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Do You Stay This Lean Year Round?

Do You Stay This Lean Year Round?

by | Jun 1, 2025 | Blog, Diet

“Do you stay this lean year around?”

I’ve gotten asked this question and I want to set the record straight…

Yes and no.

Like any person, my motivation, my goals, my schedule and life all evolve. So there is an ebb and flow.

You can see in my videos shifts leaner and less lean at different times of year and even as I experiment with different techniques and macros.

BUT over the years, I’ve gotten leaner and stayed leaner.

It’s not from more discipline. Or better perfection.

It’s actually from trying to work less hard and instead constantly seek to evolve and meet myself where I’m at for balance.

I’ve focused on consistency with that long-term viewpoint.

And the longer you maintain, the easier it gets.

So what I’m doing now, isn’t what I did to start maintaining. And it’s not even what I did to get to this point.

What you do to reach your goal is not what you do to maintain it, but you also can’t go back to old habits.

I mention this because too often we copy just what someone who’s been maintaining their goal is doing over starting back at the beginning of the journey.

We miss all the steps that built to this point and don’t recognize how long it takes to make habit changes and have those changes stick.

That’s why I want to share the 3 fundamental facts I’ve learned that will help you stop repeating the yo-yo dieting cycle and maintain your results consistently forever.

And the first fact is that true and lasting changes DON’T always feel sustainable to start.

Because guess what?

They aren’t what you do forever!

It takes 3–4 months to build a habit. You’re practicing till you get it right.

Then it takes 16–18 months to build a lifestyle. You’re practicing till you can’t get it wrong.

Finally, it takes 3–4 years to transform your identity. You’re practicing till it’s part of who you are!

Do you remember learning to brush your teeth daily?

Potentially not at this point, BUT at some time, you had to be reminded to do it. It didn’t feel sustainable.

Thankfully we are parented into that habit and have no choice in most cases.

And at sometime it just becomes so routine and a part of our environment, we just keep doing it.

It is a boring basic we don’t even notice.

Over time, other lifestyle changes become that way too.

You may not always when you’re tired WANT to brush your teeth, but you do.

Over time, those other healthy eating and training practices will become the same way but we have to recognize they won’t feel that way to start.

Because what we do to lose fat or gain muscle may be more intensive than what we have to do to maintain it, especially the longer we’ve been at that point.

I have way more food flexibility and workout freedom now than I did when I first got leaner because my body now wants to STAY at this set point.

Just like your body doesn’t want to lose right now because it wants to stay at its current set point!

This evolution is also really fundamental fact number 2 is…

Maintaining and building a lifestyle isn’t a set it and forget it thing.

You aren’t doing one thing forever.

Have you ever started a new program and thought some version of, “This is amazing! It can be a lifestyle!”

Only to then become frustrated with yourself and feel like you just don’t have the willpower to see results when you can’t ultimately maintain it?

This is because one thing doesn’t work forever. And we should be evolving our habits over not only the years but the course of the seasons.

Your lifestyle probably looks different right at the start of the New Year than it does during the Summer or even the Holidays.

Family obligations, work and travel may impact different seasons in different ways.

Your 6 day a week training schedule that is perfect from January till even June may not fit with your Summer vacation plans or all of the Holiday fun.

Yet so often we try to enforce the same standards on ourselves all year around and this is ultimately what sabotages us.

Instead, seek to meet yourself where you are at.

Embrace evolution in those habits to keep doing something.

Because what may feel like doing less is often the consistency we need to keep moving forward.

It’s also often a lot MORE than we would have done otherwise.

Too often when we can’t do everything perfectly, we do nothing.

And that nothing is what creates the starting over again in the New Year cycle.

With making changes don’t think that the thing you start has to be THE THING. Honestly, that probably means you’re falling for another fad you’ll fall off of.

Instead approach making changes like getting to design your dream home.

Create a solid foundation and structure learning about the fundamentals and boring basics.

Then see those fun adjustments in moves or foods you include or even exact training schedule and macros as the decorations you get to put in your house.

Those may evolve BUT the house structure, focusing on tracking your food and a workout progression, will be that outline you can adjust within to always be moving forward!

And third and final fact…and probably hardest of them all to embrace is that…

Mindset matters most.

There is no perfect macro ratio. No magic workout plan.

And over the course of your life, you’re going to use a variety of both as you not only have fun, experiment but also work toward different specific goals and focuses while working to build your leanest, strongest body at every age.

What matters is your mindset behind everything.

Because so often it isn’t that we don’t have the tools or tactics…

It’s that we sabotage ourselves with unrealistic expectations – wanting results too fast, making ourselves feel guilty for not being perfect or trying to force somebody else’s ideals on ourselves.

Own who you are. Own what you want.

Be true to your goals and also realize that mistakes will ALWAYS happen.

The call of our old identities, that emotional eating pattern you’d thought you’d broken…Will always pop back up and at times we least expect it.

The more we have the mindset we will always have ebbs and flows, the more we will keep moving forward through it all.

And that consistency is what keeps us rocking those results.

So even as you start your journey toward your goals, realize your goal isn’t to avoid breakdowns or failures or setbacks.

It’s to speed up the time it takes you to get back on track.

The quicker we notice we took a wrong turn and turn back, the faster we ultimately get to our destination.

