I SHOULD be in better shape

I SHOULD be in better shape

SHOULD.

That one word often sabotages the mindset changes we need to make and habit actions we need to take.

“I “should” be further along.”

Only makes us frustrated and feel broken and like a failure. It doesn’t help us learn or want to make more changes.

“I “should” workout 6 days a week.” “I “should” track my macros.”

Ideals are fabulous. But if you can’t do them?

We often do NOTHING.

We need to, as one of my fabulous coaches says “Stop SHOULDING all over ourselves.”

Because when we say all the things that SHOULD be happening, we don’t focus on what we actually CAN do.

SHOULD prevents us from making a change.

I’d encourage you right now to even ask, “Why SHOULD you do this? Why SHOULD you be further along?”

Because so often we never really ask this important question.

And when we do, we pause to assess what we are actually doing and what we need to move forward. The mindsets we CAN shift and the actions we CAN take.

That’s why in this video I want to share 3 steps you can take TODAY to honestly create an action plan to move forward toward your goals.

Starting with Step #1 asking yourself this important question…

“What does my CURRENT lifestyle and results actually look like?”

Where you are right now is a result of your past hustle and current habit practices.

The dieting practices you’ve done, starving yourself, cutting out whole food groups.

Overeating in self sabotage when you can’t stand the restriction any longer.

The skipped warm ups that lead to overuse and injury.

The rushed workouts where you didn’t fully push that progression or challenge yourself – you just got through them.

The haphazard programming and randomly strung together “best moves,” “best foods,” “best macros,” hoping something works….

This lack of planning and lack of focusing on owning our CURRENT lifestyle and priorities when we seek to make a change and instead just trying to work HARDER or do MORE based on a certain ideal…

This is what leads to the SHOULDING and stops us from making changes.

So step 1, before you go in search of a “perfect plan,” which doesn’t exist and I’ll get into more shortly, is to OWN YOUR LIFESTYLE AND PRIORITIES FIRST.

When you step back and truly assess what your lifestyle is and where your priorities lie, you can plan around them as you make changes and meet yourself where you are at.

What habits are truly beneficial that you’re doing?

What habits are holding you back?

What excuses do you always seem to make that lead to you falling off your plan?

When we ask these questions and assess, we can find little changes that meet us where we are at to move us forward.

We can start to build a plan that is actually sustainable.

Because if you don’t know where you’re starting from, you can’t outline a route forward.

And if we don’t own our priorities, they become our excuses every single time.

Family pressures and events? Long hours at work?

Not enough time always your excuse?

Stop then trying to force some ideal training schedule of 6 days a week and 1 hour in the gym.

Instead, especially if you’re barely making 3 sessions of 30 minutes now, why not start with that?

There is no perfect plan. But there is progress. And small changes to build lead to consistency which yields results!

Step #2, write out where you’re going.

And I don’t just mean write out your goals here. I want you to consider what the lifestyle at your goals will actually LOOK like.

Because it won’t look the same as what you’re doing now.

Change requires change.

If what you’re doing now worked to see results, you wouldn’t be looking for another program, another thing you SHOULD be doing.

You’d just keep doing the habits you’re already repeating.

But in order to make changes, we have to understand what changes are actually needed.

And while we may not have the full picture, we can often highlight a few things we know we will either need to do MORE of or LESS of to be at our goals.

As you list out the lifestyle your goals would require, don’t think right now about if it is doable. Don’t let the changes overwhelm you.

Just consider what you may need to do and even think about WHY.

The WHY part of that is key. Because often we don’t understand why we make certain changes or believe certain things are “best.”

This assessment of why we believe we need certain habits can help us already start to see things that may not fit or that may not be needed to then find other habits that are more in line.

Especially since you know where you are right NOW! You can start to see how many ideals you have that aren’t anywhere close to what you’re doing.

It may be eye opening to realize how far off you are from the habits you need, or believe you need. It can make us think…

“Well no wonder I’ve struggled to make some of these changes in the past! They’re a complete 180 from where I am!”

But don’t let this overwhelm you. Just write everything down. No judgement. No stress as to what you can or can’t do.

We will get there.

And I say write it down because writing it down makes it more real and tangible. It gives you a set destination to map out a route toward, breaking down those habit changes.

It reminds you of what you may need and even WHY you may need it when there are lows in the journey.

And it also then allows you to find one habit change to start with that may then impact other areas.

Often there is one thing that can really get the momentum going…

Which brings me to Step #3, set one small change you can make even right now!

Sometimes we make changes like we’re covering our eyes and simply pointing at a city on a map to drive to. Or like we’re just picking a place to go we’ve heard is “best.”

Then we expect ourselves to just know how to get there. And for everything to go smoothly and be amazing.

The thing is…

Without directions, we have no idea how to get there and half the time we won’t even make an attempt to travel.

How do we know that is even a place we WANT or need to go?!

We don’t always know what is required to shift in our lifestyle to replicate the habit or change we’ve selected.

We don’t know even if that change is something doable with our current routines and habits and how those will have to morph.

Instead, we want to base all changes off of where we are starting from.

