FHP 312 – When Life Gives You Lemons…And You’re All Out Of Glasses

FHP 312 – When Life Gives You Lemons…And You’re All Out Of Glasses

One of my amazing Unicorns Ellen commented this in the group last week…”Maybe things are not going a 100% as I want them to go, maybe I am not doing as much as I would like to do….but I have a lot of lemons at the moment and not enough glasses to make lemonade in so I just make lemonade out of the lemons where I have the glasses for.”

So often we have a ton of things going on and simply not enough time to do as much as we’d like for each of those things.

But we also have to remember that all we can do is give 100% of what we’ve got at that time.

We are CONSTANTLY in the act of balance.

And often our desire to do more isn’t really that we aren’t doing enough…it’s just that we want results faster.

The thing is, and I know I say this a lot, we simply can’t out work TIME.

And while you may want to make more lemonade, you may want to do more, there is really only a finite amount of time in a day…a finite number of glasses we have to hold the lemonade.

So at some point, you just have to really take a look at what you’ve done and say, “I’ve done as much as I can.”

And then simply let TIME and CONSISTENCY work their magic.

Amazingly enough too, sometimes doing less, but doing things in a way we can keep repeating the habits day in and day out, pays off more.

Because often we burn ourselves out simply trying to do more when we really don’t have the time or energy to maintain that pace.

Embrace the balancing act.

Embrace small changes and doing what you can.

And then trust the process and remember that results snowball.

FHP 311 – Progressions Are EARNED!

FHP 311 – Progressions Are EARNED!

Progressions are earned…

Often we feel like because we “can” do something? We should do it or we deserve to do it.

But the question is…are you really doing it WELL?

Are you actually optimizing the movement or doing it just for the sake of doing the “harder” variation?

Are you putting a “bandaid” on the true problem? Applying a quick fix just to get through the workout?

I don’t like doing something to progress a movement we haven’t EARNED.

Like putting your hands behind your lower back during ab movements, specifically leg lower movements

Sure it allows you to do that harder movement right then, but it’s also probably why you consistently tend to feel your lower back in other moves you shouldn’t.

You’re allowing yourself to “cheat” to pass the test…but you’re not actually learning the information you need to pass the next test…or the next one…or succeed long term because you’ve actually BUILT your knowledge on the subject.

You just sought out a quick fix.

And I’m sorry, but at some point that catches up with you…which in this case, means INJURY.

Instead you need to REGRESS TO PROGRESS.

Build that strong foundation.

Establish that mind-body connection.

EARN those harder moves so you can avoid those aches and pains and move better overall!

Sometimes we have to take that step back to move forward, as sucky as it is.

And often, when we do step back, we get better results faster because we’re optimizing our movements.

This optimization often helps us get better results from the hard work we are already putting in!

Here are a few questions to ask yourself BEFORE you even progress a move to make you more intentional with your training….

  1. Where do I feel working?
  2. Am I doing a harder variation of a move just to do one?
  3. Am I just trying to “get through” my workouts?
  4. What is the goal of what I’m trying to do?

The BIGGEST Deadlift Mistakes (No One Talks About)

The BIGGEST Deadlift Mistakes (No One Talks About)

The Deadlift – This is personally one of my favorite exercises.

It is a challenging hip hinge movement that works your entire posterior chain or backside.

It is a move that is often demonized and feared for causing lower back aches and pains.

But while this move can be misused and end up resulting in lower back injury, it is actually a key movement pattern to learn to perform correctly if we want to avoid long term back, hip and even knee issues.

That’s why I want to share not only 3 tips to improve your deadlift but also one of the biggest problems I see people encountering when trying to recruit muscles correctly to perform this posterior chain move…

They think of this move as a PULL instead of focusing on the PUSH to initiate the lift.

And that focus on the deadlift as a pull is often what results in us overloading our lower backs instead of correctly bracing our abs and using our hamstrings and glutes to initiate the movement of the bar off the ground.

Instead of thinking about pulling the bar up off the ground, next time you set up to deadlift, think about PUSHING the ground away with your legs.

While a seemingly simply change in how we cue ourselves to do this move, this can change the entire sequencing of how we recruit muscles to perform the movement.

Think about it this way…

When you step up to the bar and think, “I have to pull this off the ground,” you may hinge at the hips to sink down to the bar and grab it, but your innate response is to then start to tug with your upper body and arms.

This often results in mistakes like the bar drifting away from our shins, us not engaging our lats to lock everything in, rounding of the thoracic and lumbar spine, not to mention our butt rising up far too quickly, resulting in what is often called the stripper deadlift.

This can all lead to over use of our back instead of our glutes being a driver of the lift.