So as you work to adjust your diet to fuel your goals and push hard in your workouts, make sure you’re working on your mindset and belief in yourself as well.

Make sure you’re not giving up each time you hit the hard.

Even seek to reframe those times you want to quit as even more reason to keep going.

Because often the simple fact that we have given up at that same point in the past is why we’ve been stuck.

Now I know you were hoping for some magic move or macro ratio in this video, but these are 3 simple fundamental facts that yield results.

There isn’t one magic thing.

It’s meeting ourselves where we are at and assess what we need at different points in our journey to keep moving forward.

It’s our ability to pause and reflect on how things are going and then find a way to move forward no matter what that is truly key!

Stop trying to out exercise or out diet time.

Instead realize this is a forever process!

And if you are just starting out and need where to start to adjust your diet, check out my video – The Most Annoying Nutrition Tips ( 7 Things That Actually Work) next.

5 Golden Rules To Lose Fat (Without Losing Muscle)

5 Golden Rules To Lose Fat (Without Losing Muscle)

by | May 18, 2025 | Blog, Diet, Exercises, Mindset

Most of us don’t just want to lose weight – we want to lose fat.

We want to look leaner, more toned, more defined.

We want to fit back into our skinny jeans or that dress in the back of the closet we can’t bring ourselves to give away because we desperately want to wear it again…

We want body recomp. We want to lose fat without losing muscle.

In this video I’ll share the 5 Golden Rules to help you do just that so you can shed those inches and see fabulous muscle definition.

Golden Rule #1: Commit To The Change You Hate The Most.

Ever jump into a new program and change everything you’re doing dramatically at once?

Which thing are you then most likely to blame if results aren’t happening fast enough and the effort starts to feel “not worth it?”

The change you least want to make…and probably need to make the most because it is the most outside your comfort zone.

We don’t want to adjust the hard workouts we’re “enjoying.”

Or the extra fats or carbs we justify as healthy and quality food that also taste good.

No….

Instead we research why high protein is bad or not needed to resist the protein increase we’ve made.

Or we resist the reduction in cardio because we love our long runs even though we’ve heard the work against building muscle.

Or we resist the push to eat more and create a smaller calorie deficit because we fear gaining weight and slashing our calories lower is what we’ve always done…

We resist trusting the full SYSTEM. And that makes it break.

We can’t only make the changes we are comfortable with.

Honestly only being willing to make those changes we are comfortable with is what has kept us stuck.

We repeat the same changes that “work” to get to the same point where we end up falling off again to start back over.

So while you may see some initial progress staying with something familiar or seemingly easy…It’s not really working if you’re constantly looking for a new fix.

This time, embrace the hard. It means that is the change you truly need!

And one hard change most of us want to resist is Golden Rule #2: Track EVERYTHING.

Tracking is restrictive. It’s hard. It’s boring. It’s tedious. It’s annoying.

It’s obsessive.

You can FEEL this way about tracking, but we have to recognize that these are FEELINGS. And feelings and attitudes we’ve created toward a tool because of how we’ve even used it in the past.

But tracking isn’t restrictive or obsessive. It may be hard or boring or tedious or annoying to start as you’re learning, but so many things are.

And you can make it worse by repeating those feelings to yourself. Or you can choose to see the opportunity in it.

You can also recognize WHY you feel this way about it.

Have you usually turned to tracking in the past when you hated how your clothes fit or the weight you saw on the scale?

When you slashed your calories super low and cut out all the foods you love?

No wonder you don’t like tracking if that has been your experience with it!

But tracking is just you recording what you’ve done. It doesn’t have to mean cutting calories lower. It doesn’t have to mean eliminating a food group.

It can even be about adding in MORE. It can be about making sure you’re fueling well. It can help you assess even food intolerances and meal timings that help you perform better to build muscle and feel more energized.

Tracking gives us data to make accurate adjustments and SMALL ONES that truly address where we are right now. It gives you the power to strike YOUR balance…if you give it the chance.

And recognize that tracking doesn’t have to be done in one form. You can use hand portions as a guide, take pictures, log just protein and calories or do full ratios.

But if you’re sick of not feeling like anything is sustainable or you aren’t sure what is working, tracking can fix all of that.

Nothing is off limits. And you know what you’re doing to adjust.

What gets measured gets managed.

You want to stay within your budget? You track it.

Well, tracking your food helps you stay within your food budget.

Golden Rule #3: Diet for fat loss. Train for muscle.

Adjust both together and that’s where the magic happens.

Because, while most of us have heard the saying, “Abs are made in the kitchen”…

Fabulous ab definition is really REVEALED by the kitchen.

The muscle we want to show is built through progressive overload and pushing ourselves in the gym.

But too often to burn more calories in our training and create that deficit to lose faster, we turn to cardio.

This only backfires, causing us to lose not only fat but also muscle.

It’s why we can see metabolic adaptations occur more quickly.

And it’s why we can feel like we’re working so hard, adjusting our diet yet not looking any leaner!

We can’t just turn our workouts into killer cardio sessions. We need to stop thinking, “I should do more cardio!”

And instead we need to think about our training as a chance to build muscle.