We want to treat it like we’re mapping out that first turn out of our driveway to get to our destination. Not just pointing to some random turn somewhere along the route!

Because starting your journey by turning the wrong way right out of your driveway? That journey is not going to go well.

Instead, meet yourself where you are at and make sure you’re heading in the right direction with a doable step immediately.

This allows you to not only make a change that feels doable to build momentum and motivation through action, but it allows you to start the course toward a bigger habit change.

And it allows you to make changes in a way that can allow for easier course corrections.

We do have to start trying to find what may be “best” for a specific goal without fully knowing if it is best for us.

But by breaking down that habit based on where we are starting from and ultimately where we want to go, we can attempt to move forward to build up.

In the process, if we find that the habit doesn’t fully align, we can then always take another turn, knowing we’re still heading the right way.

That’s the key.

Changes that meet us where we are at to move forward but that build off each other so we can adjust as we go and find things that do or do not ultimately match our specific journey.

So based on your current lifestyle and routines you’ve just assessed, what is one small change you can make today that is a component of what you feel you need MORE of to reach your destination.

I say to focus on the MORE of instead of LESS of because often mentally these changes are easier to make. We mind adding more than we like subtracting, especially if what we think we need less of is something we enjoy.

But find that habit change that is, as weird as this expression is, the first bite to eat that elephant.

And write that change out to start today.

This isn’t sexy. Doesn’t lead to overnight results. But this momentum shift is what will carry you through and make you want to do more.

Because getting started with all the things we feel we SHOULD be doing is the hardest part.

This helps us take action and makes something we SHOULD do something we not only CAN do but even WANT and GET to do.

Write out that change and put it someplace you can see daily for the next week. Even give yourself a chance to check it off when it is done.

Then set a time a week from now to add on another change.

Stop SHOULDING all over yourself and ultimately never taking action. Start with action today and do these 3 steps and share in the comments the first small change you’re making!

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Transform Your ARMS (10 Tips For Toned Arms That Work)

Transform Your ARMS (10 Tips For Toned Arms That Work)

I’m flattered that I tend to get a ton of compliments on my arms and shoulders. And because people seem to like them, I want to share the10 tips I think have helped me see fabulous arm definition.

And I’ll tell you tip number one is not to include more arm isolation exercises in your routine…Although I will get to 9 of those “fun” workout tweaks after this cold hard most important fact…

Focus on your macros.

Yup. Not what you wanted to hear.

Not fun or sexy. But straight facts.

My arms were never lean and defined no matter how I trained until I adjusted my diet.

Because while our training is key to building muscle, our diet is key for losing fat too.

And muscle showing through isn’t just about having more muscle. It’s about lowering our body fat percentage.

It wasn’t that I started eating super clean either when I adjusted my diet.

Honestly I focused less on forcing clean eating standards on myself and more on balance while hitting my protein.

This allowed me to get consistent, train hard and finally lose the fat covering my hard earned muscles.

So if you’ve been training hard and feel like you have a bit of fluff that’s hiding your hard work, start tracking and focus on hitting a protein minimum.

For fat loss and better results faster, shoot for 40% of your calories coming from protein.

And then don’t fear carbs!

Carbs create that anabolic environment for muscle growth and help you truly push your workouts to create the challenge needed to force muscles to adapt and grow stronger.

Low carb may lead to fast drops on the scale, but long-term it will not help you look more defined and may even lead to you losing muscle as you keep trying to train harder and harder!

Carbs are protein sparring and protect that lean muscle as you lose fat.

The next thing I found took my arm definition to the next level was combining multiple rep ranges in a workout session.

Low rep and heavy weights or high rep and lighter weights?

The answer is both.

Although I will say no weights should ever feel light. Even when you go higher rep, you want to feel “maxed out” with hitting that rep range.

Heck you want even 5lbs to feel like 100 because you truly did a rep amount that challenged you if that’s the weight you’re using.

But by combining rep ranges for different movements for your arms, you can move more quality loads over the course of your workout and recruit more muscle fibers to drive muscle and strength gains faster.

You may even use different rep ranges based on the type of move you’re performing for your arms and upper body in general.

This is why, even though you want to transform your arms, you don’t just want to do arm isolation moves.

That’s why tip number 3 is to combine compound and isolation moves using that diversity of rep ranges.

Compound Burner Sets and 6-12-25 technique are two of my favorite workout designs to see better muscle hypertrophy and definition especially for those stubborn areas.

These two workout designs combine tips 2 and 3, using not only 2-3 rep ranges in a workout but also both compound and isolation moves combined in a series.

With compound burner sets, you’ll do a compound move like a back row for 6-12 reps with heavy loads, then work your biceps to full fatigue after with higher reps of 15-20 with a bicep curl.

With 6-12-25, you may do a bench press for 6 reps, an overhead press for 12 reps then tricep push downs for 25 reps going from more compound to more isolated as the reps go up.

These designs allow you to use heavier loads, a diversity of movements and rep ranges and even work a muscle closer to failure to see better muscle gains.

And with both tip 2 and 3, don’t be afraid to also change up the type of resistance you use and even the ranges of motions and tempos!

