FHP 605 – 5 Metabolic Boosters

FHP 605 – 5 Metabolic Boosters

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Cori

00:00
Hey guys, this is Cori from Redefining Strength. Welcome to the Fitness Hacks podcast. This is a show where I share all my free work on the nutrition tips. I’m not going to ever fill this episode with sponsorships or ask you to buy anything. All I ask in return is, if you’re enjoying the podcast, to leave a review or leave a five-star rating or, even better, share it with someone you think it might help.
00:21
This will only take a few minutes and would mean the world to me and possibly change the life of someone you know. So let’s jump right in. I’m super excited to jump into five metabolism boosting protocols with Michelle. Before we jump in, I want to have Michelle sort of go over why it’s so important that we adjust our nutrition to really keep our metabolism healthy, especially because I think so often we do think metabolic adaptations, the slow metabolism, especially with aging, hold us back from seeing the results that we deserve, and then we also only blame our age. But there’s so much we can actually control. So, michelle, why is our nutrition so important to improving our metabolic health?
Michelle

00:59
Exactly what you said you can control, and we want you to control what you can control.
01:03
So often I hear people say, oh, I don’t have the metabolism I used to when I was in my 20s, or I wish I had a fast metabolism, but I’m cursed with a slow metabolism, and I really want to kind of just bust through this myth.
01:16
No one’s metabolism is broken and no one’s metabolism really like research has actually shown that no one really has like a major advantage when it comes to a fast or slow metabolism. The difference is is how you’re actually treating your body overall and the new how nutrition plays a role in that for you. So yeah, there may be some various differences between someone that you know it has more muscle on them or is in more shape versus someone who doesn’t. But that doesn’t mean that you can’t get there. There’s always going to be ways that we can tweak our both our nutrition and even our training to actually improve our metabolism and allow us to have what we envy and others that fast metabolism. But so often I see people who are trying to become healthier actually doing more harm to their metabolism than at then actually improving it or doing doing it good.
Cori

02:11
And often the metabolic adaptations that we see, the changes that we see, the slowdown we see with age is previous dieting practices adding up and that loss of muscle. Which is why I was so excited to see your first protocol, which was increasing protein, but specifically increasing protein at every meal.
Michelle

02:28
Yeah, so a lot of times people I don’t even think really have a true grasp on what metabolism is, and that’s your body is constantly doing hundreds and thousands of chemical reactions all day long, from digesting your food to growing you know more muscle mass, to growing your hair, your nails all this takes energy and your and these chemical reactions are all kind of balled up into what your metabolism is. It’s all that work that you do not realizing how much you’re doing, and because of that, we want to make sure that we are giving our body the appropriate nutrients throughout the day, and that means not just loading up one meal with high protein, but really making sure that we are focusing on protein throughout the day Protein in and of itself. A lot of research shows that even having a high protein meal will significantly raise your metabolism rather quickly for the short term. So increasing your protein alone is actually going to boost your metabolism, and that has a lot to do with it requires more work for your body to break down protein in general.
Cori

03:36
And when we’re increasing protein, often like the slow down we blame on age is partly due to changes our body is going through, Like, yes, our hormone levels as we get older are not at the optimal levels. They were when we were younger, right Like when we’re younger a lot of times when we’ve done studies on 20 year olds and whatnot. Their body is like prime to make anything work. They can grow muscle, thinking about growing muscle, but as we get older we don’t have that same stimulus for muscle growth. So actually increasing the portion of protein we’re consuming at meals not only takes more energy to break down by our body, but it can help stimulate that muscle protein synthetic synthesis response so much better because we need that extra load to create that same stimulus for that growth of that muscle to help actually build and retain the lean muscle which then has that great metabolic impact.
Michelle

04:25
Yeah, and it’s us actually fighting a little bit against age. As we age, as you mentioned, your hormones change. It does get a little bit harder to build muscle, but on top of that you’re more at risk for actually losing the muscle mass you have. So this also is going to not only hopefully encourage that muscle protein synthesis, but also protect the muscle that you already have. We don’t want you losing anymore.
Cori

04:49
Especially if you are in that deficit.
04:50
You are trying to lose fat, achieve that body recomb it’s even more key that we focus on protein, because high protein diets are like the one diet that have been shown to help you build and retain lean muscle while in a deficit, and top of that. I do just want to get your thoughts on this, and I know I have my opinions as well, because often people will be like well, I’ve even heard you can only use 20 to 25 grams or even 30 grams at a meal and any more than that just is wasted. But while we’re talking about muscle protein synthesis and building lean muscle, right, and there is a portion of the protein that goes directly to that and only so much can go to that. Protein is used in so many other functions and we have to realize the importance of that, not to mention in a deficit. You’re not getting enough of anything Muscles, metabolic, lead, costly so we need that, those calories, we need that protein to stimulate that growth and maintain that lean muscle while we’re trying to lose fat. But we can use more right.
Michelle

05:40
Yeah, there’s no cap as far as, like, you can only consume so much at a certain time. If you are consuming it, your body is going to break it down and utilize what it means. Now you touched on it. This is all within a calorie deficit. If you are eating in a calorie surplus, yeah, your body is going to start storing things and you’re going to potentially have a little extra fat if you are eating in a large surplus. But even then, if protein is harder to do that with because it does you know the thermic effect of food you are going to be burning calories, breaking down protein.
06:12
I’m not saying you can’t overdo protein, but if your aim is to stay within a calorie deficit, you aren’t going to be all of a sudden. You know having 40, 60 grams at a mill and that extra 20 is going to be, you know, converted to fat. That’s not how the body works, and even current research is even showing that there is no cap, even post-exercise. So, really making sure or being worried that you’re overdoing protein, as long as your kidneys are healthy, the chances are very low that you’re actually overdoing it.
Cori

06:48
And often or well, our body is very good at using it when it needs it. The other macros we consume with the protein source can really impact the rate of digestion, but it’s also something where, because of the thermic effect, if we’re overeating it a little bit or even go into a slight calorie surplus, it’s a safer way to see results or give ourselves sort of a buffer when trying to get our calorie intake in line.
Michelle

07:10
Exactly and truthfully, it’s more satiety, or sorry, it’s more satiating. So the chance that again you’re going to be feeling full faster if you are consuming a little bit more protein.
Cori

07:23
So, talking about other tips to really improve the quality of our meals, boost our metabolic grade, keep our metabolism healthy to see better fat loss while we’re gaining lean muscle mass. We’re going to talk a little bit about macros because I know often we will focus on macronutrients protein, carbs and fat but those macros do have a huge impact. And I say this and I always like have this weird debate, which I know you also sort of have to where if you’re hitting your macros, you’re going to see results right and we want to include some of those fun foods. However, if we’re treating our body like the sports car and the high performance sports car that it is, we need to make sure it has the proper fuel because that is going to make it run better. And so, focusing still on those micros, trying to get that diversity is key. Can you go over how else we can make sure that we’re really hitting those micros, seeing better results and keeping our metabolic grade higher?
Michelle

08:11
So color is going to play a huge part. It’s going to be a big indicator on if you are consuming a wide variety of these micronutrients. So a good role of thumb is even trying to aim for a different color at each meal and to kind of go off what you’re touching on. Where macros are important and you are going to see results, we do still want to ensure the quality of those macros and oftentimes if you find that you’re like trying to be like, well, this fit, so I’m good, like I can have, you know, ice cream every day and pizza every day because it fits my macros to an extent, you are correct, you probably will see results to a certain point. But if you’re really looking one to fill your best and to really capitalize on your results and get those best results, we want to really make sure that those macros are going to be quality.
08:59
So focusing on color, which is a big indicator of the phytonutrients within plants, that’s going to also help you hit those micronutrients and the big role that these play within your metabolism is going back. Metabolism is all about chemical reactions. This is what your body is doing constantly and chemical reactions require enzymes and coenzymes to actually be able to function and to be able to, you know, do the work and break down and get those nutrients where it needs to go, and to do that, these coenzymes often require vitamins and minerals to actually perform their job. So, again, just making sure that you were trying to focus on a different color at each meal, that’s going to help you get those micronutrients that we want to ensure your metabolism is firing, you know, optimally.
Cori

09:51
I also find that focus on including a different color with each meal allows me to get diversity over the day without making things like super complicated. Right, because you do want to meal prep your lunch, you do want to meal prep your dinner, potentially, and you might want to have some consistency there to keep prep simple. Or, if you’re lazy like me, you definitely want to do that Right by thinking of like saying, hey, I’m going to have a red fruit at breakfast, a green vegetable at lunch and an orange vegetable at dinner. I can then have easier prep across the meals. But I’m still getting that diversity over the course of the day.
10:21
And while you know we do want to work in those fun foods and you even mentioned, yes, you can make them work in. Often, to make them work in, you do have to get other quality nutrients, like we’ll always see, like if it fits my macros and all these fun meals out there. Most of the time when people are making those things work, it’s because they are focusing on, you know, on the nutrient dense, low calorie foods and other meals to find that balance. So recognizing what’s going on behind the curtain might also be key for us to strike our balance as well.
Michelle

10:47
Yeah, and it’s completely fine to have those days. But if you’re finding that those days are kind of taking over you know more consistently you’re having more days like that than not then we want to make sure that we’re striking that balance because oftentimes even those low, those low calories, high nutrient dense foods that we’re eating around those days can sometimes make your variety a little limited. And this is really why I, like you know swapping out the, the vegetable or the fruit at each mill to kind of hit differently, because I do think people stress too much sometimes on what variety means. Oftentimes you know they get well, like I have to eat like a different protein, a different grain, a different fruit or vegetable Every single day for every single meal. But you can’t. This is a more Approachable way for variety. You can still have variety in your it just by swapping out that for those fruits and vegetables, and those are usually an easier swap of to the day to day.
Cori

11:43
And If you find to that you are like hitting your macros and not seeing the results that you deserve, like we always want to go back to I, am I being consistent with them right? That’s my first assessment. Am I truly being consistent with the macro breakdown and hitting it daily right, not just weekly average or monthly averages, but daily? But then I’ll even go into that food quality, because I find often like if I’m feeling hungry or tired or different things like that, I’m maybe not getting the micronutrients that I truly need or the like, the valuable nutrition overall, and that’s why my body isn’t functioning Optimally, because not getting it like the nutrients that we need can impact our sleep, it can impact our recovery, it impacts how everything truly functions and the better something functions, the better the results you’re going to see and no offense. But I want to see better results faster.
Michelle