If you want to lose fat without losing muscle, focus on strength training and progressing moves week over week. Don’t cut out rest to feel more out of breath. Don’t just add in more to feel more worked.

Focus on truly lifting more with quality reps, even needing MORE rest between rounds to keep using harder variations and heavier loads.

That way when you dial in your macros and your diet with what I’m about to go over in Rule #4 while training to build muscle, you’ll see the best body recomp results happen even faster!

Golden Rule #4: Create DAILY Consistency.

Have you ever wondered…Should I eat less on a day off? Lower my carbs?

Stop adding more complication. Stop trying to do more. Focus on those basics.

KISS…Keep it simple, stupid.

Simple is sustainable.

Focus on that daily consistency in those habits!

The less we add complication or more variation, the easier we make it on ourselves to create a new environment and shift mindsets and habits.

The fewer changes we make at once, the more we can know the impact they have and how they are working to then adjust habits as we go.

The less we overwhelm ourselves with more to do, the more the effort feels worth the outcome!

What we do consistently we get good at. What we do consistently builds results.

You can’t know if a macro ratio or workout or meal timing works if you’re not doing the same thing weekly. You can’t build habits and routines if things are constantly shifting.

And at the most basic level, your body can’t repair and rebuild on days off if it doesn’t have the fuel. You aren’t just eating more to train hard, but to recover.

Inconsistent energy sources are what can lead to us feeling extra frustrated, confused and hangry! It also adds more precision in numbers we have to have as we cycle.

Instead, keep things simple. Allow yourself to build those daily routines and get confident in them. Then adjust.

But focus on a set macro and calorie goal you maintain for a few weeks. Plan ahead to hit those numbers. Dial in your precision with them. It will pay off.

And Golden Rule #5: What You Put First Gets Priority.

If you’re struggling to prioritize a habit change, put it first in your day.

Add protein to that first meal

Drink water when you first get up.

Do your workout before the day gets busy.

When a new habit can fall by the wayside when life gets busy or we get worn out, the best way to make sure we complete it is to do it first in the day.

That way we leave things we know we will do no matter what till later because we’ll do them anyway.

But this rule also applies to cardio vs. strength work and eve the order of exercises in your routine.

What you put first in your training gets you when you’re freshest. You’re giving a more true 100% intensity and effort.

Want to lift heavier for your glutes? Prioritize a lift for them first in your lower body workout day.

Or if you’re wanting to include some cardio because you love it while still focusing on losing fat without losing muscle?

Put your strength work first in your session and ideally first in your day if you are doing a second walk or cardio session for any reason.

That way you are freshest and can truly push hard to create that challenge to build muscle. And you can still get in movement with cardio you may put after.

Even consider timing a walk or sprint interval session at the end of workout where you work muscles near stubborn fat to help utilize mobilized fatty acids.

And don’t include steady state endurance cardio after a workout where you’re working a muscle group that you struggle to build as this can hinder those muscle gains.

But consider the order to things you include and what you need to prioritize.

While we don’t want to stress over details first, we want to note that how systems are designed together has an impact.

We need to embrace those hard changes, track how things are going and our consistency in implementation and then review all aspects of our lifestyle to make sure things complement!

Because we can lose fat without losing muscle, but it isn’t as simple as eating less or doing more cardio. It’s a strategic process and we need a clear plan to push through the hard!

Break free of the change loop keeping you stuck losing the weight only to regain it, and MORE, later…

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Why You’re Building Muscle (But NOT Losing Fat)

Why You’re Building Muscle (But NOT Losing Fat)

by | Apr 27, 2025 | Blog, Diet

Why are you building muscle but not losing fat?

The simple answer is you’re rocking those strength workouts pushing hard in the gym but overeating and eating portions not in line with your goals.

We think calories surplus to build. So a bigger surplus should help things happen faster, right?

Nope. That’s not the case.

While a surplus is key if your main focus is on building muscle, just increasing your calories MORE past a point isn’t going to yield better muscle gains. And you’re going to gain fat as well.

You may even start to see your performance decline.

But eating too much isn’t the only reason we can struggle to lose fat while seeing ourselves build muscle.

You may be questioning what I just said, but yes I stated that overeating isn’t the only reason we can struggle to lose fat.

We can actually gain muscle while struggling to lose fat even in a technical calorie deficit after a period of extreme calorie restriction when we are finally trying to increase our calories.

Especially common during perimenopause and menopause when our hormones are in flux and we’ve experienced many failed dieting attempts where we’ve tried to slash our calories lower and lower.

With increasing your calories from your extreme deficit that has led to metabolic adaptations and hormonal imbalances, you are in a way creating a surplus over what your body has adapted to think it needs.

It’s downregulated processes to accommodate the lack of energy. But to restore balance, you need to increase calories. And as your body has the fuel it needs, it will seek to put on lean muscle over first losing fat.

Lean muscle is involved in so many important processes for our body so building it to restore metabolic health and balance is key. And ultimately, this WILL help us lose fat and look leaner.

It can just be frustrating in the process as we see the scale increase and even clothing feels tighter as we add muscle before we lose the fat.

But there are ways to help yourself see that recomp happen faster. And I want to talk through not only the nutritional changes you need first, but also two forms of cardio that may be key.

First the nutritional changes…

It really comes down to the thing most people avoid doing…Adjusting your macros.