Weights are an easy way to create progression and great for muscle growth. BUT especially the more advanced and experienced an exerciser we are, the more we can’t just rely on weights for progression.

It’s why using different rep ranges and different types of movements, including both compound and isolation is so key.

But it’s also why we need to use different types of resistance and ranges of motion to create that challenge and progression.

Bands can be a great way to help improve our muscle gains by creating often more metabolic stress.

They also apply often more resistance in the move when the muscle is strongest and can help you be forced to control that eccentric portion of the lifting, slowing it down.

They can even be combined with dumbbells for a new challenge and progression.

Loading muscles under greater stretch can also help you see better results faster. It’s why at times increasing the range of motion of a move can be key.

Performing your tricep move overhead with a bit of extra stretch at the end can not only help you hit all 3 heads, but it can help you see better gains!

This brings me to tip number 6…Use different postures and positions to hit every aspect of a muscle group.

Varying the types of bicep curls and shoulder presses and tricep exercises, can help you not only progress moves through the same but different, but help you truly see that even development.

Different aspects of muscles are worked by different movements to different extents.

Like if you do want to hit the front of your shoulder, a front raise may be beneficial. While to hit your middle delt, a lateral raise may be better.

And instead of doing 8-12 reps of each at times, you may even combine a front to lateral raise for higher reps in one workout.

Diversity done with strategy can be key!

But mix up even unilateral versus bilateral moves, single arm vs two arm, to help you also address imbalances and make sure you’re developing things evenly.

Then don’t just get caught up in trying to do MORE each and every session. More isn’t better and doing too much becomes wasted effort and volume.

We fatigue over the course of our workouts and the work becomes less quality.

Instead of doing a ton of arm movements in a single session, spread out your volume of exercises over the week.

Instead of one arm day, and 3 bicep curls in that session, hit your arms 2-3 times a week, spreading those moves out.

While it isn’t bad to create a bit more training density on a given day, that frequency for those stubborn areas can really add up!

Increasing training frequency while reducing volume per workout can help you make sure you’re working more often at that true 100% intensity to see results!

To also help you create that quality of work, move more weight over your workouts, create that training density and work a muscle closer to fatigue, all key things for better muscle gains, consider including some rest-pause technique especially in those higher rep ranges with isolation moves.

Rest-pause technique is a great way to make sure you don’t just stop when a move feels hard enough. It forces you to do those few extra reps past failure you didn’t really want to do.

But it also allows you to keep your reps quality reps.

If you’re working in that 15-20 rep range, pick a weight you max out at 15 reps with. Pause for 15-20 seconds when you get to even 13-14 reps then finish all 20. This push is going to take your gains to the next level.

This technique though is also going to cause you to feel very sore often the first few times you use it which is why fewer moves per workout and spreading those moves out to train more frequently can be key!

But use this technique to truly make yourself push past where you’re comfortable.

Too often we think we’ve pushed hard enough and stop when discomfort just starts to happen.

To break down our muscles so they have to rebuild back stronger and grow, especially the more advanced we are though requires us to push that bit extra.

That’s where this technique can come in super handy!

Now, while I’ve focused a ton on the muscle building side of transforming your arms, which is key, definition is about body fat levels as well.

This does come back to your diet. If your nutrition is on point, fluff may hide your hard work in the gym.

However, with dialing in your macros to match the recomp you want to see, focusing on protein and not fearing carbs, you may also want to consider including a bit of cardio post arm workouts if you tend to feel like you’re storing fat there.

This doesn’t mean go run for hours or do intensive HIIT that leaves you slaughtered.

But on workouts where you’ve worked your arms, you’ve mobilized more fatty acids from the surrounding tissues. You then want to make sure these mobilized fatty acids are used.

Doing some compound moves combined like in 6-12-25 and compound burner sets is one way to help yourself do this.

But so is walking or even a more upper body focused form of cardio like battle ropes.

It can be a quick light session of 10-15 minutes even once a week after your arm workouts, but this little bit of cardio right after, especially when you have only those last few percents to shave off, can be that little boost.

And while your workouts are mainly focused on building muscle for metabolic health and to have the muscle you can reveal through your nutrition, that little bit of strategic cardio can help with the fat loss side of recomp!

Because definition is about having muscle but also about losing fat!

And last but not least, be strategic in your training and make sure your arm training isn’t an afterthought!

So often we want to transform an area and do 100 moves for it on like one day with no real strategy or purpose or progression.

This ends up in us working hard without results to show for it.

Design a clear weekly schedule, track your numbers and repeat your workouts for 3 weeks minimum.

Use these tips to include diversity over that week that you repeat to see yourself add reps or weights or even advanced movements over that time.

That progression and build off of the week before is what transforms those arms!

And then over time, adjust the moves or techniques you use to keep honing in on stubborn areas to create that balance!

But failing to plan is planning to fail! We need to track and monitor progress to adjust and adapt over time!

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7 Tips to Burn Fat (WHILE BUILDING MUSCLE!)

7 Tips to Burn Fat (WHILE BUILDING MUSCLE!)

You want to build muscle and lose fat? Great!