12:26
Most people do, that’s the thing is this if you want those faster results, you’re going to need to be to sacrifice a little bit more to get there.
Cori

12:34
And so, going off of this talking about how micronutrients can impact the quality of our recovery, you brought up that creating a sleep snack can really help your metabolism and the results that you see to see better Weight loss and fat loss results and I think this can be slightly a controversial subject just because some people will be like, oh no, if I eat too close to bed, I’ll gain fat or it interrupts my sleep. So let’s talk about the nuance and how having that sleep snack might be beneficial, what might be needed to be included and even how to know if this is right for you.
Michelle

13:05
Yeah, so sleep it just plays a vital role overall and making sure that your metabolism is properly regulated. If you do find that, you know you’re often waking up and you feel Still tired, like no matter how long you slept in the evening, you’re still waking up exhausted. Often that times that’s an issue with sweet sleep quality, or if you were just one of those people that are really struggling just falling asleep again. We want to make sure that we are doing everything we can to improve that sleep quality and the sleep duration. So I hear it often to you know, don’t eat past seven. If you eat past seven like you know it’s, you’re gonna gain fat, all this stuff. But again, we are still. You’re still. The goal is still to remain and within your calorie deficit. This isn’t all the sudden extra calories and these are calories that are going to be accounted for, so you’re still gonna be remain in your deficit. And then the other thing is is this, isn’t something that it’s? Oh, I’m going to sleep in 15 minutes, I’m gonna go, you have my snack and go to bed. We really want to time it a little bit better, so about one to two hours. If you are someone that you do worry that food does disrupt your sleep. We’re gonna aim a little bit more on that two hour mark and the big thing again is the quality of what this sleep snack actually consist of.
14:23
We really want to aim for things that are going to actually promote sleep, so Things that are going to help you produce natural melatonin. So trip the items that are going to be higher in tryptophan, things that are going to have magnesium, that are going to help you, your body naturally relax and your muscles relax before bed. And of course, there is a lot of research that shows complex carbs before bed About one to two hours before bed, does improve your overall sleep quality. So this isn’t a huge mill. The aim up for this isn’t have 500 cat plus calories two hours before sleep. The aim is really about 150 to 300 calories and we want it to kind of be a well rounded snack, so something that’s going to have a complex carb, a good source or amount of protein with some fat. And again, we really want to kind of lean in and Lean into items that are going to have that higher a magnesium, items that are going to naturally help you produce melatonin, and I don’t.
15:23
Some of this is just going to be like oatmeal made with milk and dry tart, cherries, nuts, kiwis, peppers with cottage cheese, even rice cakes with peanut butter and banana, is going to help you actually Improve the quality of your sleep. So there’s really no cutoff time for when your digestion stops or when, all of a sudden, your whatever you eat is going to turn into fat. But we do want to take into account that sometimes, if we overdo particularly like refining, particularly like refined carbs or high fat you are probably going to have a little bit more indigestion. If you were to lie down, you know within 20 to 30 minutes post eating that. So it’s really about making sure that we are aiming for that quality and we’re eating with a purpose. It’s not just a random snack. We’re actually eating to promote that sleep.
Cori

16:13
It’s those micro is that really make a difference, and especially what you’ve mentioned can really help during menopause, when our sleep quality is impacted. And I also think it’s really interesting to talk about like eating and metabolism and sleep, because so often when we think Metabolism, boosting protocols and foods, we think, oh well, I’m going to do like spicy foods and all these things that increase metabolic rate. But part of this sleep snack is improving the quality of your sleep, which impacts appetite, which can make you not feel extra hungry, because a lot of times when we don’t get that quality sleep, we want to eat more. Right, we want that, not only that feeling of satisfaction from eating more, but we get signals that we’re hungrier, which really does impact our overall like Metabolic health, our fat loss results. So part of this is improving the quality of your sleep to help regulate appetite so that we’re able to eat the appropriate number of calories during the day and not getting signals that we’re hungry when we actually aren’t.
Michelle

17:07
Yeah, and that’s a big part of it is whenever you know you have poor sleep, your cortisol levels go up. When cortisol level goes up, you do have more. You know you do. Your body is signaling yourself to eat more and it’s not segment, it’s not all of a sudden like, oh, you should have more protein. Oh, oh, you should have, you know, more fruits and vegetables. Your body actually signals you to crave more refined carbs so you can kind of get more thrown out of whack with this.
17:35
And this is really where women specific I mean you brought up spicy foods, which I mean spicy foods do does help with metabolism. But men and puzzle women oftentimes. If they consume spicy foods, they often will sometimes have their symptoms worsen. So this is a way to kind of make sure that we are tackling kind of two birds with one stone. So it’s really focusing on that calcium, that magnesium and potassium. That’s going to actually help promote muscle relaxation and also kind of improve that overall sleep quality, allowing you to not only fall asleep quicker but also to get into that deep REM that we that is our goal that does decline with age which we need that you know recovery sleep so that we can building muscle, which helps improve our metabolic health.
Cori

18:23
So it’s just assessing all the different components of it versus. I know we often default back to well, what’s the one thing I can just include that magically helps? And really it’s creating all those life stress, lifestyle factors, addressing like even stress and how stress is impacting your body and everything. And I also love that, like a lot of things you included are perfect desserts. So for a sweet treat person, someone who likes to end the night with something on the sweet side you know a little treat dessert these are perfect ways to sort of include something that might be a little bit more macro friendly. Get you the micros that you need, improve the quality of your sleep so that you’re really seeing those results snowball with something sustainable.
Michelle

19:01
Yeah, and as you mentioned it is, it’s a combo. We’re not focusing on the one, we’re focusing on the combo. So you get the benefit of having the sweet dessert, but you’re also getting the benefit that it is isn’t all of a sudden going to spike. You know you like sugar levels making it more difficult to fall asleep.
Cori

19:19
So next tip so we’re talking about sleep and I like that because it did address a different like aspect of metabolic health than we usually talk about, I feel like. But the next tip that you met brought up, I thought was very interesting because I think it’s going to ruffle a few feathers, since a lot of people are on the low carb train and you know getting sufficient carbs especially if your training heart is very key to metabolic health, to our thyroid functioning, which helps with weight loss. So there’s lots of benefits to carbs that I think are often overlooked when it comes to the fat loss process, especially for active women. But you mentioned specifically the importance of whole grains. Can you talk about the importance of whole grains for our metabolic health?
Michelle

19:56
So B vitamins, often known as, like your, energy vitamins the reason why they’re known for this is because they are a crucial part of your metabolism for your body to actually be able to break down and get the energy from those calories you consume. Almost every single reaction requires B vitamins and because of that, we really want to make sure that we are putting an emphasis on consuming them. And B vitamins are a water soluble vitamin, so it is something that you need to consume daily because otherwise you are going to it’s going, you’re going to lose it through your urine. So, because of this, we want to make sure that we are including including high quality sources of it.
20:35
But on top of this, the big, the big importance with B vitamins because, again, I always know people be like well, I’m eating very similar to how I ate when I was. I mean, I’ve even had athletes come to me and be like you know, I was a college athlete and this is how I ate and this is how I ate and performed when my body was at the top of its conditioning. And now you’re telling me to change it. Well, age plays, plays a big role. So, even if you had eight decently before, what happens when we age, we actually don’t absorb the B vitamins as easily.
21:07
So we kind of want to flood our system a little bit more with those VVV vitamins to make sure we’re giving our body plenty of chances to absorb what it actually requires. So this is really where we want to make sure we are opting for the whole grain options more often than not and this can be as simple as you know consuming the brown rice, barley, ferrule, gluten free oatmeal or oatmeal, depending on on who you are and even items like millet. And a lot of times I will bring up grains, and people when you would say grains, oftentimes their heads only go to rice, oatmeal, quinoa. But there’s a lot more grains in there that we can kind of mix and match that are still going to allow us to get those B vitamins. And if you are, really if you’re following like a gluten free diet, of course there’s gluten free options in oats, but you cannot also get these B vitamins from other sources as well, including things like beans or nuts. Those are going to also be excellent sources of B vitamins.
Cori

22:08
I love that you bring up the fact that age impacts things, because, going back to even the protein and our discussion about increasing the amount of protein you’re consuming at each meal, right, age impacts things. We need to recognize that. But we need to stop blaming it and instead just recognize the impact that it has to work around it, because so many of these things, like just increasing the amount of B vitamins we’re taking and just increasing the portion of protein we’re consuming at each meal, can get us the same stimulus, can get us the same results. It just requires us to be willing to evolve as we get older instead of just writing ourselves off, because we are getting older and even with that, I like that you mentioned, like not only the whole grains which you know that was, of course, the focus of this talk about the B vitamins in there but also the other options, because when we go through menopause, you might be trying to cut back on carbs a little bit, but going to more whole grains might allow us to feel very satisfied and full while still getting in, you know, the carbs that we might have enjoyed when we were younger, even in a different form. But if we can’t have those carbs, or we’re cutting carbs or, sorry, cutting gluten, or we’re cutting carbs.
23:09
We can always go to dairy or beans and nuts, so there’s always a way to assess what’s even underlying some of the protocols to make them work for us. So it’s like taking the thing okay okay, I’m going to swap in whole grains okay, whole grains are right for me. B vitamins Okay, how can I include that? Or sleep snack how can I include that, right? So each of these tips, it’s also about being like why is this important which we’re trying to give you guys, but then how can I include this to address what I need, as my needs and goals change as well?
Michelle

23:37
Yeah, exactly, it’s really about adapting and understanding that your lifestyle isn’t going to stay still, so your diet needs to match it.
Cori

23:46
And so, off of that, talking about our lifestyle will evolve A lot of times. When we want to lose fat, we want to build muscle, we want to see that re-comp, we default back into what worked in the past right, but a lot of those previous dieting practices have actually created metabolic adaptations that we’re now trying to reverse to see better results. Talking about this, one of the things we often have clients do if they are trying to lose fat, which goes against what they’ve usually done, is eat more. Can you talk about why not creating too extreme a deficit is really key for our metabolic health and how that can actually improve our fat loss results? Even though we think calories in versus calories out, we need the calorie deficit to lose.
Michelle