Yup. Macros. The non diet diet so many people avoid because it seems hard and tedious and boring.

Who wants to weigh and measure everything?!

But it’s like baking a cake, if you weigh and measure everything in the recipe, it’s going to turn out better the first time.

Macros and tracking them are your recipe for results, especially if you have a plan laid out. Weigh and measure your portions so you know what you’re truly consuming.

It even gives you the power to tweak and adjust.

The thing is, there is no way around hard changes if we want a new and better result, especially as fast as possible.

And the more we take time now to learn and truly do things precisely, the better and faster things turn out.

While you may feel you’re eating clean and healthy already, that doesn’t mean your portions are fully in line with your body, needs or goals.

Each macronutrient – the proteins, carbs and fats we consume – all impact our body in different ways.

How we adjust the portions we consume therefore has an impact.

Less active, you may need fewer carbs. More active, you may need more and not eating enough could lead to thyroid issues.

Fear fat may make you fat? Under eating fat with the increase in inflammation we see during menopause could only be making things worse.

And not eating enough protein? That may be why you’re struggling to see recomp as fast as you’d like!

Protein is more key than we realize if we want to lose fat as we put on muscle, especially as we get older as we don’t use it as efficiently.

As you retrain your body to eat more, and I say RETRAINING it for a reason as you are allowing it to adjust bodily processes to account for the fact that you do now have adequate fuel, you will want to focus on 35-40% of your calories coming from protein.

This not only fuels that muscle growth but helps you burn more calories at rest. And it isn’t as easily stored as fat.

And we have to remember that protein doesn’t just go to helping us build and repair our muscle tissue. It’s essential for our bone and brain health as well as the repair of other tissues. It has a positive impact in so many ways and can only assist in that metabolic healing and hormonal balance process.

That’s why it can help us keep seeing those muscle gains while helping us start to shift the fat when we’ve been struggling.

And if you are strategically wanting to build muscle and in that calorie surplus consciously, maintaining a protein minimum of 30% can even help you continue those muscle gains while avoiding gaining any more fluff in a surplus.

Now as important as your macros and diet are to helping you see the fat loss you want while building muscle, your workouts still really matter.

You can’t out exercise your diet, but when both your diet and your workouts work together, results are better and faster.

Strength workouts are hands down essential. They help you build that lean muscle and ultimately improve your metabolic health. They will help you look leaner long term.

But, specific forms of cardio can help in this situation where you are seeing those muscle gains, but the fat isn’t budging.

This doesn’t mean start logging those miles and turn to tons of steady state cardio. Actually avoiding this is key.

Instead you want to focus on two specific forms of cardio – SIT or sprint interval training – and walking.

First, walking…

Walking is a great de-stress which can promote optimal body composition through improving insulin sensitivity and hormonal balance and help us burn more calories at rest to improve our metabolic health while not fatiguing us for future lifting sessions.

The fact that it is low intensity and more restorative allows us to really optimize our strength workouts to get the most value from them.

Because prioritizing building muscle in our workouts is key even if we want to lose fat. And if we’re too tired to push hard in our lifting sessions, we won’t create that stimulus for muscle growth.

Now the second form of cardio that can be helpful to improve our metabolic health, especially during menopause, is SIT.

Sprint interval training can help improve hormone levels and promote muscle growth whereas steady state is catabolic to muscle tissue. It can also help us better utilize mobilized fatty acids aka assist in better fat loss.

And these sessions aren’t time-consuming or hard to include. Even just 5-10 minutes at the end of a strength day can have value.

More isn’t necessarily better either. Intensity of these short bouts is what makes them work. So adding in more would defeat the purpose.

To add in SIT, you want to use work to rest intervals of 8-30 seconds sprinting to 12-90 seconds resting. So rest does vary from half the time you sprinted up to 3 times the length you worked.

About 5-8 rounds is all that is needed with 10 rounds max being done. 2-3 times a week of SIT along with walking is an amazing addition to your lifts.

These are hard, quick bursts where you are focused on maximal effort. They should feel horrible but be over before you know it.

And don’t just think longer work and less rest is better! The combination is what helps improve your recovery, work capacity and see that body recomp magic happen!

So if you’ve been frustrated that you’ve gained muscle but not lost fat, step back to assess your current calorie intake. If you’ve gone crazy with the surplus, back it off. You’re retraining your body to eat more, don’t stop trying to bump calories.

But with both take a look at your macros. Focus on that protein! And then consider tweaking your routines to include these two forms of cardio!

It can be hard to embrace this process and KEEP GOING when it feels like results aren’t happening…That’s where having a guide and outside perspective can be ke!

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How to Lose That LAST 5-10 lbs of Stubborn Fat

How to Lose That LAST 5-10 lbs of Stubborn Fat

by | Apr 20, 2025 | Blog, Diet, Workouts

“I’ve only got 5lbs to lose. That shouldn’t take that long. Maybe a month! It’s so little.”

EH! WRONG.

The cold hard truth about getting lean? The closer you get to your goal, the harder the process often gets.

And the slower results happen.

So what do we do when it feels like things aren’t happening fast enough?

We slash our calories lower. We try to train harder and longer. We do more.

But this exact desire to do more is what sabotages us.