Here are 7 steps to adjust your diet and workouts to focus on body recomposition…

Step 1: Determine your primary goal.

Yes, you can achieve changes in both your muscle mass and fat mass at the same time. And this ideally should be where your focus is if you want to look and feel your best.

But this is a slow process.

So stop searching for a fad diet or quick fix.

However, as much as we can do both at the same time, we need a singular primary focus.

Do you want to lose fat while retaining and building muscle? Or do you want to build muscle while not putting on fat or even losing it?

Distinguishing between the two is key to help you see the best results and strategically outline your calorie intake and macros.

To determine which is right for you…

If you are basically at your desired weight and near the leanness level you want? Then you want to focus on building muscle while losing fat.

However, if you have more weight to lose and want to look lean and defined while adding muscle to stay functionally fit as you get older, you may start with focusing on fat loss while building muscle.

The difference seems small but determining your primary focus will impact your calorie intake, the macros you use, and even how you include cardio in your routine.

But before you can make changes, you need to understand where you’re starting from to adjust off of.

Step 2: Start tracking.

If you’re already tracking, YAY!

You can jump to step 4 and 5 to adjust your protein and calories off of your current intake, although circle back to step 3 for your workouts.

If you aren’t yet tracking, you need to spend 7-14 days logging your current intake.

Not only is this eye opening as to the other changes we can make that will pay off but it also helps us get used to the habit of tracking.

Logging our food is a new habit for many of us and one we may even mentally be resistant to. It’s not exactly the most fun task ever.

But what gets measured gets managed.

We can also start to see the act of tracking not as restriction or judgement but just DATA off of which we can adjust.

The more we know our current lifestyle, the more we can evolve it vs trying to fit ourselves into a diet and exercise mold.

Because if we want recomp, we need to create habits we can be truly consistent with. And macros are going to matter.

But we need changes based off of what we are doing currently.

So just track. Get your average calories for a week or two. Look at your average protein, carbs and fats.

Understand the make up of your food and even how you feel with your current meals schedule and diet!

Step 3: Don’t go through the motions with your strength training.

Diet is key for fat loss, but your workouts are essential for building muscle.

No matter your primary focus, strength work should be your priority.

Too often we prioritize cardio or even turn our strength workouts into cardio sessions when we want to lean down.

While these can make us feel worked or burn more calories on our fitness trackers so that we feel like we’re working hard toward our goals, they can actually hinder our progress.

Stop cutting out rest between sets and instead focus on really maximizing and pushing with each rep you do.

Too little rest doesn’t allow you to truly challenge yourself with progression in moves and you’ll find your 100% intensity dips over the rounds.

Instead you want to feel ready to push the discomfort each round to the point you would have liked to stop a couple of reps before you did or used the weight right below what you used.

You need the rest you planned in not necessarily because you’re out of breath but because you’ve pushed your muscles and want to go just as heavy the next round or even heavier.

And if you’re always hitting the top of the rep range you’ve outlined, go heavier.

The more advanced you are, the longer you’ve been training, the harder it is to build muscle.

You’ve simply adapted to more.

So you need to push progression in different ways. Don’t get into a rut doing the same moves over and over and over again or only progress exercises in one way.

Use different training techniques and workout designs, vary postures and positions. Combine tools and change up tempos.

Combine compound and isolation moves in your routine.

Use isolation moves specifically for those stubborn areas to work muscles closer to failure and create more volume leading to better gains!

Step 4: Center your meals on protein.

After tracking your baseline, you now want to start by adjusting your protein.

If you want to lose fat as you gain muscle, your goal will be 40%-45% of your calories coming from protein.

Not only can this start to create that deficit because of the energy expended to digest protein, but it will also help protect your lean muscle as you do potentially create more of a deficit to lose fat as you progress.

And the more of a deficit we are in, the greater our protein demands become to protect our lean muscle mass.

Especially as we get older and are less able to utilize protein as efficiently and struggle more to build and retain lean muscle mass because our hormone levels aren’t as optimal, high protein is key!

But more protein isn’t always the answer as much as I’m a huge protein advocate.

If you want to build muscle as you lose fat, your protein will be lower than when you’re in a deficit.

It may be in that 30-40% range.

You may start toward the top of that range and drop it as you increase your calories from your current maintenance.

In that surplus 30-35% of our calories coming from protein can be more than enough.

As much as protein is key so are carbs.

Carbs provide immediate fuel for our workouts to push harder and create that progression for growth and are also protein sparring.

Carbs help us utilize protein more efficiently and create that anabolic environment for growth.

Because we aren’t depleted and are getting more than enough calories to support all bodily functions and tissue repair, our protein requirements are lower than when we are in a deficit.

But no matter your primary focus, first adjust your protein intake. Then if muscle building is your primary focus, pay attention to those carbs, keeping them above 30% of your calories.

Step 5: Set your calories.

Take a couple of weeks to settle in with your new protein intake.

If you’re maintaining your weight at this calorie intake and seeing inches either increase in areas you want to build muscle or be lost in areas you want to lose fat, don’t change your calories just yet.