This simple miscue in how to initiate the move can be the culprit of our improper recruitment patterns and result in compensations and injury,

When we instead focus first on this move as a PUSH, our attention shifts to our foot’s connection with the ground and the use of our legs to initiate the movement.

It allows us to create and maintain the upper body tension we need to hold the bar while focusing on the movement coming from our lower body.

So next time you step up to the bar, don’t think about pulling the bar off the ground. Focus instead on PUSHING the ground away with your legs!

Now what are 3 other tips to improve your deadlift so you can rock this amazing lift?

Tip #1: Don’t be married to one deadlift variation.

I LOVE….did I say LOVE!? The barbell sumo deadlift. Honestly if I could only do one move the rest of my life, that move would be it.

BUT as much as I love the barbell sumo deadlift, this is not the only deadlift variation I use personally or with all of my clients.

Not every deadlift variation will be right for us and our build and previous injuries.

And different variations may suit our needs and goals as they change over time.

Not only may we use different stances, different amounts of knee flexion and even different starting positions to activate muscles to different extents, but we may change up the equipment we use to load the moves down and provide resistance.

The key is using the hip hinge movement in a way that addresses our needs and goals instead of getting caught up in one version being the “best” or “right” way to do things.

If you have slightly longer legs?

You may find the sumo stance works better for you.

Whereas if you want to target your back in general a bit more? You may choose to do the conventional deadlift.

Or if you want to place an emphasis on working your hamstrings?

Maybe you do a Romanian Deadlift.

If you’re just starting out with deadlifting?

Maybe you use a kettlebell instead of a barbell. The kettlebell can be a great tool to use to learn how to hip hinge correctly.

It’s easier to set the kettlebell back between your feet to properly load your glutes during the deadlift whereas there is more risk with the barbell variation of it drifting forward in your efforts to protect your shins, which can lead to lower back overload.

You can even do band deadlifts or unilaterally loaded deadlifts to create more tension at the top of the move where the glutes are stronger or focus more on your core strength, creating an even anti-rotational element to the move.

The point is, there are so many different variations of this amazing hip hinge movement you can use to get the most out of the exercise and even use the move as its own accessory lift!

Tip #2: Create tension before you lift.

Bracing is key if you want to protect your lower back.

But it’s not just about bracing your abs and creating tension there when it comes to the deadlift.

While you want to engage your abs as if you’re about to be punched in the gut to help protect your lower back as well as exhale during exertion in the lift, you want to make sure you create tension in a few different places BEFORE you even attempt to move the bar off the ground.

This helps make sure that muscles work efficiently together.

Too often we see rounding of our back occurring because we lose tension or haven’t properly engaged before starting the lift.

Next time you set up to deadlift, think about your foot placement on the ground. Think about driving the two points in the ball of your foot and one in your heel down hard into the ground.

As you hinge and grab the bar, engage your lats and depress your shoulder blades so your shoulders feel locked in.

Even think about both hands fully wrapping around to grab the bar so that each finger has that connection.

Then create that tension not only down into the ground but also through the bar. While you won’t lift the bar, you want to think about removing any “slack” from your arms so that everything is locked in.

By creating this tension, you can then use your body as a lever to lift by driving the ground away.

While this sounds like a lot of things to focus on, the engagement will become natural over time.

But using this little checklist to set up when you’re learning can help you make sure you’re creating tension in the right areas to use muscles efficiently to lift.

Part of strength is using muscles efficiently together.

Tip #3: Remember every lift is PRACTICE.

Every time we deadlift, we are practicing the movement pattern.

And what we do consistently becomes habit.

Therefore improper form during our “practice” will lead to us consistently implementing improper form and recruitment patterns as we progress.

That can result in us not only not progressing as far as we’d like in terms of lifting more with this amazing move, but it can also result in overload which eventually results in injury.

It’s why, as hard as it is to check our ego, at points we need to regress to progress.

While there will be some form break down when you’re an experienced lifter testing those limits and attempting one rep max work, you need to remember that when you hit that compensation point, it’s key to then address those weak links.

Sometimes you have to lower the loads and go back to basics. You have to use accessory lifts to work on strengthening muscles or components of the movement.

Sometimes you even need to use other deadlift variations to help you build up.

Progress is never linear, and we have to remember that no matter how advanced we are, each lift is practice and teaches us things we need to go back and work on.

SUMMARY:

The deadlift is an amazing hip hinge movement to strengthen your entire backside.

Learning how to perform this movement correctly and control it can often be the key to even avoiding back aches and pains in the future.

Start focusing on that push away to drive the movement while using these 3 tips to help tailor this amazing move to fit your needs and goals!

What is your favorite deadlift variation?

FHP 310 – Self Control Vs. Habits

FHP 310 – Self Control Vs. Habits

You get started because of motivation.

