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How To Lose Fat Faster

How To Lose Fat Faster

by | Aug 28, 2025 | podcast

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Cori (00:00):
Welcome to the Redefining Strength Podcast, everything you need to succeed on your health and fitness journey, even the stuff you don’t want to hear. I had some fat loss questions pop up recently and I wanted to cover the if, ands or buts about them and really discuss what you need to see the best results as fast as possible because I know there can be a lot of different shiny objects to chase a lot of different opinions out there. And ultimately there is a right and wrong, but a lot of it is based on what we need. And so I wanted to discuss the nuance behind certain things and then some of the general principles and rules that can really help. So fat loss q and A, your questions answered. And note, when I’m giving these answers to these questions, they are directly in response to fat loss as a goal.

(00:47):
There might be a different reply if you were asking about gaining muscle or fueling performance. So also be aware of that as you’re listening to how you’re implementing potentially the macro advice or the workout advice that I’m giving. So first question I’ve gotten a lot is cardio strength. First, when you’re doing your workouts and as much as possible I like to put them in supper days, but I will always tell you that strength comes first when it comes to fat loss and especially if it also comes to building muscles. So if you want that recomp to happen, you put strength first in your day because what gets put first gets prioritized and your freshest force, you’re pushing at a true a hundred percent intensity. Now note, as I mentioned, this is about fat loss. So if you are training for a race, you might prioritize your cardio because that is the most important thing to you.

(01:30):
But if you are doing this to lose fat, to see that recomp happen, you want to put your strength workouts first and even put the cardio after on a separate day. The next question I get a lot is too fast or not too fast. So intermittent fasting is a super popular meal timing, and I call it a meal timing, not a diet because you can use it as a meal timing with macros and a variety of macro ratios. While some people do use it to lose fat just because it’s restricting the eating window, I also think that can really backfire. So in terms of to fast or not to fast, the answer is really it depends. You want to use this meal timing based on your schedule, based on how you like to meal prep based on what works for you. Because if you force fasting, when you train early in the morning and you’re waiting until the afternoon to eat, that is going to backfire massively and you’re going to end up overeating in that window and it’s going to be harder to hit your macro ratios.

(02:17):
However, if you’re training at night, if you like to skip breakfast, it can really work for you. So fasting is definitely one of those things that it depends and it depends on your schedule, how you like to design things, but play around with your meal timing, realize that one size doesn’t fit all and what even works for you with fat loss if you really like intermittent fasting may not work for another goal. And as we get older, we also want to be aware of the ramifications and how sometimes having that smaller eating window can make us undereat. And if we’re trying to see that fat loss happen and gain lean muscle, sometimes we need to expand that eating window. Even in the past that has worked. So in terms of that, there’s not one definitive answer. It’s about testing what works for us in terms of that meal timing.

(02:54):
And as long as we hit our macros overall for the day, we’re going to see the best results. Next question I get asked is high reps or low reps, and the answer is both. When you are trying to lose fat and gain muscle, you want to use a diversity of rep ranges because they all have different benefit. We don’t want to fear lower reps and heavier loads to build that maximal strength because that will pay off in terms of hypertrophy and gaining lean muscle. But we also want to be conscious that we’re using those higher rep ranges to improve our strength endurance because too often when we demonize that we’re not taking a muscle fully to failure, we’re not fatiguing as many muscle fibers as we can. We’re also not improving our recovery to be able to lift heavier. And I love those combinations whether it’s 6, 12, 25 or compound burners where you’re using some of those heavy lifts, but also with more isolated movements and the higher rep range.

(03:41):
I think that’s also where we have to understand the nuance to how we use things is that it’s not just higher low reps, it’s also what moves are you doing for those higher or low reps. Now off of that, I often get asked heavier lightweights and the simple answer is always heavy weights. What I mean by that is what you use for higher reps may be lighter than what you use for lower reps. However, too often we just go through the motions and turn those higher reps into cardio and just really go fast instead of thinking, no, it needs to challenge me. One of my favorite training techniques to do this is rust pause training technique, especially in those high rep ranges where if you have 15 to 20 reps, you are shooting for 10 to 15 having to pause and then eke out those last few because you are using a weight that really challenges you instead of thinking of it as even heavy or lightweights.