The macros alone have had an impact.

But then create that small deficit or surplus.

Too often we cut our calories super low which backfires in muscle being lost or we add a huge increase and ultimately just gain more fat.

If you want to lose fat while gaining muscle, drop your calories by 100 to start. While you can go as big as 500 calories into a deficit, that 500 calorie drop is EXTREME.

If you do that, do that strategically as a mini cut for a very short time or you are going to fight against your body recomp goals.

If you want to build muscle while losing fat, add 100 calories, although if you are super active, 300-400 can be more aggressive.

The more you make small changes and allow your body to adjust, the better your results will be.

Make the 100 calorie change then maintain that for a few weeks before adjusting further.

This checkpoint or end date every 2-3 weeks can help you trust the process but also adjust as your body’s needs will shift or even you adjust workouts.

As you build muscle, you may find you need to eat more to continue progressing and what once was a small deficit has even become “too big,” but more on this in Step 7.

Step 6: Adjust your cardio.

Plain and simple, strength workouts are the priority.

Focus on building strength and muscle in your training and you’ll see results.

But that doesn’t mean cardio isn’t valuable for your health and can’t be used strategically to help expedite results.

It also doesn’t mean you can’t include it if you love your long rides or runs BUT you need to know the cost of everything to even adjust your nutrition to match.

Too often we turn to cardio to burn more calories which fights against our body composition goals. So if you don’t enjoy the cardio but think you need to do it to lose fat, you don’t.

When it comes to optimizing your cardio for body recomp, walking should be your main form of cardio.

It isn’t catabolic, allows you to recover for future sessions to lift heavy and build muscle, helps you keep your metabolic rate higher and can actually be a stress reliever to maintain better hormonal balance.

If you do it post workout, it can even help you better utilize the mobilized fatty acids from the areas around what you worked.

So if you have a stubborn area, like belly fat you really fighting, you may include your walks on workouts where you worked your core more intensively. While we can’t spot reduce an area with a bazillion crunches, we do mobilize more fatty acids from areas around the muscles we worked.

Walking just helps you then utilize them!

But focus your cardio on walking for that aerobic base and body recomp.

Very short sprint sessions can also be included to help with recovery and even promote optimal conditioning. Be conscious though that you aren’t creating too great a calorie deficit while including these or use them strategically when building muscle as your main focus.

And if you’re focused on building muscle, consider sprints that are short with 3-5 times the rest especially over more 20 on, 10 off type interval training protocols you may use when fat loss is the main focus.

Step 7: Ditch the scale.

Body recomp means often not seeing the scale change quickly or even seeing the opposite of what we think should be happening happen.

If you’ve used the scale in the past as your only measure of progress, it has probably prevented you from implementing these habits in the way that you needed.

Because the scale may not change and recomp can be happening.

The scale may increase, and you may be seeing true fat loss and muscle gains. And then you may even need to be eating more.

But if you were only judging based on the scale, when seeing “no progress” or “backward progress,” you may cut calories lower, even doing the opposite of what you actually need.

So if you’re serious about recomp, while you can still track on the scale, focus on measurements and progress photos. Those will tell you far more. And for 5 signs you’re burning fat not muscle, I’ve linked to another video in the video description!

Because how we track progress is key to us maintaining the habits we need long enough to truly see results snowball.

Remember body recomp is a slow process. Focus on your consistency in those habit change and give results time to build!

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10 Years Of Fat Loss Advice In Under 10 Minutes

10 Years Of Fat Loss Advice In Under 10 Minutes

I wanted to lose fat and get ab definition for the longest time and struggled hard. I blamed it on willpower. My love of food. My genetics.

But I realized it was that I didn’t fully understand these 10 hard truths I’m going to share with you now.

Because I want to help you jump ahead using what I learned over more than a decade!

Starting with the fact that faster results mean CHOOSING to make more sacrifices.

Think of it this way, we all have a budget.

The more motivated we are, the more comfortable being uncomfortable with the changes we are, the greater our budget. The more “in pain” we are, the greater the cost we’ll pay to see results happen faster.

We’ll embrace harder changes. We’ll choke down that chicken and broccoli if you need. The COST is worth the reward.

But if we aren’t as motivated, the goal isn’t as important, other priorities are in the way and we really aren’t comfortable with the changes needed, our budget will be smaller.

The cost of some of the changes, working out 5 days a week, may not be worth it for you.

We need to recognize our budget when we determine how we want to make changes. We need to OWN that we choose how to spend it!

And owning we have a smaller budget isn’t a bad thing, it just helps us manage expectations.

This can help us recognize if we do want faster results, we may have to increase our budget!

And with habit change, what we like to do and need to do often aren’t one in the same.

We may LIKE follow along workouts. We may LIKE not eating protein at every meal. But your goals don’t truly care what you like.

I’m not saying to force yourself to constantly repeat habits you hate. Those won’t last.

But we need to recognize when we’re saying, “That won’t work” to a new habit, or “I don’t like this” and we’re not truly considering, “Is this what is needed to reach my goal?”

You’ve got to ask yourself, “Would I really care if I had to do (insert thing you don’t like here) if I reached my goal?”