But you ultimately succeed because you’ve created habits.

When we fail at staying consistent with something, we often blame our willpower. We say we just don’t have as much self control as someone else.

But honestly that’s not really the case.

The truth of it is, we didn’t create new habits we enjoyed enough to stay consistent with them. New habits that actually took away the need to use will power to stay consistent.

Motivation is fleeting. Self control isn’t infinite.

What makes changes last and results truly build is that we’ve created new habits that, to some extent, don’t really take effort.

So when we are first motivated and all gung-ho and go to extremes? We may be setting ourselves up to fail.Because we are relying purely on motivation to carry us through.

Motivation that will burn out…especially often the more intense and restrictive we are to start.

Instead we’ve got to use that initial motivation to help us create new habits we enjoy even if it means not doing as much as fast.

As cliche as it is…it really is true you’ve got to find a way to enjoy the journey.

And that means creating new habits that do fit your lifestyle to some extent. Habits that you enjoy enough to keep repeating until they require no self control to do.

Now…You won’t enjoy every habit to start that you have to implement – change does require change and for us to be uncomfortable. 

BUT the more you can create new habits with things you DO enjoy, finding maybe new activities to do, new healthy restaurants to eat at, the more you’ll accept some of the things that aren’t as easy to implement to start.

All about that balance!

Here are 3 tips to help you create those new habits to carry you through!

#1: Tweak your current lifestyle.

We need to create new routines and habits if we want to make the changes sustainable. 

The easiest way to do that is to start with small tweaks to what we are currently doing. Small adjustments to things we love.

I know I like to eat out once a week, so Ryan and I found a healthy way to do so.

Know you really like to enjoy meals with your family so having to prep your own thing won’t work long term? Start by working backward from your family meals to tweak other meals. This way you’re keeping yourself in a routine you enjoy that you’ll ultimately want to do!

Love wine? Find a way to include it in your macros on certain days.

The key is realizing there has to be a balance. 

And that part of what makes creating new habits easier is piggybacking off of habits we already enjoy while changing ones that aren’t as ingrained!

#2: Challenge yourself to explore!

The more you do, the more you do.

The more you accept getting a bit uncomfortable in other areas of your life, the more you become open to changes.

And when making changes to your diet or workouts, why not explore other areas of your life that could introduce something new and fun and better promote the lifestyle you want to live?

Plus often we find activities and such that only make us want to stick with the new habits more.

Instead of just going out to dinner on a date night, why not try a new fun activity?

Instead of a Sunday morning just going to brunch and drinking, why not try adding in a hike with friends?

Explore other fun activities. You may be surprised by how much fun you can have finding a new activity you enjoy that only promotes the other lifestyle changes you want to make.

Not to mention, the more you get comfortable with change?

The more diet and exercise changes won’t feel so overwhelming.

Plus the more you create an overall new lifestyle, the more all of the habits fall into place together!

#3: Realize you won’t always want to do the things you should.

Even habits we’ve done for decades, we don’t always want to do.

And recognizing this is key.

We are human. 

But recognizing when we have lost motivation even in habits that once felt easy, is key. It may be time to try something new and slightly different.

It may be time to do some sort of reset.

Like maybe you do just need a day to skip your workout and not track.

BUT doing so consciously is key so you can get back to it.

Or maybe you realize you just need something new to jazz things up.

Creating a lifestyle doesn’t mean doing the exact same routines the exact same ways forever.

We can create routines and habits, but always constantly be running little experiments to keep things fun.

That’s the beauty of life. There are always new things to learn and ways to explore.

Routines and habits shouldn’t be inflexible.

Fix Your Squat – 3 Squat Myths That Need To Die

Fix Your Squat – 3 Squat Myths That Need To Die

What does it mean to have picture perfect squat form?

And is there really truly such a thing?

Or are we actually doing MORE damage by trying to force one version of proper form on every single person no matter their build, training experience or previous injury history?

Because I believe there SHOULD be variation to movement patterns, and even an emphasis placed on recruitment patterns, or the muscles that actually SHOULD be working, over just mimicking a proper movement, I want to discuss 3 squat myths, how they came to be and why they actually hold us back from getting the most out of this amazing compound move – the Squat.

But first, I want to discuss why we can’t force one version of form, or even simply one variation of the squat on every single person.

While I do believe we should have standards of form and seek to work on proper movement patterns, I think we also have to recognize that we will not all move the same.

We can’t see form as black and white, simply good or bad.

We have different builds, different postural distortions and even different goals. And this means that not everyone will squat with the same stance or even benefit from the exact same squat variation.

And sometimes forcing someone to fit a form mold you feel is correct can lead to overload and injury as their body compensates to mimic the movement you’re telling them to do.