Instead, when you have those last few pounds to lose you think shouldn’t take too long to get off?

Double or triple at least the time you’re giving yourself to lose them.

Or even step off the scale altogether if you really want to look lean.

Because while sure, you could lose those 5lbs in a month, heck you could probably deplete water weight and glycogen stores and lose them in a couple of weeks in some cases easily…

True fat loss, especially fat loss to finally see that lean muscle definition you want, is SLOW.

You can’t rush the process.

When you have less to lose, the more you try to implement practices to speed things up often the more you end up sending yourself into burnout, both mental and physical…

…sabotaging your metabolic health…
…losing but not looking leaner…
…And ultimately rebounding right back up to where you started and sometimes even higher only to be frustrated that nothing ever works.

The reality is, these overnight transformations are myths.

Because what we logically know but emotionally forget when looking at them is that we’re only seeing the tip of the iceberg.

We’re only seeing that last little bit of effort and results that was built off of potential years and decades of other training and dieting and lifestyle practices as well as genetics.

I bring this up because honestly…so often we don’t reach our goals not because we need a new tactic.

But because we just need to give results more TIME.

We need to do the hard thing of doubling down on what we’re doing. Doubling down on our commitment to consistency.

Over getting distracted by something new. Doing something more.

That’s what leads to us achieving a goal that is beyond what we’ve achieved before.

Or a goal we haven’t been at for a very very long time.

Years, decades aren’t reversed in weeks or months. We forget sometimes how long we’ve had the weight on.

We forget how many routines and habits we’ve built up.

And our body fights the weight loss process.

This exact fight is what will be used to our advantage when we finally reach the level we want and want to maintain it.

But in trying to lose that last little bit, this desire by our body to maintain balance makes everything slower.

It’s why every time we try to rush the process, we only sabotage ourselves.

That’s why I want to share these quick tips and reminders so that you go back to those basics. So that you stay focused on them and dial them back in when 1% deviations happen.

As unsexy as it is, as much as you want to find a magic pill or something that will make it happen faster…

You’re looking for some ah-ha moment…

The reality is often we need to be reminded more than we need to be taught.

We need to be reminded of those boring basic habits and mindsets we’re letting slide as we try to add on and do more to rush the process.

So reminder #1…manage your expectations.

If you tell yourself it will take triple the time to achieve your goal, you’ll more often be pleasantly surprised when results happen faster.

You’ll be motivated by the “quick” progress.

But if you tell yourself that results should happen tomorrow, when they don’t, you’ll be frustrated that things are happening too slowly and give up.

Our expectations can make or break our success.

And ultimately, you can’t control the rate at which results happen. All you can control is your daily habits!

So control those daily habits with reminder #2…Have a plan and roadmap laid out.

You want to reach your goal most efficiently?

You need a clear plan you follow.

You wouldn’t get in a car to drive to a destination you haven’t been without directions. You’d get lost and frustrated and waste a ton of time.

Heck, you may even turn back at some point and go home.

Yet so often this is how we approach our weight loss goals – with no directions.

We just jump in the car and drive.

Have a clear workout plan and nutritional strategy outlined. This also helps you have focused habits to be consistent with and track what is and isn’t working to adjust.

Reminder #3…Measure progress in multiple ways.

Have you ever thought, “How do I know if the program’s working?”

Success leaves clues.

They just aren’t always directly related to the exact goal outcome we want right away.

When we want to lose those last 5-10lbs, often if we’re focused on making true lifestyle and habit changes, the scale won’t be the first thing to change even.

But you may realize you’re sleeping better from eating better.

Your workouts feel stronger.

You’re improving your pull ups.

You don’t have an energy lull in the afternoon.

Your pants feel a little less snug.

We do get signs we’re doing things that are good for us and our goals. We just have to pause to notice them and not get so focused only on one outcome.

It’s why setting complementary targets or goals to help you track progress and repeat the habits you know you need can be key.

The more ways we measure success, the more ways we are successful.

And the more likely we are to realize that results ARE happening even when we feel like they aren’t!

Reminder #4 – Pride yourself on doing the boring stuff.

Yup. The daily boring habits we repeat are ultimately what add up. Tracking your macros consistently while even repeating some meals.

Waking up at the same time with the alarm that jolts us out of bed to hit the gym.

Because honestly, the two fundamentals to amazing results are doing your strength workouts and dialing in your macros consistently day in and day out.

Too often we don’t celebrate the DOING of these daily habits though.

Instead often we think “Do I really have to do this the rest of my life?”

It’s because we go ON a diet over ADJUSTING our diet.

We never really embrace the value in them.

Instead, we feel obligated to do them.

But you don’t have to do them – you’re choosing to do them.

So on those days you least want to do the habits you “should,” realize you GET to do them and celebrate your strength to keep going, perfecting those boring basics.

Which honestly hits on Reminder #5 – You won’t always want to do what you “should.”

I’ve said it myself…the popular line of “eat whatever you want and see results.”

And I really pushed that for awhile because for me it was a realization that getting results didn’t have to mean forcing myself into someone else’s clean eating mold.

But that sentiment has now gotten distorted and morphed into this belief that there won’t be discomfort in change.

That reaching a goal won’t have some sacrifices or make us do things we don’t want to do.