Because many of the daily habits we do to have the life we want aren’t things we love. We just do them.

Give new habits TIME to really feel what they are like. Set a firm testing length to allow yourself to fully embrace them and see how they work.

To lose fat and maintain a new physique you can’t just eat and train in the way you always have.

Because your results are the sum of your habits.

That being said, we are creatures of comfort and convenience. The harder a new habit is, the less likely we are to embrace it. The easier an old habit is, the harder it is to break.

That’s why hard truth #3 is Adjust don’t eliminate.

The more we can ADJUST what we are doing over eliminating things, the easier and more sustainable the changes feel.

Instead of just cutting out foods you love, first start by seeing how you can…

Adjust portions of these foods at meals, maybe two oreos and greek yogurt over 4 oreos.

Or B. Making healthier swaps to the recipes or dishes, like baking sweet potato french fries instead of frying them. Or even making a pizza at home loaded down with veggies and protein.

Yes, there are more and less nutrient dense foods, but we need to own our lifestyle if we want to change our lifestyle. Change is a process that doesn’t happen overnight.

So if you enjoy pizza and french fries and ice cream, instead of just telling yourself these things are bad and that you can’t have them, find a balance working them in.

Same thing goes for macros. We need to stop demonizing any specific macro.

Fats will not make you fat. Carbs are not going to cause you to store belly fat.

Both of these macros are key and the exact amounts you need will vary based on your activity level, health concerns and age.

Even cycling macro breakdowns that are low carb or low fat may improve your fat loss results.

While fat is key for hormonal balance, and going lower carb can help us deplete glycogen stores to tap into our fat stores, we also want to note the more active we are, the more carbs we may need.

Carbs are protein sparring, improve our thyroid health and create that anabolic environment for muscle growth. They can be key to us getting that definition especially when training hard.

And by cycling higher carb after higher fat/lower carb ratios, you may benefit from what is deemed the “Whoosh Effect.”

If you’ve ever felt like you looked SOFTER while going lower carb, your fat cells may be holding on to water.

When we increase carbs after a lower carb period, your body can often release this water, helping you see the definition you want as your body feels it is then getting the immediate fuel it needs to stop basically protecting your fat stores.

So stop demonizing any macro. They are all key and should be cycled!

And while all macros matter, hard truth #5 is protein matters most for fat loss.

When we create that calorie deficit, we even want to think about 40% of our calories coming from protein.

This extra emphasis on protein when in a deficit not only helps you lose fat but keep your metabolic rate higher through protecting the lean muscle mass you have.

We need more protein when we’re in a deficit to not only fuel muscle mass growth and retention but also to rebuild and maintain the health of our other body tissues and processes.

If we don’t focus on protein, especially while training hard, our body is going to seek out those amino acids for repair from wherever it can. And our biggest and easiest to use reserves are our current muscle tissue, which we don’t want to lose!

So focus on protein!

This can also help you feel fuller and create a greater calorie burn even at rest as protein requires more energy to be digested!

And going hand in hand with increasing protein is focusing on our hydration!

As we increase our protein, we also want to increase our water intake to help our body process the protein efficiently.

Water is also required for many metabolic and hydrolysis reactions meaning that water helps our bodies burn fat and keeps our metabolic rate higher.

Lipolysis, the process by which our bodies break down fat to make it absorbable and usable, is also dependent on water.

So staying hydrated means better fat loss results. And with getting enough water, make sure you aren’t ignoring the importance of electrolytes to maintain that balance, especially if you are lower carb!

And if we want the best results possible, our diet and our workouts need to work together.

But often when we want to lose fat, we turn to doing more cardio because we often not only feel like we’re working harder, but we see that higher calorie burn on our tracker.

However, this desire to burn more calories in our workouts and out exercise our diet or even create a bigger deficit through our training holds us back.

You need to STOP trying to out exercise your diet.

Have you ever thought…“I workout so hard consistently but I’m not losing fat. I don’t get it…”

It’s your diet. No ifs ands or buts about it.

And you can say you eat well or eat clean all you want, but you can still overeat or eat portions not in line with your goals while eating quality fuel.

You can’t just rely on doing more in your training to burn more calories and make up for any deviations in your nutrition. You can’t just have a cheat day then hit the treadmill to make up for it. While this may have once worked, it’s what’s going to sabotage your metabolic health long term so you start to blame age for your weight gain.

You also have to recognize when you are creating an even greater deficit from your training and then NOT eating enough to fuel and repair. This can also prevent your fat loss results and lead to muscle being lost.

Training should be about moving well, staying functionally fit and healthy and even improve our muscle mass to keep our metabolic rate higher, not just be a time we try to burn as many calories as possible!

When we try to burn as many calories in our sessions as possible, we also often turn our strength workouts into purely cardio sessions. Stop doing this!

While this may make your workouts feel hard and you feel destroyed, this is preventing you from truly lifting heavy enough to promote those optimal muscle gains.

So if you’re feeling super out of breath from your lifting sessions while cutting out rest then complaining you aren’t building muscle, this may be part of the problem!