24:25
Yeah.
24:25
So this all comes back to your body is going to work within a hierarchy of needs. So if all this setting you are in an extreme calorie deficit, which a lot of people do, because they’re like I’m not getting the results I want, I know to lose weight you need to be in a deficit, so I need to. I need to be in a bigger deficit, so I’m going to eat less. The problem with this thinking is, if you do that too, too much of extreme for too long, you are going to have metabolic adaptations where your body is. It’s not. You’re not wrecking your metabolism per se, but your body is not going to be firing all those chemical reactions at an optimal level. So things like growing your hair, growing nails, skin, cellular turnover, those things are not going to be happening as often for you and because of that, because your body’s going to main goal is going to be focused on having your organs stay functioning, you’re not going to actually be using as many calories, because it’s going to be taking those calories and moving it for it, using it for those direct needs, and because of that, a lot of times people don’t even notice, but they start to do things to naturally reserve those calories for that specific purpose of just maintaining life. So things like talking with your hands, being more willing to walk a little bit extra steps or kind of those you know non exercise activity that we do that burns calories throughout the day. You will naturally just kind of stop doing that. Fidgeting goes down. All these things start to decrease because your body’s trying to take all the calories that it is going to going to have and reserve the calories. So it’s going to signal you to burn less through that other activities and focus it on those things. So because of this, we you actually do better by eating a little bit more. And I think the biggest issue is people will care, will eat more. You’re going to knock me out of a calorie deficit Now. We’re just going to put you in a more appropriate calorie deficit so your body’s going to actually be able to have a higher functioning metabolism so you can do those things like fidget when you’re talking, have a little bit extra energy, and a big thing is is having a little extra energy to actually push it harder in the gym and be able to recover from those workouts better and faster. That’s going to be a huge thing. So it’s really not about knocking you out of the calorie deficit, but it’s about closing that gap so that you, your body, is like, okay, I’m getting fed enough, I can still do these things and we can do these extra things.
26:58
So I always get asked Well, how do you know if your calorie deficit is too large? And of course you know you can go off of a formula to kind of get a rough estimate, but truthfully, I don’t love those formulations because it’s not taking into everything into account. So I really like to go off our body signals. So one if you’re skipping a lot of mills in general just to try to reduce calorie intake, you probably most likely are under eating or setting yourself up for a binge, quite frankly, later. But if you’re eating extremely low calories and for some people lower calories is appropriate, you know, if you’re barely five foot and you don’t do a lot of activity, you can remain kind of in the 1200 calorie range.
27:44
However, most adults need to be above the 1000 calories.
27:48
So if you’re eating below 1000 calories, which I see quite often, you are probably way under eating.
27:56
And then, of course, looking at your energy levels, how hard is it for you to want to get up and do things, whether it is like even talking yourself to get to getting to the gym, or talking yourself up to going on that lock or even moving in general it’s probably because your body’s trying to fight you against it to try and reserve those calories.
28:16
And then, of course, you know I’ve mentioned it but if you have sudden hair loss or if you’re noticing your nails or your hair take forever to grow, it’s probably because that’s your body’s not making that a priority for you and you don’t have enough energy and calories to actually go go to those things. And another big thing that I think often gets overlooked is your metabolism, because it’s all these chemical reactions. A byproduct of those chemical reactions is heat. If you find yourself constantly cold, it’s a good, it’s a good. There’s a good chance that it’s because your body’s not actually able to maintain a healthy and comfortable body temperature, because it’s not. It’s not actually having all those chemical reactions firing off and creating that byproduct of heat.
Cori

29:08
It’s such an interesting thing, right? Because people hear this and be like okay, maybe I am consuming two low calories. Right, they’re like well, I’m eating 800 right now, but I’m not seeing results, because that’s a common thing that people come in with as well. And I bring this up because you mentioned the 1,000 calories and it’s because we’ve trained our body to function off of less. We’ve seen those metabolic adaptations because our body’s like well, heck, I have to find a way to survive off of these 800 calories.
29:32
This is where, too, when we lose weight, we’re not controlling for whether or not we’re losing fat or muscle. And a lot of times we are losing more muscle with those extreme deficits, because muscle costs more energy and so our body’s like if we don’t have this energy coming in, why are we going to expend it for muscle? We want to survive, right? So we’re going to end up losing that muscle in losing weight, which then slows our metabolic rate because we’re not burning as many calories at rest and our body finds a way to function off of those 800 calories.
29:56
So in the eating more process, you might not see the fat loss you want right away. You might actually see you’re even losing inches, as the scale is not budging and you might be like, but I have 50 pounds to lose. How am I losing inches but not seeing the scale change? And it’s because your metabolism is actually increasing. You’re seeing that lean muscle being gained and you’re going to look leaner. So sometimes, in embracing this last metabolism boosting protocol, we really have to realize that there is a retraining process and that the scale if that’s our ultimate goal may not change right away. But we have to do it because otherwise we’re just going to have to keep eating less and it’s like at some point you can’t go down any lower, right.
Michelle

30:34
Yeah and that’s a big conversation I have is where do we go from here? If you hit that next toe in your weight loss journey because everyone does all of a sudden, you can’t throw, like a you know, a mini cut at that issue, because anymore we’re going to be headed into some really scary territory with how low of calories you already are at.
Cori

30:56
Which is why, like if you are finding your low calorie, you might first change your macros before you even increase your calories to help you trust in the process of increasing your calories, or you might have to embrace that that diet break before you can then use the deficit again.
31:09
So it’s not that you’re not in a deficit to lose, but it’s that you’ve got to retrain your body to eat more to be able to use the deficit and get your body functioning at the higher level. And again, like all of these things really relate back to, we’re trying to create the healthiest environment for our body to be able to build muscle, because the more muscle we have on and not talking about getting bulky, but the more muscle we have on the higher metabolic rate, the more energy we’re even going to have to do other things and often the easier it is to see the fat loss results we want and maintain them long term which is something I think we don’t talk about enough is we want to set ourselves up for success with how we adjust our nutrition to see lasting results.
Michelle

31:48
Yeah, it’s all about longevity and that sustainability. A lot of times, if your mindset is, I just need it, I need to look this way for this one wedding date, we really want to break that because I want you to look that way all the time and feeling good about yourself all the time and have a same sustainable approach for that.
Cori

32:07
So, using these tips, we really wanted to help you build that sustainable lifestyle. Make sure that you’re really listening to the why behind everything to see what you need for your best results, for your best lifestyle, for your best body, because there is nuance everything and one size doesn’t fit all. Michelle, any closing thoughts for someone really looking to boost their metabolism, see the best fat loss while gaining lean muscle, even as they’re getting older and feeling like age is fighting against them.
Michelle

32:33
Start with protein. Start somewhere, and number one thing is going to be protein. If you do need to increase your calories, you can also do that by just adding in that extra protein. So that’s really going to be my number one tip, and then from there you can slowly focus on the other items.
Cori

32:51
I love it because, with the thermic effect of protein, you’re going to burn more calories to digest it, which will help you even embrace increasing your calories a little bit more. And again, that high protein diet is the one that has been shown to help you build and retain lean muscle while in a deficit, but also protect you from gaining fat if you go into a slight surplus. So it’s a perfect way to retrain your body to eat more, get an even some beneficial micros and really see sustainable results. Thank you so much, michelle, for joining me today. Thanks for listening to the Finis-Hacks podcast. Again, this is the place where I share all my free workout and nutrition tips. I’m never going to run sponsorships or ask you to buy anything. All I ask in return is, if you’re enjoying the podcast, to leave a rating review or share it with someone you think it might help. This will only take a few minutes and it would mean the world to me and possibly change life with someone you know.

FHP 604 – The Best Workouts For Fat Loss – Strength vs CardioFHP 604 –

FHP 604 – The Best Workouts For Fat Loss – Strength vs CardioFHP 604 –

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Hey guys, it’s Cori from Redefining Strength. Welcome to the Fitness Hacks podcast. This is a show where I share all my free workout and nutrition tips. I’m not going to ever fill this episode with sponsorships or ask you to buy anything. All I ask in return is, if you’re enjoying the podcast, to leave a review or leave a five-star rating or, even better, share it with someone you think it might help. This will only take a few minutes and would mean the world to me and possibly change the life of someone you know. So let’s jump right in.

00:29
The best workouts for fat loss are not necessarily cardio workouts. They might actually be strength workouts, and it’s because, even though your goal may be fat loss, you want to focus on building muscle with your workouts. So often we do think of them just as a chance to burn more calories, and this is ultimately what sabotages our long-term success, because you cannot exercise your diet. You can’t just try and burn more calories, create the deficit through your training alone. You need to adjust your nutrition. So if you want fat loss, you’ve got to adjust your nutrition. But then, when our workouts complement it and all the systems work together, we see better results, faster and lasting results, and part of what helps us see those fat loss results faster from our nutritional changes is the fact that we’re building lean muscle, which helps keep our metabolism healthy. It also means that we don’t have to slash our calories as low, because so often when we cut our calories super low and then we add in more cardio, we end up losing muscle, which means we’re burning fewer calories at rest, which means we need to eat less. Try and keep creating the deficit through our diet. But if we actually focus on building muscle with our training, then we’re going to increase our metabolic rate. We’re going to need to even increase our calories while staying in that deficit, because we’re burning more calories at rest.

01:35
So your focus, if you want to lose weight with your training, should be on building lean muscle, and I wanted to give you six tips to really help you design those workouts that work, because one size doesn’t fit all and we do have to recognize too that it’s not cardio or strength. There’s a whole spectrum and continuum we can really work on or work along as we’re designing our workouts. So just remember that you can get cardiovascular benefits while improving your muscle mass and doing that strength work, and you can also be improving your cardio and also build strength in that aspect too. So there are a lot of different ways you can design to make it really work for your time, your schedule, your goals. Now, I’m not telling you not to do cardio if you are an endurance athlete or you really enjoy it, but if you are solely focused on improving your training regime for fat loss, these tips will help.