But the reality is your results are built off of doing the hard thing when you least want to do it.

That’s even what builds strength, confidence and you feeling truly your best when you do achieve your goal.

Because we value what we’ve fought for.

So if you’re resisting these reminders…

If you’re resisting going back to basics and just committing more time to doing what you’ve…well…been doing and following your laid out plan…

STOP.

Don’t do more. That’s your urge to avoid the hard. It seems easier to try to control things by adding. By chasing something new.

Just keep going.

Final reminder…often to lose those last few pounds, you don’t need more tactics…you need more time!

It can be hard to trust the process when it feels like nothing is working and we aren’t making progress. This is why having a coach can be key. It keeps us consistent past the point we want to quit.

To build your leanest, strongest body ever and learn to MAINTAIN your results long-term, check out my 1:1 Coaching…

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5 Tips For Muscle Growth (GAINS 101!)

5 Tips For Muscle Growth (GAINS 101!)

by | Apr 6, 2025 | Blog, Diet, Exercises

So you want to build muscle…

Put down your cardio crown and get ready to eat more.

In this video I’ll cover muscle building 101, or bulking, and it’s going to require you to go against many of the dieting and training practices you’re used to, especially if you’ve found yourself constantly on that yo-yo dieting cycle over the years.

Now if you’re wondering, “Should I do a bulk?” here are some things to consider…

Are you thin and wanting to see more muscle definition?

Have you dieted down but aren’t as defined as you’d like?

Are you going through menopause and seeing weight creep on around your middle?

Are you feeling like your metabolism is broken?

Have you plateaued in your weight loss journey after being in a deficit for 6 months or more?

If you said yes to any of these, it may be time to focus on a muscle building phase.

Building muscle can improve our body composition if we’re already pretty lean, making us look leaner and more defined…

It can also improve our insulin sensitivity and metabolic health to avoid gaining unwanted fat as we get older…

And a bulking phase can even help us ultimately bust a weight loss plateau through a period of time focused on performance, metabolic health and hormonal balance while gaining muscle so we look leaner as we lose.

But I’ll tell you the thing that most often holds us back from seeing the amazing muscle gains that are possible…

And it isn’t even a nutritional mistake or workout one….although there are a few common ones I’ll go over to help you avoid them…

It’s the fear of gaining weight on the scale!

Many of us have worked hard to achieve our weight loss or fat loss goals. Often a number on the scale is tied to that.

Especially if you’ve lost weight more recently, the idea of seeing that number go up can freak you out.

But honestly, it might and you may look even leaner as it does.

If you’re serious about putting on muscle, consider ditching the scale and instead focus on body measurements and progress pictures for a bit.

If you do use the scale, be ready to see even an initial jump as you move to eating more, focusing on more carbs and even see more muscle tissue damage and inflammation from pushing hard in your workouts.

This isn’t fat nor muscle being gained. Sorry doesn’t happen that fast.

We have to remember that simply by no longer being in a deficit we won’t be depleted and our body is going to store the extra we’re giving it.

This means full energy stores. And as you build more muscle, the more you can store. But these stores are needed to see those gains.

And then as you build muscle, the scale may go up. Because if you gain 1lbs of muscle and don’t gain any fat, the scale is going to go up 1lbs.

Not to mention, more muscle means more storage capacity.

With pushing your lifting hard as well to promote those muscle gains, you’re also going to see jumps on the scale due to bodily process to recovery.

So to summarize, the scale will go up and may show big swings daily.

On top of this, as you see the scale go up, especially over time as you build muscle, you may even then need to embrace eating more to retain the lean muscle and increase in metabolic processes!

This is why measurements and photos can be key. Too often the scale jumps and we instantly cut back when we need to do the opposite.

It’s why we never truly make progress.

Gaining muscle is hard, especially the longer we’ve been training for. And a big part of what can sabotage us is the scale mind games.

Measure areas you want to build muscle in and those that you want to avoid gaining fat in, like your waist.

Watching trends in each can help you see where those gains are happening and how your body composition is truly changing.

Now, the how-to of bulking.

And I don’t know about you, but I want to build muscle efficiently while also not having then to backtrack a ton to lose fat.

I want to do things in a sustainable way that leads to optimized long-term results.

So I say this with still wanting you to see those pure muscle gains without gaining a ton of fat….

Ditch the steady state cardio other than walking. Stop the long HIIT sessions. Focus on lifting.

While both may have helped you lean down, they both work against those pure muscle gains.

We have to remember that what got us to one goal often works against us getting to the next level.

Cardio, especially the long run and endurance rides, is catabolic to muscle mass and depletes our glycogen stores. It can hinder us from lifting heavier and optimally recovering and rebuilding from our strength work.

It can raise cortisol levels and put our body under chronic stress.

If you want to gain muscle faster and have even been frustrated by a lack of results, ditch the cardio for a time.

This also means not turning your strength workouts into cardio sessions.

Too often to feel more worked from our workouts, because we equate feeling tired with a workout being “good enough,” we cut back on rest.

This can make us get more out of breath or feel shakier.

But it also doesn’t allow our muscles to truly recover to lift as heavy the next round. And if we can’t truly push the weights and exercise variations we’re using to work closer to true muscular failure, we aren’t going to create the same stimulus for muscle growth.