(04:29):
Think of it as challenging weight for the rep range you’re doing because the weight should always feel heavy. And if you’ve been fearing heavy loads, know that as you work down in reps, maybe right now for you a low rep range is six reps or eight reps and you’re not going down to one to five, you still want to challenge yourself for those reps. And if you’re lifting heavy for those reps, you are going to see great muscle gains. Next question I often get asked is, what macro ratio should I use for fat loss? And this one, there are endless opportunities to how you can adjust your macros and there is not one macro ratio that fits everybody. I’ve seen it happen where people will be like, macros don’t work for me. And I’m like, well, what ratios did you use? And they’re like, well, I try this one and one ratio may not be right for you.

(05:10):
And also part of how macro ratios work is the cycling that you do with them. Maybe you do one lower carb to deplete those glycogen stores, tap into those fat stores, but then you go higher carb after to get that whoosh effect and release the water rate being stored in your fat cells. So you actually look leaner. There’s nuance to how you implement those macros and there’s a benefit to each macro ratio and each macronutrient even. So protein, carbs, and fat all have different purposes in the body and we need them for different reasons. And if you’re more active at one time and less active at another, the ratios will really vary. So instead of seeing this as trying to find a perfect macro ratio or even perfect macros to cycle, think about how can I match what I need right now and even experiment.

(05:50):
And as you do that experimental in my programs when I do the beginner ratios, I usually have what I call more experimental cycles where it’s higher protein with more even carbs and fat and then higher fat and then higher carb. Just so that you can see how you respond to each and what fits your activity level and what your body is fueled best by because there’s the nuance to that. And then even as we get older, our needs might change. But off of that and learning how you respond to those things, what feels even good in terms of the foods you get to eat because part of it is our consistency with things. And as long as we focus on protein, which I’m going to get to in a little bit, we’re going to see fabulous fat loss results whether carbs or fat are really higher.

(06:25):
So there’s a lot of room for playing right there with what fits our lifestyle. But I will tell you if you’re asking the question, what macro ratio should I use? What’s best for me? You need to start experimenting and even start by tracking what you’re doing currently because the best changes are made from where we’re starting from and that helps us take that first turn out of the driveway on our road trip instead of looking at the end of our road trip and what’s the last term we have to make that has no relevance to where we are right now. So if you’re asking the question, just track what you’re currently doing and then I’ll tell you focus on protein first. And off of that I often get asked, well, how much protein do I need? I’ve heard about one gram per pound of body weight or goal body weight.

(06:59):
Is that correct? And so while that can be a starting point, that might be really far off of what you’re doing. Not to mention our protein needs really vary based on our goals. So talking about fat loss when you are in that calorie deficit and the more extreme the deficit you’re in, the more important it’s going to be to get more protein to protect that lean muscle because our amino acid stores are our muscle tissue. So if your body needs amino acids and protein to repair because it uses it for so much other than just building muscle, you are literally made up of proteins. It’s used in all your tissues, so you need it for so many purposes and it can even be used for energy if really push comes to shove. But because it has so many functions within the body and it’s so important, if we don’t have enough, we are going to end up going to our muscle mass.

(07:44):
And so all that hard work and training in the gym where you’re trying to repair and rebuild, you’re not going to be having enough to repair and rebuild and you’re actually going to be canalizing that muscle mass to then have the energy and other things you need because you’re in a deficit, especially the more extreme of one you create. So you want to be conscious that you’re getting enough protein, and especially as we get older, we can see a reduction in protein efficiency and usage by up to 40%. So we want to be conscious that while that one gram per pound of body weight might be a great goal to shoot for, it may be too low for you, especially based on the calories you’re consuming based on your activity level and your age. It may be too much right now because it’s really high above what you’re shooting for.