02:17
So, number one, see your workouts as a chance to build muscle, which is sort of what I just went over. But I bring this up because I want you thinking about how can I lift heavier, not how can I cut out more rest and feel more slaughtered and see my calorie burn be higher in my watch. The more you are focused on building strength, okay, and then building lean muscle, and that means using a variety of rep ranges. I know often we think I only should go lower rep range or stay in the hypertrophy rep range, but they’ve shown that a diversity is really key, which I’m going to touch on a little bit more shortly. But you want to focus on building strength because as much as yes, maximal strength is that one to five hypertrophy reps, that sort of six to twelve and 15 to 20 is that strength endurance, all those things build together, because if you can lift more weight and move more weight because you’ve worked on maximal strength, you’re gonna move more weight during that hypertrophy of your rep range. You’re just gonna see better results. And if you have that strength endurance, you’re gonna be able to do more reps to failure which is gonna help you recruit more muscle fibers, which is gonna help you see better results as well. Not to mention, you’re gonna recover a lot faster between different rounds of your strength work which will ultimately pay off. So you want to think about how can I build muscles efficiently, which means focusing on loads lifted, okay, and not just making yourself feel completely destroyed. You actually sometimes you want to feel like you’ve recovered so much the next round you can go to true 100% intensity, versus like feeling like the same weights are even heavier than extra on whether to feel light or like you can go up okay and challenge yourself.

03:34
Tip number two is use a diversity of rep ranges and realize pushing to failure is key. They’ve shown that really there’s nothing necessarily magical, but only staying in that six to twelve reps. Well, that can be really good in terms of creating the right training density for you. While moving heavy loads, we do want to use a variety of rep ranges and we can’t say, oh well, I’m trying to get bigger, you know, build muscles, so I’m not gonna do the higher rep ranges. Okay. Often we don’t do that because even myself as a lifter, I like to pick things up and put them down right. I try and avoid higher up ranges on some moves because they’re uncomfortable. But you need those higher rep ranges, especially after heavier lifts, to really work that muscle to failure, failure. But no matter which rep range you use, you want to focus on that failure point. Okay.

04:11
This doesn’t mean you have to feel absolutely destroyed, like you can’t even like lift the weight at all, but it does mean that you can’t just stop because it felt hard and you hit the top of the rep range. That’s actually something I wanted to touch on. Is that double progression? Because I see so often we just think about lifting a heavier weight or using a harder variation and we don’t really understand the nuance and the rep range we’re given. Usually you are given a rep range of three to five if it’s maximal strength, or six to twelve, that if it is in hypertrophy, even eight to twelve to keep you in that higher rep range or 15 to 20, right. And so we’ll say, okay, I can do the top end of the rep range. Great, I felt. Challenge, that’s good.

04:43
But if you can do that top end of that rep range at any point with any weight, you need to go up in weight the next round until you hit even a weight, especially the more experience you are. You can barely do that bottom end of that rep range and maybe even on that final round of that week you can’t do the bottom end of the rep range like I love when a client hits eight reps consistently and on that final round they can’t do eight without a rest pause where they do six and then pause and do eight or two to get that eight, because that means that they really maxed out with that load and took it to failure. And so the next week I might have them stay at that and they might get nine, nine, nine and then finally hit that eight on the last one, right. And then once they work up in that rep range, that we might add loads from there as well, depending on how advanced you are, how much you really want to work on that maximal strength and you feel comfortable with your form or recruitment patterns. You might stay lower in that rep range, consistently, making sure that you’re always sort of adding weight to max out only a rep or two above the bottom. But if you’re hitting that top end of the rep range, I can tell you right now, no matter how hard it feels, you need to go up, okay, and if you can still hit it, go up again. But don’t fear. Also with this, when you’re doing the two different rep ranges or multiple different rep ranges, doing the back-to-back, you want to think about, yes, potentially lifting heavier, doing more compound movements with the lower reps because you can move more loads, and then, as you go over your workout, potentially doing more isolated movements for the higher reps or for the stubborn areas. But you can also think about using things like compound burners where you’re doing that, you know, hypertrophy rep range of even 8 to 12 reps for a compound them. Or you’re going heavier followed by a higher rep move where it’s more isolated, because then you’re really working a muscle group to failure and that work to failure is going to create that muscle growth which will ultimately help you look leaner, be stronger, functionally more fit, have a higher, healthier metabolic rate.

06:18
Okay, and it becomes harder, guys, to build and retain muscle as we get older, because the hormonal stimulus is not as optimal as it was when we were younger. Often we have to make adjustments to our fueling. But we also want to do more in our training. We need almost more of that stressor in our workouts to create the same stimulus for growth and that same muscle building response. Okay, so you got to use those rep ranges. Sometimes you got to do the higher reps. Even if you only like to lift for lower reps, okay, you can’t fear them. But that doesn’t mean going light for those higher rep ranges because you don’t want to turn it just cardio. No weight should ever be light. Okay, even with higher rep ranges. That should challenge you for those reps. So it should always feel heavy for whatever reps you’re doing.

06:54
Tip number three is focus most on compound moves, and I bring this up because isolation exercises are super key for stubborn areas. We need to include them. But so often when we’re short on time, we do those things and then we don’t burn the maximum amount of calories we can. We don’t build the maximal amount of muscle we can. In that time, if you can move a heavier weight, you are going to see more muscle growth from it. Okay, with compound moves, we are using more big, large muscles all at once to move the weight. We’re gonna see better benefits. Okay, that’s why we want to focus on those. However, yes, if you do really want to build more muscle in your arms or build your glutes or build your quads or build a specific aspect, that’s where you’re going to use those isolation moves to help take that muscle group to failure. But if you are especially short on time, focus on those compound movements. They’re bigger bang for your buck. You’re going to move heavier loads and that quality movement of heavier loads is what is going to stimulate muscle growth, stimulate the best metabolic response.

07:44
Then, tip number four don’t do body parts splits. I have no problem if you really can train for hours in the gym because you have the ability to have the rest periods. If you really like that workout design, doing body parts splits where you’re doing chest one day, back another day, arms another day, but this is the least efficient schedule possible. When you’re working some of the smaller muscle groups, you’re really not going to end up burning as many calories in the day. We don’t want our workouts just to be about calories burned. This isn’t optimal if we are looking for efficient workouts to lose fat and gain muscle and create a better hormonal environment, especially as we’re getting older. Think about how you can work more large muscle groups in each and every session. Again, going through menopause, we need to create the stimulus for muscle growth through a bigger stressor. We want to work larger muscles in each session if we can. That might mean we do upper lower to give our body a break. It might mean we do full body splits. Focus more anterior, posterior over the week. We want to think about how can we work at least one or two large muscle groups before we even isolate if we do have stubborn areas. Can’t just do body parts splits if you really want the most efficient thing, especially as you’re getting older.

08:49
Tip number five use cardio strategically. As much as I say, don’t turn your workouts into cardio. As much as I say cardio is not the best thing for fat loss. Even though we tend to turn to it, this doesn’t mean you want to avoid it. Cardio has great health benefits and it can even be used to create the stimulus for growth. We can make it again on that continuum. It doesn’t have to be cardio or strength.

09:08
We can make our conditioning more strength-oriented or we can make our strength work more metabolically oriented by how we include cardio. This might mean doing more circuits where you rest in areas in another area of work so that your blood does get pumping as you’re alternating areas, especially if you’re short on time. That can be great. It can be using intervals over just set reps and sets. Sometimes when we do an interval of work we do more reps than we would have done had we just had eight to 12 reps. We force ourselves to use rest pause technique and eat things out. It does work on that. Strength endurance takes us potentially more to failure. Then we also want to think how can we use sprints even after our strength work, especially when we’re short on time. If we add in that little five-minute burner at the end, that might be more metabolically focused, more conditioning-focused. That’s going to help us recover faster so we can get more out of our strength training routines. It’s going to help us bring that heart rate down faster if we do that conditioning.

09:57
Thank you for the little short intervals. This can be more like sprint training or it can be more like speed training. I’m going to separate those two out because with sprint training, you might have 10 seconds of work with 15, 20 seconds of rest or even only 10 seconds of rest. It might not be a longer rest to work, but you’re keeping those intervals very short so you can go to high intensity even though you’re not fully recovering, which is a great stressor for your body and can really be helpful during menopause. If you want to work on that speed and that true recovery, you’re going to think, how can I do 10 to 30 seconds interval work with two to three times the rest? Because you actually want to be training speed so you don’t fully recover, you’re going to be training slowness because you’re not going to be able to go as fast as you did before. You need that longer rest interval between. Consider even just five to 10 minutes of that sprint work, sometimes after a strength routine. Or consider how you’re designing your strength workouts to be a little bit more metabolically focused with that circuit training, the density sets, or the intervals.

10:48
Then tip number six, do more mobility. This is the least sexy part of it, I know, but the more mobility work you do, the more you’re going to recruit the correct muscles at the correct times as efficiently as possible, which is not only going to help you avoid falls and fractures in everyday life and be more powerful and more explosive, but this really does improve your strength because of the improvements in my body connection, because being stronger is about how quickly and efficiently you can recruit muscles to the right extents, in the right orders, even to the right amount of muscle fibers being called to do the movement. All of that is efficiency in movement, and that’s what strength truly is. It’s not just brute force. The more we do that mobility work, the more we’re able to work through a full range of motion, the more we’re able then to maintain that full range of motion, but the more we’re able to recruit the correct muscles to the correct extents because the joints are fully mobile. It also includes in the mobility work that activation which establishes that my body connection, and activation alone drives muscle growth. It’s been shown to really improve muscle hypertrophy. So not only are we helping ourselves potentially recover, we’re getting more out of our training sessions, and we’re helping ourselves avoid injury, which means we can train more consistently without being sidelined by different things popping up, which helps us see better results faster. So mobility work has a lot of different benefits, from injury prevention to recovery, to being able to actually go harder, even in our sessions, to see better muscle hypertrophy or gains from those sessions.