Don’t avoid longer rest periods the heavier you lift. If you’re using a big compound lift like a deadlift or bench and really trying to work to fatigue at 5 reps, you may need 2-3 minutes of rest.

You actually want to feel like you earned that and don’t fully want to get back to the weight even with that much rest!

Too often we lift submaximal loads, just stop at the top of the rep range and cut our rest to make it feel harder. But this won’t lead to the same muscle growth.

And on top of dropping the cardio, and not just focusing on our workouts making us feel tired and out of breath, you probably need to eat more.

Now if you’re thinking, “I need to burn fewer calories AND eat more?! Won’t I just gain a ton of fat?!”

The answer is, NO, especially if you are strategic in how you increase your calories and dial in your macros.

You may see an initial jump on the scale as you eat more and even potentially bump carbs, but this increase is glycogen storage and water weight retention.

Both of these things are needed to help your muscles repair and rebuild, not to mention provide you the energy in the first place to train hard and actually create progression to drive growth.

But just creating a huge surplus isn’t the answer. You want to increase your calories over what you’re consuming to maintain your weight by 100-300. The bigger the deficit, the more you may see fat being gained.

And while you may not care about gaining some fat in the process to ultimately gain more muscle, there is a point of diminishing returns where gaining fat can ultimately hinder your performance and, especially if you aren’t focusing on quality fueling, lead to slower recovery.

You also then will have to do more of a cut after if you want to lean back down and risk losing some of the muscle you worked hard to gain.

The more we end up in this bulking, cutting cycle, the more we can find ourselves gaining and losing the same few pounds over truly just slowing down to focus on recomp happening.

So a small, sustainable surplus you can increase as you make progress can help you build while staying leaner to ultimately retain more of your muscle long term.

And then focus on QUALITY – both in your workouts and your diet.

While it may be tempting to not care how you’re hitting your calories and macros, and you SHOULD work in foods you love, you do want to focus on nutrient dense foods to help your body recover optimally, and help you feel your best in your training sessions.

Eating crap, well, it makes you feel crappy and often even sluggish in your training.

Proper fueling and hydration can also help you avoid being as sore and fatigued. And the better you recover, the harder you can train and the better your gains!

The quality of your workouts is also key. Too often we go through the motions with our training. Stopping when the weight feels kind of hard and we hit the number of reps we were supposed to do.

We aren’t super intentional and focused to maximize each and every rep and push as hard as possible.

We aren’t focused on what we feel working to maximize muscle engagement.

We even rush through over paying attention to tempos and ranges of motion.

A lack of attention and focus doesn’t allow us to optimize our training sessions. The more experienced a lifter you are, the more this lack of attention and focus will hold you back.

Don’t ignore the importance of really focusing on quality not just quantity in everything you do. It isn’t just about more moves.

It’s about having a purpose for everything you include.

It’s not just about more calories or carbs, it’s about quality and even playing around with timing.

Don’t overwhelm yourself with the details, especially to start, but be conscious of all that you’re including and track and record how you feel.

The more you understand all the habits you’re implementing, the more you can tweak as you go to truly see results build!

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How to Actually Get Abs (10 Annoying Tips That Work!)

How to Actually Get Abs (10 Annoying Tips That Work!)

by | Mar 30, 2025 | Blog, Diet

So you want to see more ab definition…

You want to achieve that elusive “six pack”…

Well, here are 10 annoying nutrition tips to help you get there!

But a word of warning to get abs, you can’t be concerned with sustainability.

That comes later.

This isn’t the time to focus on how you can work in your cocktails or your favorite desserts as much as I’m all about balance long-term.

Because what we do to achieve a goal, is NOT what we do to maintain it.

But to reach a level of leanness you’ve never achieved, or haven’t seen in awhile, you’ve got to be willing to sacrifice and push hard, especially when you’d rather sit on the coach and binge watch chick flicks while eating ice cream…

Maybe that’s just me…

But achieving abs is about pushing your body’s set point, and that does mean being more precise with your diet and workouts.

Those 1% matter.

That’s why these 10 tips are key.

And note, simple doesn’t mean easy.

Actually often the simpler something is, the harder it is long term and the more tempted we are to try to do more or chase a new fad diet or shiny object…

Don’t.

The biggest thing is CONSISTENCY with all of this past the point you want to quit…PERIOD.

Which is why Tip #1 is – Be boring.

Yup. Boring.

I love trying new restaurants, and have more favorite restaurants on doordash than I should probably admit while always looking for what’s new…

But if you’re focused on getting abs, especially for the first time, diversity is your enemy.

It can trigger cravings.

Make hitting your macros harder.

And it can make it tougher to know if something is or isn’t working.

The more you keep things basic, the easier the process will be.

Tip #2: Cut back on protein bars.

I don’t know about you, but I don’t like feeling hungry.

And you are going to be a bit hungry when first pushing to a new level of leanness.

That’s why cutting back on processed snacks like protein bars can be key. They are very calorically dense often for very few bites.

They often are not satisfying in the slightest and leave you feeling still hungry right after due to the lack of food volume.

So be conscious of how you use them and even try to include them with other high volume foods or only when on the go!

Tip #3: Stop the daily fluctuations.