The cold hard truth is strength workouts are honestly more beneficial for fat loss than cardio especially if we want to truly look more defined and maintain our results long term.

When we build muscle, we help ourselves maintain metabolic health and improve our insulin sensitivity and so much more that only makes losing fat that much easier!

So while cardio has benefit, and shouldn’t be demonized, emphasize strength work for fat loss!

Now some of these truths may not sound fun and I do like to emphasize the hard so we recognize that change isn’t easy.

But if we don’t find ways to make our lifestyle changes FUN, we won’t stick with them long term.

While you may not enjoy doing a specific habit directly, try to connect it with other things you enjoy or allow it to lead into those things so you can change your mindsets about it.

If you like cooking, get yourself some new macro friendly cookbooks.

If you like listening to podcasts and hate meal prepping, get to listen to extra podcasts because you’re meal prepping as you do it.

Even get yourself new exciting tools to make what may feel like a boring habit more fun. Things like new leggings can make you want to workout. Or a fun water bottle can help you remember to hydrate!

But find ways to help yourself make habits more fun, if not at least tolerable!

And then…Fight the urge to do more.

When we want results faster, it’s tempting to do more in an attempt to try to speed things up.

This almost always backfires. It can not only physically but mentally burn us out. It can lead to us doing completely unsustainable habits.

The more you feel the mental resistance against a change, even one I’ve listed here, the more you need to break it down to find the smallest step forward you will embrace.

When I say increase protein to 40%, if you’re hitting like 15% of your calories from it, first shoot for 16%, maybe 20.

But realize that an ideal may be the goal…eventually, but you have to meet yourself where you are at now over always trying to do the maximum possible!

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10 Ways to Progress Your Workouts (Without Adding Weight)

10 Ways to Progress Your Workouts (Without Adding Weight)

Weights are not the only way to progress your workouts and build strength and muscle.

And the more advanced an exerciser you are, the more you have to even turn to other forms of progression in our workouts to keep seeing results.

These tips are helpful too when training at home or traveling to help you create that challenge to build.

So whether you’re finding yourself stuck at the loads you’re currently using, don’t have heavier weights available or simply need to challenge yourself through the same but different, these 10 forms of progression will help.

#1: Combine Equipment.

Different forms of resistance work in different ways.

Combining two tools can not only help you add resistance when you don’t have a clearly heavier weight but also take advantage of the different ways tools challenge you.

Try combining a band with your dumbbell exercise.

This way you not only have the weight of the dumbbell, but the challenge of the band that increases as it is stretched and forces you to control and decelerate as it shortens.

You’ll be surprised by how even a light band exponentially increases the challenge.

You’ll even find this can emphasize or activate different muscles to a greater extent. Like on a single leg deadlift, you may be surprised by how much more you are able to engage that glute!

#2: Adjust The Range Of Motion.

Changing up the range of motion we are working through can help us challenge our body in different ways.

By shrinking the range of motion and doing more pulses with an exercise, we can spend more time under tension.

This can really isolate a muscle to work it to fatigue.

We can even work muscles under differing amounts of stretch to not only build muscle but address weaker links or areas in the movement.

And pulses can be combined with moves that work the same muscles through the full range of motion to take muscles closer to fatigue when we don’t have heavier weights.

We can also increase the range of motion for exercises to increase the difficulty of a move and load the muscle under greater stretch.

Loading a muscle through a greater stretch has been shown to not only improve muscle gains but also helps you really create stability and strength through a full range of motion so that you mobility work truly pays off!

#3: Create Instability.

When we think about making a move more unstable, we may go straight to adding in an unstable surface like doing a move on a balance board or bosu.

And while these are ways to create instability and force muscles to really activate more and work harder to stay balanced, instability can also be created through taking a bilateral, or two leg or arm movement and making it a unilateral or single leg or arm exercise.

Exercises can be included all along that continuum from two sided to one sided as well based on our exact needs and goals and even to use progression through the same but different.

For example, you could do a two legged deadlift variation, an 80/20 variation, a slider variation, a bench variation, a hand assisted variation and then a full single leg deadlift.

And even if you can do the full single leg, you may use these others to create more or less stability based on the loads you have. Even combining two forms of resistance as you vary the stability demands!

You’ll even notice how other tools besides just an unstable surface, like the sliders, can add instability.

So don’t be afraid to get creative even using things like the suspension trainer or bands to add a little stability challenge to moves!

#4: Adjust Load Placement.

Load placement, or how you hold the weights or resistance, can not only challenge different muscles to different extents, but can actually be another way to create instability as well.

An uneven or offset load, holding two different weights, or a weight on just one side, can really challenge your core especially to stabilize and work.

Where you hold the weight can help you progress moves to target different areas without necessarily going heavier too.

Consider the goblet position, holding a weight up at your chest to work your core more during a lunge over down at your sides.

Even load just one side to work those obliques and fight that rotation and lean.

And on lower body moves, like reverse lunges or step ups, holding the weight in the opposing hand can even help you focus on targeting those glutes more.

But varying where you are placing the weight can create a new challenge to help you build muscle and strength!