12:04
Okay, so, using these six tips, start to make small tweaks, to work on design and then make sure you’re designing a weekly progression that you repeat over and over again, because that’s going to show you the best results, because you’re able to build and know what isn’t isn’t working and even track those numbers over time, because that’s the way to track progress. If you’re randomly stringing things together, there might be one week where, because you did it in a different order, you don’t feel as strong or you can’t go up in weight. Okay. And then, even as you’re adjusting your nutrition, you’ll see how your nutrition impacts things, to even know hey, I have gone on more of a mini-cut, my energy is lower, so then I need to still maintain my numbers from the week before. But here’s how I’m going to do it with rest-pause technique or longer rest intervals or whatever else, so that I’m not going backward on my training. But having that clear progression really allows you to drive yourself forward faster, okay. So don’t randomly string things together. Use these six tips to really design workouts that work for you.

12:52
Thanks for listening to the Fitness Hacks Podcast. Again, this is the place where I share all my free workout and nutrition tips. I’m never going to run sponsorships or ask you to buy anything. All I ask in return is, if you’re enjoying the podcast, leave a rating review or share it with someone you think it might help. This will only take a few minutes, and it would mean the world to me and possibly change the life of someone you know.

STOP Sabotaging Your Results…How To Create Lasting Habits

STOP Sabotaging Your Results…How To Create Lasting Habits

You want to lose weight. Gain muscle. Adjust your diet to really feel better…

But creating new habits is HARD.

So many of us have thought…

“I just don’t have the willpower.”

“I don’t have the self control or discipline!”

But what if it isn’t that you don’t have enough willpower or self control?

What if it is that you’ve been approaching how you make workout and diet changes all wrong?

What if you need to embrace that discipline is BUILT?

Because so often we are sabotaging our own results in how we go about making healthy habit changes, I wanted to highlight 6 mistakes I often see clients making and how you can avoid these same issues!

The first mistake most of us make when looking to work toward a new goal is not first pausing to assess where we are at CURRENTLY.

So often when we want to lose weight or gain muscle we look for what we “should” be doing.

But searching for some ideal workout routine or diet is often what keeps us stuck in this yo-yo dieting cycle, never really seeing results build.

Because often we aren’t considering whether those ideals are actually even doable right for us right now or even sustainable.

And while we do need to embrace change if we want a new and better result, the more these changes are far from what we are doing currently, or what we feel capable of doing, the less likely we are to even do them or stick with them.

Often in trying to make these massive changes far outside our comfort zone all at once, we also just ultimately overwhelm ourselves and stop ourselves from even starting!
Instead approach making changes like you would approach driving to a new destination.

You not only enter your destination into your GPS. You put in your current location.

This gives you the fastest, most accurate route.

So before you start to make any changes and create a plan, really understand where you are starting from.

What does your lifestyle look like? What is a schedule that is realistic for you?

What are easy changes you could easily make today based on your routine and habits?

When you truly take a look at your lifestyle, you can make the changes YOU.

One size doesn’t fit all and by knowing ourselves we can find the things that will yield the biggest impact for us personally over wasting energy making changes that really don’t matter for our situation!

And then start with something SMALL first to get that momentum building.

Because that is often the second mistake I see clients making…and one I’ve made myself a ton…

We don’t start small.

I don’t know about you, but when I want a goal, I want it yesterday.

So often in my attempts to get results as fast as possible, I try to do everything at once.

But this can not only lead to me overwhelming myself, but also burning myself out on all the new things I have to do.

This is often what causes me to feel like I just don’t have the willpower or self control to keep implementing all the new habits.

But really it is just too many big things all at once.

By breaking down habits and even starting with the smallest changes that meet me where I’m at currently, I find results more easily snowball without me falling off my plan or feeling constantly stressed out.

So today write out all of the things you “could” do to make a change and circle the easiest one.

Do that.

Don’t worry about the other changes that you should or will eventually have to make.

Focus on one you can do right now.

The success of getting started, of moving past that first hurdle, will lead to you even WANTING to do more.

And this focus on small changes can even help us embrace the fact that often something is better than nothing.
I mean how often do you just simply skip a workout because you can’t get to the gym for a full session and think, “What’s the point of just doing 5 minutes?”

But if instead we had the view of one small thing adds up, we may do that 5 minutes anyway.

And not only may that 5 minutes lead to a 30 minute workout, it is also still 5 more minutes done that week than we would have done otherwise.

And 5 minutes more, week after week, adds up!

So focus on small changes.

Especially changes that don’t mean restricting the things you love most first!

Because that is a BIG mistake many of us make…

We cut out all of the things we love first.

We often do this because the things we generally like the most are lifestyle habits that are the least healthy for us or the most in opposition to our goals.

For me…dessert was always what sabotaged me.

I loved dessert.

But I also knew those high calorie, carb and fat loaded foods, were probably working against my body recomp efforts.

So because it was the most obvious thing to cut out, I would always restrict that first.

But the second I cut out dessert, I found myself wanting even more.

I would look at dessert food porn constantly on Instagram. It took over my feed.

And eventually, I would give in and not only eat the dessert I was craving…I would eat until I had food twins and couldn’t sleep I was so full.

Then I would struggle to make any diet changes again for awhile and end up not only regaining any weight I lost but even more.

It was only once I stopped that cycle and planned in my dessert FIRST that I was able to make changes that snowballed.

I first focused on ADDING in more protein over cutting things out.

I focused on small swaps to foods I didn’t care about as much, using a lower carb tortilla over a regular.

Swapping in greek yogurt with more protein for a regular yogurt.

Changing up berries for mangos in a smoothie.

Little things to hit my macros that didn’t make me feel like I couldn’t have something.

And on top of deciding to make those changes, I realized how much I could work in whenever I wanted which made when I DID cut something out really feel like a CHOICE.

Because often when we are looking to lose weight or make a change, we feel like we are being FORCED to do things we don’t want to do.

But…who’s forcing you?

Often NO ONE is technically making us do those things.

We are CHOOSING to.

But we don’t see it that way as it feels like we HAVE to do certain things to see results. We’ve been conditioned to believe that dieting means deprivation.

And this is a big part of what hinders us from making lasting changes…OUR MINDSET.

We need to recognize that mindset matters most.

As odd as that sounds, this is mistake that holds us back from seeing results…

We put this emphasis on new tactics, macros, workouts, meal timing, best moves…

But we never consider our mindset behind the changes.

And I can tell you, you can have a less than perfect plan and see results if your mindset is in the right place.

Or you can have the perfect plan and never move forward because mentally you hold yourself back.

As cliche as it is….

Whether we believe we can or we can’t, we’re right.

We can doom ourselves with doubt or help ourselves achieve amazing results because we trust in the process.

But just blindly believing in something is hard to do. What if it doesn’t work?

So often nothing really HAS worked, so why should this?

This is why we need to realize that we can create motivation through actions.

We can MAKE ourselves feel successful by how we approach change.

This means boiling things down into easy to manage bite-sized actions that allow us to get moving forward and feel successful right away.

Instead of overwhelming yourself with a ton of changes you feel bad at so you don’t want to do them any more, take one action that would make you feel successful and start with that.

Because when we feel successful with what we are doing, we want to do more. And we become open to bigger and harder changes.

We build confidence in our ability to even overcome.

So start small with actions you know you can do…even easily…

Maybe it’s 2 10 minute workouts.

Just writing down your food.

Just eating one more serving of veggies.

But realize you can create that motivation by allowing yourself to make those small changes that meet you where you are at.

And this motivation will allow you to BUILD.

Because so often we jump to trying to do everything we “should” be doing over trying to stack behaviors.

This is what leads to us falling off and feeling like we’re constantly not strong enough…like we just don’t have the willpower or self control to make the changes we need to see results.

But instead…

We need to focus on that habit build.

What’s one small habit you can do right now?

Can you go drink a glass of water to improve your hydration?

Now once you add in that glass of extra water every day this week, how can you build off of that habit?

Can you add in another?

Can you now move to adding in 1 more ounce of protein to your lunch?

Can you then make a swap to another food in a meal to lower carbs or increase them?

The more you make habits that allow you to stack more off of them, the more you will prepare yourself to make bigger and bigger changes.

And 1% improvements add up the more you make.

So while it may not yield the immediate sexy results you want, it creates a snowball that ultimately leads to better results long term and ones that truly last.

Now…just because you’re making small changes and avoiding cutting out the things you love most first…

This doesn’t mean that everything will always feel easy or fun.

Too often we try to oversell changes to ourselves.

We tell ourselves this program will be soooo easy or fun.

That this is the best lifestyle EVER.

Instead of recognizing that there is a downside to every upside.

Not embracing the negative is a BIG mistake.

This is often why we feel like there must be something wrong with us when we can’t make changes other people have made.

But the only thing wrong is that we didn’t recognize that doing something different than what we’ve always done WON’T always be easy or fun!

I mean…why should something feel easy to start?

It is new…

It is awkward…

We’re probably bad at it…

It isn’t what you’ve always done.

Things outside our comfort zone, many habits we do to get a great result, simply aren’t sexy or cool.

I mean who wants to wake up with an alarm?
No one. But who wants to miss their 4 am flight to their beach vacation?!

That’s a downside to the upside.

And there are lots of those.

But the more you do those habits, the more you don’t even think of them in a negative way.

They are just the downside to the upside.

The cost to get the reward.

So if a change right now feels unsustainable, don’t just give up on it.

Assess the benefit it is providing. Consider if it COULD be worth it enough to give it a chance.

Then realize that just because it is awkward now, doesn’t mean at some point it won’t feel good or at least be tolerable and WORTH IT.

We need to recognize that what feels sustainable right now is simply what you’ve always done until you’ve given the new habits and behaviors time.

Because often if we embrace that things can stink a bit to start and we push through that immediate mental barrier, we’ll see results snowball and find ourselves thinking…

“Why didn’t I make these changes sooner?” as the habits become normal and even enjoyable!

Changing habits is hard.

And often we are our own worst enemy.

We sabotage ourselves in how we approach making changes.

But by understanding these 6 mistakes, you can help yourself avoid them and see results snowball!

Apply to my Online 1:1 Coaching if you need that kickstart to see the results you deserve and avoid these mistakes!

