying, I want to hit my goal today of doing these habits and then feeling really successful with it because those are the things that we can control.

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Those are the things that build. We don’t celebrate success with those boring basics daily. Instead, we think, gosh, how long do I have to do these things? Do I really have to do ’em forever? No wonder we don’t like doing them. No wonder we don’t stick with them long enough. No wonder we go in search of trying to find something else, something that feels better, that’s sexier, but I’m sorry. The things we have to do to reach our goals aren’t sexy. The results are sexy, but the habits aren’t. And the more we embrace that and the more we celebrate that and see is it even a good thing, the better off we’re going to be. But it goes back to knowing who and what we are and the lifestyle we’re leading right now over trying to fit ourselves into some ideal. And I think this is a very accurate way of describing it, of we try and go on a program versus adjusting our lifestyle.

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And when we try and go on a plan, we’re not truly embracing the changes that have to happen. It’s the fake it till you make it versus the act as if, and in trying to reach a goal, you are creating a new identity. You are stepping into new mindsets, new routines, new patterns. If you don’t embrace that, you are ultimately never going to really see results snowball in a lasting way. So I would say own where you’re at. Set those minimums. Focus on one habit change you can make today. Really celebrate the daily habits as success in and of themselves in a goal in and of themselves. And then recognize too that self-control, an infinite thing. Self-control is like a gas tank. Everything that happens through the day basically depletes it. Your bosses a butthead at work or you get stuck in traffic or you get a flat tire and something happens, right?

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There’s all these things. We’re using self-control to keep ourselves moving forward through all these challenges where we don’t react in a way that would be bad, and then we think, oh, well, I just can’t eat well because I don’t have willpower in this way. No, no, no. All that stress is going in one bucket. All that stress is depleting your self-controlled gas tank and you’re going to be on empty at some point. That bucket is going to overflow, whichever analogy you prefer. And if you’re not conscious of the fact that everything is contributing to the emotions that you’re feeling, not just your workout or diet changes, if you’re not recognizing those things, you’re ultimately going to sabotage yourself and not recognize the minimums. Maybe that you have to go back to make habit changes or celebrate those boring basic daily habits that seems small that are so important.

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That can be so hard the more effort we’re giving other places. But we have to recognize that self-control isn’t just this infinite thing to meet ourselves more where we’re at having a stressful season of life, Hey, maybe you can’t do the macro tracking you used to. Maybe you can’t do the six day a week workout plan that you used to, but there’s something you can do right now if you really own your reality and focus on those small changes to meet yourself where you’re at again, versus going and trying to find something better out there. It’s going back to those basics consistently and constantly that really pays off. So if you’ve been struggling with a feeling of like, I know what to do, I just can’t get myself to do it, don’t go in search of more information that’s only going to hold you back instead, really take a look.

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Even sit down right now and be like, where am I at? What does my lifestyle look like? What are my current habits, my current mindsets, my current struggles, my current priorities? Because their priorities will often become our excuses. When you assess that, focus on one small change and then celebrate consistency with that, but recognize your self-control isn’t going to be infinite, and at times where it feels depleted, that’s the timing where we sort of self-sabotage and we wait for motivation to go search for something else, or we start searching for other things because we’re losing motivation. We feel out of control. We feel overwhelmed. We feel like the effort isn’t worth it. With some of the habit changes we’re doing, again, why celebrating those things even as wins themselves and as goals themselves can be so key. But I just wanted to highlight this. If you are struggling with the feeling of I know what to do, I just can’t get myself to do it, because I think action is often the hardest part.

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