#5: Change Up The Tempo Of Moves.

This can mean pausing and holding in moves, it can mean slowing them down or even speeding them up based on your goal for the exercise.

But adjusting the pace at which you do moves can really have an impact on whether you’re even working to build power or strength.

And both improving your strength and your power can help you build muscle overall.

Don’t be afraid to even use different tempos throughout the move.

You may slow down the lower down in a pull up, but return to the top quickly. You may even add in pauses at different points in the move to work on weaker areas.

Slowing down the eccentric especially, or the part of the move where the prime mover muscle is lengthening, can not only lead to greater muscle gains but even allow you to do a move advanced variation of an exercise than you otherwise would be able to.

And this can help you further build strength. I love using it especially to build up moves like push ups or pull ups!

#6: Spend More Time Under Tension.

Tempos really have an impact on your time under tension, but I wanted to mention time under tension, and specifically more time under tension as its own form of progression for a reason…

Because you can also impact time under tension through range of motion and even workout design.

With time under tension, you are getting a muscle to spend more time working.

Slowing down the tempo of a move makes a muscle work for longer, but so can adjusting the range of motion, both increasing it but also shrinking it.

In moves like even the Get Up Lunge, you’re increasing the range of motion of a basic lunge to go all the way down to the ground, but you’re also shrinking it in that you’re not standing up at the top.

So your legs never completely get a break. They’re in that working range of motion the entire time. And this can create a great challenge without you adding heavier and heavier loads.

Even adjusting workout design to combine moves or use intervals of work, which I’ll go over more in tip 8 can have an impact!

But getting those muscles to work hard for longer can help you increase that challenge!

#7: Switch Up Postures and Positions.

Simply adjusting the posture or position you are doing an exercise from can dramatically change the challenge of it and even the extent to which you feel muscles working.

We don’t realize how much we can often use other muscles or even seek out mobility from other areas to assist.

So even changing up an overhead press from standing to seated may make us have to check our ego and even go lighter with weights.

Changes in our posture can even help us target different aspects of a muscle.

Like a glute bridge and curl is going to hit our hamstrings in a different way than a deadlift because we are working the muscles by moving at different joints.

So don’t be afraid to vary how you’re doing those same basic moves or even consider how to include different exercises to target the same muscles!

#8: Vary Your Workout Design.

We can often get very “married” to specific ways of programming.

I often see people wanting their body part splits over the weeks and workouts with one move done in isolation.

Or they need specific intervals or circuits.

But we need to realize that sometimes varying up our reps, sets, rest intervals and such can really impact how we’re challenging our bodies.

Especially when you don’t have heavier weights, consider timed intervals of work to help you push past failure and do those few extra reps.

Consider even back to back intervals working the same area but with one move that is compound and one that is isolation.

This combination of isolation and compound can even be key if you don’t use intervals but do count reps and sets.

While we may often do a superset when we have heavier weights to allow one area to rest as the other works, sometimes doing back to back moves for the same muscle group can help us work it closer to fatigue when we don’t have heavier weights to challenge ourselves.

Don’t be afraid too to use different rep ranges. If you can challenge yourself for 6 reps great, but if you then have another move that you need 15 or even 20 reps to feel add up, don’t be afraid to use both rep ranges even in the same series!

But realize that how you adjust exercise order and even use different rep and set designs can have a huge impact!

#9: Increase Training Density.

How we design our workouts can also have a huge impact on our training density. But I think it is key to note this as a form of progression on its own.

Because training density is the amount of work you can complete in a certain amount of time.

And often to try to do more volume of work (more reps and set), our workouts just get longer and longer.

But this doesn’t have to be the case.

While we don’t just want to cut out rest from our workouts and turn our strength training into cardio and we don’t want to just add more reps and sets when we don’t have weights to create more fatigue, we can use training density to our advantage to see results.

Because often when we are training with lighter loads, a greater volume of work is needed.

This is also why workout design is so important to consider. Doing even things like timed supersets, compound sets or circuits, or Density Training, can be key to helping you get in more work without increasing time.
Your goal is to use harder variations and basically move more weight but without increasing time and through this create progression.

So consider each week how you can do a harder variation or another rep but in the 10-15 minutes you’ve set for that series!

#10: Adjust Your Workout Schedule.

Many of us may have grown up seeing those body part split workout schedules where each day you work a different area.

But not only have studies shown that more frequently working an area, 2-3 times a week, can be beneficial, but the more you don’t have loads to challenge you, the more you do want to use volume of work, or even training density to your advantage.

And this isn’t just in a single workout, but even something to consider over an extended timeline of a week.

If you are training with limited tools or struggling to build an area, consider adjusting your workout weekly split.

Consider more full body workouts or even hemisphere, dividing routines into upper and lower workouts.

You can even do anterior/posterior splits focusing more on those frontside vs. backside muscles in routines.

But vary what you’re including in your workouts to create that progression, even down to using different tools, different moves, different tempos, all of these other forms of progression, over the week to see results!

Remember we can create a challenge and see better results through not just adding weights but using these other 10 forms of progression! Which will you include in your workouts for a new challenge?

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