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FHP 603 – Happy National Quitter’s Day

FHP 603 – Happy National Quitter’s Day

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Hey guys, this Cori from from Redefining Strength. Welcome to the Fitness Hacks podcast. This is a show where I share all my free work on the nutrition tips. I’m not going to ever fill this episode with sponsorships or ask you to buy anything. All I ask in return is, if you’re enjoying the podcast, to leave a review or leave a five-star rating or, even better, share it with someone you think it might help. This will only take a few minutes and would mean the world to me and possibly change the life of someone you know. So let’s jump right in. So I quit. How many times have we just given up on something right before results are actually going to snowball so often? And January 12th 2024 is National Quitter’s Day. Michelle brought this to my attention actually last night and we decided we had to do a episode on this because so often we are the ones sabotaging our own results by giving up when something might actually working. So, michelle, with bringing this up, I want you to dive into what you think is often the culprit behind us saying I quit.
I think one of the biggest issues is we tend to put so much pressure on the month of January to start and actually implement things, and I think it’s a good reminder, like, as long as you’re trying and you’re trying to improve, it doesn’t need to happen in January, it doesn’t need to. All the change doesn’t need to happen this month. We have a whole year and you don’t need to wait an entire year if something does fail. You just need to readjust and kind of stay on track. So that’s kind of the first thing is don’t put so much pressure on getting everything right in the month of January.
I think that goes for even any other time as well, and I want to sort of bring this out to any time we want to start a goal right, because while the New Year’s resolutions are that time where we’re often most motivated to make big changes, at any point we want to make a change. We do often put our like this pressure on ourselves to be perfect, and so often then that first little deviation makes us give up when we don’t recognize all the changes that were already happening. Right, we were good for like 12 days, 11 days already, or even, if it wasn’t perfectly consistent, eight days. We may change it in eight days and we don’t recognize that we met, recognize the one day that wasn’t perfect, which then says, well, why do anything right, but something is still better than nothing. And the more we try and get consistent with those things, the longer we stick with it. Often the more things build, because we don’t necessarily always need more tactics, we need more time.

Yeah, and that kind of goes into. My next thing too is so many, so often we just take on too much and it’s more than we can chew. Like if you are someone that’s like, okay, I’m getting into exercise, I’m going to hit the gym seven days a week, but the week before you were hadn’t even, hadn’t even gone once, Like that probably isn’t the most realistic goal for you to set. So it’s also just being like, like you mentioned, like we want things to snowball. So if you’re doing a little bit better than you were the previous week, that’s still a win.

But we don’t celebrate necessarily the small improvements because they don’t feel sexy, they don’t lead to the fad-dye results, but they do lead to lasting results and discipline is built.

We’ve had this conversation. A lot like discipline is built, but it’s built on being able to do something and repeat that something for long enough that then you can build more off of it. Because then if you’ve increased let’s just say like 10 grams of protein, and then you can increase the next week 10 more grams and then 10 more grams after that all of a sudden you’re up 30 grams of protein daily. And so then, if you do have life getting the way, there’s a lot more likelihood that you’ll still be up 10 grams, even if you don’t hit your 30 goal, than you would have been had you tried to go to 30 all at once and never sort of slowly built up, because you make those lows less low by sort of building and stacking off of them, because it makes it so easy to replicate a little bit less than what we’re doing currently right, which is often higher than where we were at. So it’s really that habit stack and those 1% improvements that add up.

Yeah, and that’s exactly it you have to recognize and we don’t give ourselves enough credit because we are our worst critics you have to pause and give yourself that recognition and that gold star when there has been an improvement. If your goal was to hit the gym seven days a week and you hit it five, that’s still a lot better than the week before. So really recognizing those 1% differences and even though that 1% may not seem like a big change, it is and it can really add up.

And not only can it add up in a positive direction, but it can also hold us back when we don’t recognize some of the deviations that are sort of play in. Because I think another thing that leads to us saying I quit is that we don’t see changes happening fast enough and we feel like we’re working really, really hard right, because even small changes can feel a little overwhelming and the pain of staying stuck has to outweigh the pain of change and sometimes, when the pain of change is really pushing back, it’s hard to keep doing things right. So we get this feeling of, well, I’m working so hard and not seeing the results I deserve, and we start to overlook those inconsistencies. And I’d actually brought up on an earlier call we were doing, you know, the 1% deviations and how much they can really add up. So if we think we’re doing all the right habits but we don’t look at the actual consistency, we might not notice that we’re slowly going off course. And Ryan made us Google the example, so I didn’t butcher it, which I might still butcher it anyway.

But if you’re on a flight from JFK to Tokyo, right, and you’re just off by that one degree, that 1%, you’ll end up in the middle of the ocean instead of getting to your destination, which would not be good. Right, we don’t want to land in the middle of the ocean. And the same thing happens with our goals. If we’re off by that 1%, what might not seem like a big deal of not logging one meal or one snack or one bite, lick or nibble right, all of a sudden becomes two or a whole day unlocked or other things going to play in. So all of a sudden, we’re nowhere near the habits we once thought we were doing, even if we’re doing just enough to feel like we’re working hard with them. So it’s this weird thing of like the feelings aren’t data sort of, so to speak, but also 1% deviations that lead us, off course, to feel like we’re working hard but not seeing results snowball, yeah, and you really.

And part of that is to truly have success, you have to be very specific with your goal. So it’s not. You know, you hear so often like, oh, I’m going to eat healthier, I’m going to exercise more, okay, that’s great. How, how often are you going to go to the gym? What workouts are you actually going to do? If you’re going to eat healthier, where are you going to start? What’s going to be your main focus?

So often people generalize these goals and I think truly, we tend to go off of goals that we feel like everyone is doing and we want to fit the mold.

And it is recognizing that sometimes that probably isn’t going to work for you because you have to individualize it. It’s fine to have health goals and of course, we want everyone to have health goals and improve, but you have to individualize that health goal for you. So if all of a sudden, you’re like, okay, you know, my friends are all doing this goal and their goal is to hit X amount of protein throughout the day, that’s great For you. Probably the main focus is this is the meal that I struggle the most to get my protein at. I’m going to focus here first to start increasing my protein needs, and that is really kind of the big thing of trying to avoid that white knuckling your way through whenever you’re trying to do anything new or trying to create new habits is being extremely specific with it and, as you mentioned, like even if you’re off on other days or even if you’re didn’t get a complete day done, you still have that specific thing that you hit for that day.

But it’s even in having that very specific goal, you’ll notice those one-present deviations to correct course before you just completely keep making them. And on top of that, I love that you bring up how okay. I think that question is something we don’t ask enough. And I don’t have the devil and the angel on my shoulder. I have an annoying little kid poking at me being like how, why, how, why Right? Anytime I’m like looking at something and I want to write something off or give up on something, I always go back to that questioning too. And the how question, I think, is so important because we say I want to increase my protein Cool. That’s a great habit to focus on. How right? Well, I’m going to eat more protein and meal. Okay, how right.

The more we break it down and give ourselves something specific to do, the easier we make things.

And going back to that whole pain of staying stuck has to outweigh the pain of change.

Right, if our goal is significant to us, we’re going to embrace more sacrifices, but at some point priorities in life are going to make it feel not as significant, not as worthwhile, especially if the pain of some of the changes become really uncomfortable with other stressors we have going on in life and if that happens, instead of trying to find a way to make you know your goal more significant to yourself which sometimes we can’t do, we can’t feel the potential of even having achieved it we have to break down those habits so they’re less painful, so to speak. So it feels like we’re making less sacrifices because all stress goes in one bucket and if that bucket is overflowing with stress, you can’t just keep putting more stuff in right and some of the priorities in life stresses in life you’re not going to be able to necessarily stop, but you can make those changes less stressful so that you can still do more of them than you would do otherwise. So it is breaking things down and really personalizing, as you said.

And what I really like about this too is like, if you are right now in that state of mind where you’re like I have not been hitting my new year’s resolution goals or whatever, if you’ve attempted a new habit at any point and you’re like I’m just not hitting it, instead of having the mindset of like well, I’m just going to quit, I’m giving up, it’s too hard, have the mindset of okay, this has been difficult, I’m on the verge of quitting. I need to reevaluate and truly kind of take stock of what is going to be the most beneficial for you that’s going to still give you some of those wins but is taking into consideration where you’re actually at in your life, where you are, how you are handling with current stressors, and sometimes taking a step back and kind of having an easier goal is still going to help you work towards, you know, that finish line.

And even taking that step back and saying, hey, I often say nothing will ever work for me. Right, with the I quit it usually comes nothing ever works for me, no program will ever work for me. Trust me, I’ve done that whole moop pow, feel bad for myself, you know, go sit on the couch thing. And often in that moment, in order to truly move forward and see the results of all, sometimes I have to be like am I just repeating the same pattern? Am I saying I quit, nothing will ever work for me? But is nothing ever working? Because at this point, six weeks into something about six to nine weeks, is where I find I usually fall off, or where even clients generally fall off.

At that point where you’ve worked hard enough for long enough and results, yes, I’ve snowballed, but either you’ve gotten a little complacent or maybe they’re just about to sort of really hit that momentum point right. We give up, we quit before things can actually be achieved. And so I like to assess is this that stick point? Is that this is that hard point where I want to give up, where the challenges are becoming a little more than I truly want? How can I double down on the things that are working to keep pushing through, because often, if we do sort of stop and assess, it is just that hard point in that journey where you’re over that initial motivation. You’ve been doing things long enough, you’ve seen results snowballed, maybe they’re slowed, you’ve gotten complacent, whatever else, but things have slightly slid and you have the opportunity now to sort of refocus, reset, keep pushing forward. But so often we turn back and it is that like assessment and that setback we really need to take to realize that we’re repeating sort of the same cycle.

And sometimes I think it requires an outside perspective to see if you are falling victim to the same cycle that you’ve repeated that has caused you to fall off. Because sometimes, again, we think we know how to do things and we think that we have it figured out and we know, like we know, the basics of, okay, to be healthier, to exercise more, to do all these things. This is what it takes. But again you kind of take your own perspective out of it at it and sometimes hearing other people be like, hey, this is a challenge, this is, this is one way that I stick to my diet or this is one way that I make sure that I am in improving my movement or getting the most out of my workouts, is actually relying on others for help.