(08:19):
So I want you to really start by focusing on where you’re at and we really do see a great improvement in terms of the benefits you’re seeing from higher protein at about 30% of your calories coming from protein. So that can also be a great way to really break things down. And then even as you’re potentially eating at maintenance or if you’re maintaining your weight right now with the calories you’re consuming, just shooting ’em for that 30% might be a great starting goal. But if you’re really low on protein and you’re hitting maybe 5%, think about just that small increase of even five to 10 grams at one meal. Then off of this, going back to working out, a question I get asked is, what about cardio for fat loss? I need to do more cardio for fat loss is even a statement I’ve heard a lot.

(08:57):
And while there are types of cardio that can be very beneficial for fat loss, too often we turn to cardio instead of strength training and we even turn our strength workouts into cardio sessions. And if we’re not building that lean muscle, we’re not going to fuel our metabolic health. We’re not going to see the recomp we deserve. So I will tell you, prioritize strength work over everything else if you want to really get lean and strong and be functionally fit to your final day on this planet and see fabulous fat loss. But we often turn to cardio because we see that higher calorie burn on our different trackers and too often we really depend on this to create that deficit instead of adjusting your diet. We cannot exercise your diet ultimately, and the more we try to, the more we end up sabotaging our metabolic health.

(09:34):
It’s why we lose weight to regain it. It’s why we lose weight, but don’t feel like we look any more toned or leaner defined. So we want to make sure that we’re focusing on strength. Now, in terms of the cardio that is most beneficial, I will tell you it is generally not the steady state cardio. We turn to the long runs, the rides. If you love those things, do them. But we’re talking about fat loss here. Alright, so don’t get mad or get mad, but we want to think about HIIT sessions and not just HIIT that goes on for an hour, but HIIT that is maybe 10 to 15 minutes of that intense cardio session. And that brings our heart rate up and down because there’s a little variation to it. And with talking about HIIT versus sit, HIIT is generally longer intervals than we are doing now.

(10:12):
That’s sort of where the terminology has changed a little bit and sit is more of that sprint interval of work. So where we’re doing very short intervals of work with potentially very long rest to recover or because they’re very, very short bursts of even five to 10 minutes of work at most, it might be a little bit shorter rest where you do see the point of diminishing returns, but you are sprinting all out because those intervals work are so short. So there’s some nuance to how you use hit intervals versus sit intervals. And you can even use sit intervals in different ways. Whether you’re doing a little bit more power work or you’re trying to actually hit that point of fatigue where you’re seeing a little, you’re a hundred percent intensity. Your true a hundred percent intensity goes down because if you might notice over the rounds, you still feel like you’re working at a hundred percent, but you’re not actually able to go at the same speed.

(10:55):
But we want those sprints to truly be fast versus the hit work, we will see more of a decline and there is a little bit more of just pushing hard. But again, neither one of these are really long sessions, which I see people too often trying to extend these out to the hour long sessions and they shouldn’t be that 20, 25 minutes at longest. And a lot of that has to do with the rest, not just the intervals of work. You do not want to cut out rest and then walking. Walking is one of the most underutilized forms of cardio for fat loss. The last thing I wanted to cover was age. Does my age impact things or am I too old to see results? You’re never too old to see recomp happen. You can gain muscle at any and every age. And yes, the longer we’ve been training, the more training stimuluses we have adapted to.

(11:38):
So the more that we will have to push progression in new ways. Yes, as we get older, there are changes with our body we have to own. Our hormonal environment is not as optimal. We aren’t as efficient at using protein. We will see more muscle mass being lost if we are not conscious of it, but it is a case of use it or lose it. So we need to constantly be pushing ourself, challenging ourself, learning to fuel to meet our bodies where they’re at right now, if we want to make progress. But you are not doomed because of your age. You do not have to just accept metabolic decline, middle age spread, all the different things we blame on age, more aches and pains even. I know that’s a little off of fat loss, but we can see amazing body recomp at any and every age. We just have to own the reality of our lifestyle and the different changes that we’ve seen with getting older. So hopefully that answers some of your fat loss questions. If you do have more, don’t hesitate to comment them. I’d love to cover some more in a future episode.