If you want results to snowball faster, you’ve got to be willing to be more precise. That means hitting your macros within 2% and 50 calories plus or minus daily.

Not just in weekly averages where things fluctuate greatly day to day.

Not excusing a day “off plan”, which can often impact our macros more than we realize.

But every single day hitting those numbers consistently and precisely, even using the same meals and foods as I mentioned with tip 1.

That’s what adds up and allows us to know what is and isn’t working.

And if you’re thinking, “That isn’t sustainable.”

It’s not meant to be. What we do to reach a goal isn’t what we do to maintain it. And during maintenance a new balance has to evolve.

But to first get there, you’ve got to embrace the grind!

Tip #4: Focus on fiber.

Very rarely is gut health and fiber the first thing that comes to mind when you think about getting lean and losing fat.

But focusing on getting about 25-30 grams of fiber per day can really improve your fat loss results.

A healthy gut, and consuming enough fiber, reduces inflammation and cravings and improves insulin sensitivity and satiety.

It keeps your metabolic rate higher and even reduces the rate of protein breakdown to help you preserve your muscle mass as you lean down.

So take care of your gut with fiber to balance your appetite and make the fat loss process easier!

Tip #5: Get 30-40 grams of protein per meal.

Yup. The tip all too many of us know and resist…increasing our protein!

But not just increasing our overall daily totals, specifically focusing on that 30-40 gram range for a meal or more.

While many have heard the myth you won’t utilize more in one sitting, studies have shown you will utilize up to 100 grams efficiently.

And that 30-40 gram range is a great way to create an anabolic response even as we get older and we aren’t able to utilize protein as efficiently.

That amount helps make sure you’re fueling your lean muscle while also accounting for the fact that protein is used for so much else in our body.

Being in a deficit, you are deficient and depleted. Getting enough protein ensures you aren’t catabolizing your muscle mass to get the amino acids you need for repair or other bodily processes.

Not to mention, you burn more calories even at rest to digest protein making it something you can eat more of without as much risk of gaining unwanted fat.

Tips #6: Prioritize carbs around your workout.

Carbs are immediate fuel.

To push hard in our workouts to get the biggest benefit, we need that energy source especially while in a deficit.

Timing more carbs pre-workout can help you have that readily available fuel while creating that anabolic environment to build muscle.

So no matter exactly your carb ratio, focus on getting some carbs for full glycogen stores prior to your training and then even refueling with carbs post workout to help you repair and rebuild.

Carbs are also protein sparing so help you really protect that lean muscle mass and use that protein more efficiently!

And do not fear if you train at night eating more carbs later in the day!

Tip #7: Take breaks.

While you may think, “It’s only a couple of pounds.” Those last few pounds are often the slowest to lose and the ones you have to be most strategic in losing.

Push too great a deficit and you risk losing even more muscle in the process.

But our body adapts to what we do.

It’s why the process isn’t linear and at times you have to step back from your cut and push to get lean and take that diet break.

This ultimately allows you to be consistent for longer and not burn out, not only mentally but physically.

It allows you to even add a bit of muscle and avoid metabolic adaptations along the way.

So if you’ve been pushing hard toward your goals for a few months, consider a 1-2 week phase of eating at maintenance as you push your training to build muscle and get that mental break from more intensive dieting.

Tip #8: Be careful of pre-workout or fat burners.

I know it’s tempting to want a quick fix or a boost, but these supplements can be dangerous and also have a further reaching impact on our recovery than we realize.

And our sleep is so essential to balancing our appetite and hormone levels for fat loss not to mention recovery from our workouts to maintain muscle.

While they may feel good to boost our energy and provide a temporary metabolic boost, they can impact our sleep and recovery in a negative way.

And unless we keep consuming more and more, we won’t keep seeing the same boost from them.

So if you’re finding you want to jump to using these things, assess your meal timing and first consider just something simple like a cup of tea or coffee before you train if you need. But less is more and you can’t out supplement your workouts or macros!

Tip #9: Don’t set it and forget it!

Your body is adapting and changing through your journey to get abs. Your lifestyle and stress and priorities are also shifting.

That means you can’t just set your macros or diet habits and then go on autopilot.

While we don’t want to be changing things up every other second, we do need to watch progress and adjust as we go.

That may mean a diet break. It may mean a change in types of foods. It may even mean shifting macro breakdowns, cycling up and down in protein or even changing carbs and fat levels based on shifts in our activity.

But track and monitor your progress to adjust as you go and not feel like something should work forever in one form. Because it won’t!

Tip #10: Suck It Up Buttercup.

To reach any big, lofty goal, you’re going to have times you don’t want to do what you should.

Times things stink.

They don’t feel sustainable.

You don’t enjoy them.

At these times, you need to tell yourself to suck it up and keep going. That’s the only way for you to push through.

And when it feels like nothing is happening, that’s often where we usually quit and where we need to keep going instead. Because often that is right before we break through and really see results begin to pop.

So if you’ve even felt like you’ve looked worse recently while pushing hard, KEEP GOING! Realize the areas that have improved and celebrate your consistency and realize it is part of the process!

But focus on consistent changes that build past the point you want to quit.

And realize that precision is so important when we want to push boundaries. Embrace the hard and keep going!

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