I think so often we we want to kind of struggle on our own and I think part of that is we don’t want to share our struggles with others because we feel like we should kind of be able to take care of our own body. But there’s so there’s so many people out there. That just gives a different outlook. So this is really where I think coaching honestly, if you were someone that’s really feeling like you’re really struggling. This is really where coaching comes into play, because that we can. You can get that outside perspective and kind of potentially get new tips that you hadn’t even really thought. Or maybe it was so basic that you’re like oh yeah, I’ll do that, but you never actually do because you haven’t seen it actually put in a plan to work.

It’s hard to trust a change that feels really uncomfortable and we do search for this thing that’s sustainable. But what’s sustainable is what we’ve always done. And if you really think about that phrase, when you look back at something, oh that wasn’t that bad, it’s because you embrace the hard changes. But at the time it probably felt really uncomfortable and wasn’t sustainable. And I think even in that, like looking for that accountability, we need that outside perspective at times, because we’re really good at justifying our excuses. I know I am that that whole. But well, I could just buy, you know. But even with coaching it was actually funny someone posted on there how do you become more coachable? And I, you know, went through different things and she’s like, yeah, this is all well and good, but, right, we put in that.

But to justify almost not making a change, because change is scary, it’s hard, we don’t want to fail, right.

We don’t even sometimes realizing, realize we’re justifying because we are going back to priorities or things that have held us back in the past, realizing that ultimately, still, it’s really our choice as to whether or not we make a change and view something differently. And, you know, take that different perspective, embrace coaching in a new way. Right, and tell you, for me it was a hard thing, oddly, to do after growing up with a lot of coaching, for some reason, you know, as I got into adulthood I was like, oh, I don’t need a coach for this, I can do it on my own. Okay, well, sure, but look at how much time I just wasted when I could have had a cheat sheet. And now I’m like I won’t work with a coach who doesn’t believe in coaching, because I want someone who has that, because also makes you a better learner. Right, it’s more coachable. But it is something where we are very good at justifying our perspective, like it’s a safety mechanism. So if we don’t have that outside perspective, sometimes we can’t see and know what we don’t know.

And I think a big part of getting that outside perspective is and this is probably gonna ruffle some feathers but if your main goal and your only like way of seeing if you’re successful or not is weight loss, I’m gonna say it’s gonna be a lot harder for you because every I have not had a person come to me for help that has said Okay, my goal isn’t weight loss. I’ve never had that like. Even when they’re like Well, I’m not that concerned about about the scale, but I do want to improve. They still are looking at those clients Even are still stepping on the scale and using it as a form of okay, is this working? Is this not working? But the problem is is Rarely, is the skill actually the reason so truly. I think sometimes having that outside perspective Forces you to kind of have some Interpection in her may have said that word wrong but and actually look within to see well, what is the real reason.

Because I mean, of course, like a scale is a good and can be an indicator. But why do you truly want to have a chain? Are you just going for weight or are you trying to gain muscle? Is it really to reduce chronic joint pain and you know if you’re at a little less weight you’re going to have, you’re gonna be more flexible You’re you’re not gonna have as much pain. Is it to have more energy or a body that’s able to do things that you enjoy longer, like hiking, biking, playing or playing? You know, playing with your kids, playing with your grandkids there’s so much more than just the kind of the surface level and I do think, like you know, we talked about that newest perspective of getting in the habit. But sometimes I feel like really getting down to the core, why you’re here or why you initially wrote those changes down. That is going to help you actually stay focused on that goal and Raise.

Recently, for me, I’ve been thinking more of things and I heard it somewhere and I don’t remember I may have been one of our coaches actually said it and it kind of stuck with me on A call, but it’s what are you putting your deposit in for?

So every day you have your, you have that, these funds that you’re given, and you’re either depositing in for your health or you’re kind of depositing, you know, kind of the negative, like you’re putting this, you’re dropping this in kind of the negative bucket, and this has been kind of a shift for me recently, and this is kind of a silly thing.

But I have a race that I want to sign up for and my husband was kind of challenging me because he’s like well, remember, the last two races you signed up for, you didn’t train and you just kind of jumped in, which is true, and I would never suggest anyone to do that, but I felt I felt victim to that and so part of my new year’s thing was like, okay, I’m gonna prove to him that, like I’m gonna be serious about my training and I have like a mileage goal this this month. And it was kind of like every time I get on the treadmill or go out to run, I feel like I’m putting my deposit in for my race, like I was like putting this in so I can buy this race later, and it’s kind of having that perspective with your health in general. You’re putting your deposit in so you can Continue to do things longer that you enjoy, you can continue, continue to have that active lifestyle for as long as possible. I.

Love that visual and I even think that that could be something helpful, where you do your habit and you put, maybe, a deposit in a piggy bank or you put a rock in a jar so that you can see those results accumulating. But it’s it’s Recognizing too that, like what you think your, your goal is, isn’t necessarily the only significance to it. Like even a goal that we might decide is, you know, people say it’s vain or oh, that’s, you know, not that important, it doesn’t impact them any things. Like a lot of times, those do have more significance and the more we dig into them, the more we will embrace some of the hard changes we have to make, which helps us stay more consistent. So really digging deep into your why is very, very important. But then setting those outside things to keep you accountable, right, like you have that habit goal so that you’re training for the race, yes, yes, which is motivational, it’s your end goal. Right, it’s a deadline, which are all great things. But you have those habit focuses each and every week to help you see success.

Because the more ways we measure success, the more ways we have to show ourselves the success we’re actually achieving, versus so often we don’t recognize it and I think even a part of that is so often we run from the negative spot we might have been in right, those before pictures we don’t want to share or whatever else.

And instead of running from them, instead of not wanting to take them, take them and keep them in your rear view mirror, keep that perspective of how far you’ve actually come, because I think so often it’s just like, oh, I don’t want to be here, okay, but that shows you the distance of your progress already, to keep you moving forward, to get more space between it. Whereas if we lose that perspective Like what is the saying? Like if you don’t learn from history, you’re bound to repeat it. Right, we don’t repeat it. So we want to keep how far we’ve gone, to give ourselves that perspective, because it’s very easy to get caught up in just how much further we have to go. So I think the habit goal is the visuals, the reminder where we started, and really owning the significance of what we want is just so freakin key.

Yeah, and it’s like, like we’ve mentioned multiple times, but it’s never just giving up and not having that all or nothing mindset, like you said. Like keep things in your, in your rear-view mirror and but don’t be afraid, if you do backslide, you can always take that step forward, or that two steps forward.

More like a side step right, we make the mistake. Besides step around, we keep moving forward. Life isn’t a video game where you get to start over and Know all the lessons you’ve learned and just go from the beginning fresh, start right. Everything we’ve done prior is still there, so we just have to keep moving forward, learning those lessons to constantly improve. Thanks for listening to the Finisax podcast again. This is the place where I share all my free workout and nutrition tips. I’m never gonna run sponsorships or ask you to buy anything. All I ask in return is, if you’re enjoying the podcast, to leave a rating review or share it with someone you think it might help. This will only take a few minutes and it would mean the world to me and possibly change life of someone you know.
FHP 602 – The Real Secret To Success

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Hey guys, this is Cori from Redefining Strength. Welcome the Fitness Hacks Podcast. This is the show where I share all my free workout and nutrition tips. I’m not going to ever fill this episode with sponsorships or ask you to buy anything. All I ask in return is, if you’re enjoying the podcast, to leave a review or leave a five-star rating or, even better, share it with someone you think it might help. This will only take a few minutes and would mean the world to me and possibly change the life of someone you know.

So let’s jump right in. I was trying to think about what the real secret to building a lifestyle, the secret to success, really was, and in reflecting on it I realized that’s the secret to success: Constant reflection and constantly trying to improve that self-awareness. So when we’re thinking about building a lifestyle, it’s always about assessing who and what we are and what we need to move forward from where we’re at currently.

I think so often we do set that end goal. We set a vision of what a program should look like if you find some ideal but we never actually consider who am I, what do I need, how do I respond to things and where am I starting from currently to set that GPS so I can actually achieve the location that I want to go to.

So if you’re just starting out, if you’ve been struggling to see the results that you want, instead of searching for a new perfect plan, instead of trying to fit yourself into some mold, assess what mold do I really need, based on who and what I am. Focus on building that self-awareness.

I tell clients all the time in the coaching program I don’t even want you to come out of this coaching program so much saying I know how to do this macro ratio or I know how to do this workout and I know that prehab is important, as important as prehab is. I want them to come out having a better self-awareness because they’ve had that outside perspective to question some of their beliefs. Because so often we do get caught up in making the same mistakes, because we’re not really reflecting on why those setbacks have occurred.

We get caught up in looking at things in the same way we always have, because that’s what potentially worked in the past, even if it was a short-term fix. So if we’re trying to build a lifestyle, we have to recognize that things are constantly going to be evolving and changing and shifting and that the most important thing we can do is say, hey, how is what I’m doing right now truly? How am I truly responding to it? How is it truly moving forward? Is it actually moving me forward?

Right? And the more we reflect on how things are truly working, the better off we’re going to be, because then we can say, hey, at this stage of life maybe with it being the busy season of work or busy season with family I can’t do these same things that once worked. I’ve had even clients say you know, like when I was single, I was doing all these workouts and I was going to the gym and meal probably in this way, and now, with the family, it doesn’t work this way. Or when I had kids, at this stage it was different than now being retired and potentially having a lot more free time, where you think it would be easier.

It’s not right, but different stages of life require us to do different things and what used to work may no longer work simply because of those lifestyle shifts. So the more we can assess what we need at this time, the better off we’re going to be.

So through self reflection, we can really learn about ourselves and it’s not just saying, oh well, how do I like this, is this good? Or? Oh, this doesn’t feel sustainable. Right? We have to reflect on both our failures and our successes, and I say both because I think a lot of times we think we’ve reflected on things, but we haven’t truly really gotten into the nitty gritty of why things worked or why they didn’t. And with success, often we blow past it oh great, that worked, we achieved a result. We don’t say, well, why did that work?

Right? So the first thing I want you to sit down and do if you are starting a new program, a new plan, you’re frustrated by your lack of results. You want to see better results is really assess past successes. Why do you think you succeeded in that case? Why did something work for you? Why did that diet feel sustainable at that time, right? Maybe you do say, okay, what was the motivation of the time of year? Or I didn’t have some of the busyness that I have right now.