Our bodies will seek out mobility from joints or areas not meant to provide it or even overuse smaller muscles in an attempt to replicate a movement.

So while you may love the barbell back squat, a client may not be ready for that movement or ever even need to do it. Instead a single leg squat to box or goblet squat may be right for them.

They may have more forward lean or even a wider squat stance.

They may need a mini band for that tactile cue to help them activate their glutes. Or due to limited ankle mobility, they may need to squat to a box to start to help them better load their glutes without their lower back engaging.

We need to see opportunities in slight variations of movements over ranking them as better or worse, good or bad.

3 Squat Myths That Need To…Die…

Sometimes simply using the same but different because of how it affects muscle activation may be key to our own progression!

So what are the 3 Squat Myths that may be holding you back?

Myth #1: Your knees can’t go past your toes.

Knee pain is an all too common complaint. And tight hips and limited ankle mobility are common mobility restrictions due to our modern lifestyle.

These things combined are part of the reason we saw the rise of the cue “Your knees shouldn’t go past your toes.”

This cue was meant to help remind people to actually sit back over first bending their knees forward while letting their heels rise up.

It’s intentions were good.

However, it’s perpetuated the belief that squats are bad for your knees or that your knees can’t travel forward and instead need to stay over your ankles.

But to achieve a deep squat or a full pistol squat?

This just isn’t possible.

Your knees can and, often even SHOULD, travel past your toe with no negative consequences.

The key is making sure you’re properly loading those glutes and sitting back.

You need to make sure you have the proper hip and ankle mobility to be squatting as low as you are while keeping your heels down.

If you can’t load your glutes and keep your heels down, you may then have issues with your knees traveling forward as the muscles around your knees become overloaded.

So while this cue was well intentioned due to mobility restrictions and injuries that were popping up, you simply may not be able to work through a full range of motion with proper form if you try to force your knees to stay behind your toes!

The key is working on your ankle and hip mobility so you can properly load while potentially even using a squat to box variation to help you control the movement and properly load.

Myth #2: You need to stay super upright.

A nice upright squat position looks beautiful. Unfortunately though many of us simply don’t have the build to do it and trying to prevent ourselves from leaning forward will result in lower back aches and pains.

While we want to work on core stability and hip and thoracic mobility as much as possible to improve our squat posture, we also do not want to force someone to keep their chest upright if their mobility and build don’t allow for it to be done with proper recruitment patterns.

Too often we try to force a proper looking movement at the expense of actually utilizing the correct muscles.

And while this cue came about to help people avoid turning the squat into a hip hinge, it can backfire if we try to force a position we can’t control.

We have to face the facts that some of us just aren’t built for picture perfect Instagram worthy squats and work to maximize our squatting form based on our builds.

Now this doesn’t mean you shouldn’t work on your mobility to get more upright, but it does mean you need to recognize there will be acceptable variations in the squat and that your squat movement pattern may involve more forward lean.

It’s why coaching people, you may want to avoid having them face a wall to cue “chest up.”

Especially if you have long femurs and a short torso, you may find that a slight lean forward as you squat allows you to get lower, load your legs better AND even avoid lower back aches and pains instead of trying to arch to stay upright.

You may also use box squats or front loaded squat variations to help you properly sit back and even brace your core to ultimately keep a more upright body position.

It’s key though that you don’t force an upright posture at the expense of arching your lower back and causing aches and pains there.

Myth #3: Your squat needs to be (insert depth here).

I’ve heard everything from “Don’t squat below parallel or your knees will explode” to “You need to squat ass to grass or it doesn’t count.”

The real answer to the proper squat depth question?

Is…it DEPENDS!

The difference of opinion on squat depth and cueing came about because one side feared the knee pain they often saw clients suffering from with squatting while the other wanted to help people strengthen through a full range of motion for better muscle gains AND to even maintain better mobility as they aged.

But we have to recognize that not everyone will be able to squat to the same depth.

Your structure, injury history and mobility may lead to you limiting your squat depth and even controlling it through use of a box or bench. Or it may allow you to squat into a nice deep squat very comfortably.

But whatever range of motion you can control, you want to work through it as fully as possible. Our goal is always to train through the largest range of motion we can properly control.

Which for some may be that full deep squat while for others it may be to parallel.

But we need to stop demonizing one or the other. And we even need to recognize that BOTH can be useful at points even.

Even someone who can easily perform a deep squat may limit squat range of motion strategically to work on weak points or stick points.

Form isn’t black and white.

But we need to realize when cues may be misused and perpetuate improper recruitment patterns or lead to everyone trying to force the same mold.

One size doesn’t fit all.

There is no one best move or movement variation.

Use these tips to help dial in your squat form to work with your build, needs and goals!

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