Think about what your lifestyle actually looked like when you were implementing that program or plan or doing those different things that led to success. What was even your pain of staying stuck? I think a lot of times we don’t think about the motivation that drove us forward at the time, right, that we maybe had some health concerns, or that we really couldn’t fit into our clothes, or that someone else made a comment that really resonated with us, right?

And so the motivation now is different than it was then, which might not drive us forward. Or even thinking about the changes that happen with menopause and the frustrations there. Maybe this pain is very different than the pain when you lost weight before, right? Or even you’re seeing impacts to your mood and your sleep and all these different things, and that is impacting the pain of staying stuck.

So think about these different things, because while we can’t always change the pain of staying stuck, and if that motivation is different, we can’t approach in the same way we can break down the habits, so the pain of change is less. So really assess what drove you forward at that time. How might that be different than what’s driving you forward right now?

And then think about the guidance and support you had. Who did you have in your life that was maybe promoting those healthy habits? Who even led to the sabotage of them, right? But think first about the success, like what drove you forward? Who helped you on your way? What were you reading? What were you looking at? What videos were you watching?

Even what helped lend itself to you feeling motivated and sticking with things through times that were tough. But think about the support. Think about your family, how they contributed, how maybe you’ve let some of those healthy habits even slide and how you can go back to that right. Think about the differences in your life and even your friendship groups that might be impacting things.

But think about what really made you successful in terms of the accountability and support and then think about what was the hardest change. So what was the hardest change that you made? That you succeeded and pushed through the pain of, or pushed through the discomfort of, and got more comfortable being uncomfortable in that way, like, how did you actually overcome those challenges that you saw in the past?

Because as much as we look back and say, well, I succeeded, then you know what’s wrong with me now. There was something that was hard that you managed to overcome beforehand, Even when we look back and say, oh, it wasn’t that bad. Right, there was something hard, there was something different than what you were doing, because in order to see a new and better result, we have to embrace change. So think about how did I overcome those challenges? What were they? How did I overcome them?

And then think would that still be a challenge now? Is that part of why I’ve struggled to see a lifestyle truly built? Is that that was a challenge that I could only overcome short term? So think, would that still be a challenge for you now? Because if it is, and maybe it’s something that you did overcome for a really long time and now you can see, okay, well, this is how my lifestyle shifted, this is how I can overcome this again. You can use that previous knowledge of your success to help you overcome the same challenge or obstacle now. And if you know it isn’t an obstacle now, even better.

Right, you can move forward on to the next thing. But at least we won’t repeat the same mistake, because we’ll be learning from the past and then think how can you use even the lessons that you’ve learned from past challenges, that you’ve overcome past hard changes, to overcome something new now? A lot of times I might be reflecting on okay, well, this is how I really overcame that, not just like, oh, I didn’t eat carbs and I lost weight, type thing, right, but okay, I had the emotional eating problem and you know, with doing this, I made myself more aware of my patterns that I repeated I tried to do distress or prior, so how can I now attribute that to?

Okay, I need to create new systems of my workouts. So maybe I need to write it down because that helped me, and maybe I need to make it conscious that I’m going to my workouts. So I’m going to put an alarm that alerts me, because that visual or that you know reminder right in front of my face really helped make an unconscious pattern conscious, where I’m defaulting to the couch instead of going to workout, right?


So, think about the strategies that you might have implemented with some of those past challenges and how you can even utilize those in different forms to overcome future challenges. Then, think about how you’d meet yourself where you’re at? Because the best changes always happen when we meet ourselves where we’re at currently.

So, how did you break things down to really address what you needed then? Because if you had just been self-controlling and willpowering your way through, those changes probably weren’t sustainable, and that might be something you need to reflect on if that’s why you’re now back in this situation you don’t want to be in.

But think about times you have really succeeded, even if it’s not a weight loss journey or a fitness journey. Think about other areas of your life where you’ve seen the success snowball that you really want in a new area of your life and apply those same principles. Think about how you broke things down to allow yourself to move forward from where you’re at currently. Again, assessing your lifestyle now, like what changes would actually meet you where you’re at. How did you go about making those changes? How did you keep positive mindsets when setbacks occurred? Like what research or learning did you do to help yourself embrace the changes and move forward and trust in the process?

But start to really assess your successes, learn from them. Don’t just blow past them, saying, “Woohoo, good job, I did a habit. Now it’s ingrained, I’m going to keep moving forward.” Think, why do those habits become so easy to repeat? Why are you now looking back at some of those struggles and thinking, “Oh, that wasn’t that bad?” Really assess your successes and then reflect on failures. Okay, I know it’s not fun sometimes to really reflect on why we haven’t seen the results we wanted, why we made that mistake, but the more we can say, “Okay, this is why this happened,” the more we can learn from it and actually leap forward faster. I like to say that failures are just learning. With frustration, they stink. I’m not going to tell you that I like failing, but I can tell you they have been some of the most valuable learning experiences. So I do embrace them as that. You can throw a little temper tantrum when they first happen, but then the second you can go back and reflect on them.

So, in reflecting on failures, think about: Why do you feel you failed? What was the situation that led to the failure? What was the mindset? What were the actions? You know what wasn’t realistic in your plan? Were you cutting out non-negotiables, things you really enjoyed? Were you not owning your priorities? Were you not allowing for changes with changes in the season? Were you trying to only rely on motivation and willpower and not meeting yourself where you’re at? Why do you feel like you failed?

And then think about were you too focused on some ideal? Because I think that happens, right? We see, you know, on social media, especially all these ideals, six days a week, two hours a day in the gym. Do this, this, this, this, this, this, this, this, these bazillion different things. Right, don’t eat this with this, only eat it with that. Right, there are so many details that we can dial in, which is an opportunity, okay, to make things really work for us. But the first thing we need to know is what do we need? Where are we at? Because if we’re trying to force a round peg into a square hole, it’s not going to work. It’s going to be really hard. Maybe we can make it fit for a little while, but it’s not really the right fit.

So, instead of focusing on an ideal, focus on where you’re at and how you can move forward and make better over focusing on just the perfect. And then how would you change the habits you implemented in the past, what habits simply weren’t sustainable or what may have been too much, because sustainable is an interesting word. It might not feel sustainable to start because it’s not what you’ve always done, but you can build up to it feeling sustainable through repetition and consistency. But in order to be consistent with something, we have to be able to do it daily. So if you said, hey, you know, I want to really track macros and I want to track a specific ratio, and every other time you’ve tried to do it, you’ve fallen off within a couple of weeks, well, how did you approach that? Were you trying to force the macros right away and get overwhelmed? Is there something like a minimum of just protein or an increase of protein that you could focus on first, or just tracking to implement that habit? How could you break down those changes to make them less overwhelming so that the pain of staying stuck outweighs the pain of change instead of the pain of change pushing back on you? Think about, you know, how can you even draw on some of your self-reflection in your goals, like I love, setting those strong systems, right, finding the significance, putting targets, creating repeatable actions, optimizing and owning those challenges, setting non-negotiables and then creating that action plan. How can you use your goals to really drive you forward? Or where was there a lack of potentially that, a self-assessment in the past that didn’t allow you to meet yourself where you’re at?

And then, how was your mindset different there from when you’ve succeeded? Often we relate back to only the habits we implemented. Oh, I did this diet plan. Oh, I did this workout right, I had this system that didn’t work Instead of saying, well, what was the mindset difference? Because a lot of times the system was there, even that we could have used, but our mindset wasn’t ready to embrace it. We weren’t ready to embrace the changes. So think about the mindsets you had when you embraced the system, wholeheartedly, embraced the process and trusted in it and gave yourself just over to it, versus constantly questioning, dooming yourself with doubt. But really break down the mindsets behind the differences. You see when you failed with something and implementing new habits and you’ve succeeded because the more you can do that, the more you can say okay, I feel myself approaching these changes, even with this mindset, or I see this mindset creeping in. What can I do differently to sort of shift how I’m implementing things, to work around it or address it right, to save ourselves future struggles?

And then how would you get yourself out of your own way if this is creeping in? Think about, okay, I had this mindset happen in the past when I was implementing these systems. What was it there? So, if I feel that coming back, what can I do? Because sometimes results are an ebb and flow. Sometimes we are going really fast forward and then we have to back off the gas just a little bit. Right, we’re not putting on the brakes, we’re just backing off the gas a little bit, and we almost even do that to keep moving forward faster than if we had to fully push on the brakes.

So think about the mindsets and how you can really help yourself get out of your own way, and even have that questioning in place. I love to have reflection each week, doing all these different things like what really worked for me this week, what were improvements I made, what were obstacles I struggled with. Okay now, in assessing the obstacles, what are opportunities within them, but even put it in place, you know where you have that alert to do this assessment each and every week to help yourself keep moving forward.

Because the simple fact is, the more you know about yourself, the stronger you’ll be because our self-awareness is really our own power to constantly evolve, because nothing is going to work forever, not one macro breakdown, not one workout, and we want to have fun, even experimenting. But the more we own who and what we are, the more we can always address what we need to move forward, because that’s ultimately what’s going to work. Often, we have a lot of great systems, we have a lot of great tactics, we have a lot of great knowledge even there, but it’s taking action on it, and part of how we can take action is better knowing ourselves.

So I want you to think, you know, what’s one thing you really learned about yourself this past year. I know it can be hard to reflect on failures and we can breeze past successes, but take time to really assess one of each. What’s something that didn’t work for you in the past year, in the past month, in the past week? How can you now use that to move you forward faster? And then think, what do I truly need to move me forward? Is it simply action? Because a lot of times it’s not knowing more. It’s action. How can we get ourselves to take action? That’s the key thing. And then what’s an easy change you can make today?

But the more we take time to really assess as awkward as it can be, as hard as it can be, the more we can take directed action to truly move forward. Thanks for listening to Fitness Hacks Podcast. Again, this is the place where I share all my free workout and nutrition tips. I’m never going to run sponsorships or ask you to buy anything. All I ask in return is, if you’re enjoying the podcast, to leave a rating review or share it with someone you think it might help. This will only take a few minutes and it would mean the world to me and possibly change the life of someone you know.