 

*Note: This transcript is autogenerated there may be some unintended errors.

How I Transformed My Body (5 Changes)

How I Transformed My Body (5 Changes)

by | Aug 24, 2025 | Blog, Diet

Want to get leaner, stronger and feel your most fabulous with a lifestyle you love?

Uhm HECK YES!

Sounds too good to be true though…Right?

Well the good news is…it’s 100% possible.

But it does take embracing the learning process and focusing on 5 key nutritional shifts.

Note I said SHIFTS…

Because so often to see results as fast as possible we sabotage ourselves by simply going ON a diet.

We force ourselves into a mold.

Instead of ADJUSTING our diet.

We need to truly SHIFT our nutrition to see lasting changes.

And this, while amazing when we embrace it, is a hard mindset and routine change at the start.

It oddly becomes sustainable but doesn’t feel sustainable to start.

It feels honestly…well…HARDER To do because it isn’t just a jump in and act type plan.

It’s a learn, take action, reflection and adjust type plan.

And that’s not sexy or the fad diet fast fix we want.

I say this to warn you because there is struggle to create true change. But this change will actually have all of your hard work paying off.

While it may even feel like you’re slowing down, it’s a slow down to speed up.

So do the hard thing now so it gets easier later. Because if you avoid the hard now, it will only come back to bite you later!

Now to the good stuff…

SHIFT #1: Dial In Those Macros.

You know why macros are magical? Because they allow you to not make any foods off limits and they allow you to adjust your portions as your needs and goals change.

They help you understand how you’re fueling and how your diet is impacting how you feel and look to then have the power to adjust as you need.

Notice I didn’t say a specific macro ratio with dialing in your macros or demonize any specific macronutrient.

I will tell you that protein is ALWAYS important, especially as we get older to maintain our muscle and strength and look our leanest and strongest…but our ratios will shift.

Even as we work toward one specific goal, we will need to cycle for balance.

And as you shift your goals or even get older or your lifestyle evolves, you have to be open to shifting your portions.

One size doesn’t fit all.

But the key is we understand how much protein, carbs and fats we are consuming to have the power to adjust and address our lifestyle and life stage.

So as much as you may be avoiding tracking your macros, realize you’re avoiding the hard that will fully empower you for a lasting solution to opt for something easier that will keep you stuck in the yo-yo dieting cycle, struggling to know what truly works or what changes are needed next.

Now if you’re thinking, “But I can’t track” or “Tracking is restrictive or overwhelming or too much for my lifestyle”…

I’d urge you to consider…

What is “tracking to you?”

Because maybe it’s just that your tracking method isn’t the right method for you!

SHIFT #2: Choose A Tracking Method That Suits YOUR Lifestyle.

Just like there isn’t one macro ratio right for everyone or even right for us forever, there isn’t just one form of tracking we can use.

Visual portion guides, minimalist macros, full macro ratios…I’ve not only used all of them personally based on the season I’m in, but I’ve used them with clients at different stages as well.

So often we hold ourselves back by viewing habits as having to be done in one form.

But the key is actually adjusting habits to fit what we need understanding their benefit.

And the benefit of tracking is what gets measured gets managed. When we know our accurate portions, we can truly adjust them and then see the benefits of the changes to keep tweaking.

Tracking though can be logging in an app.

It can be taking pictures of our food.

It can be just tracking protein and calories or tracking protein, carbs and fats to hit specific numbers.

We can use our hand as a visual guide to understand that we had a single palm sized portion of protein or weigh food on a scale.

And we shouldn’t limit ourselves thinking we need to track in one form forever.

You may find that in January full macro ratios work well but when you’re traveling more during the summer you need visual portions or even to just track protein and calories.

Be open to adjusting the habit of tracking to give yourself a picture of what you’re doing and hold yourself accountable but with flexibility to match your lifestyle and motivation at the time.

Which actually brings me to SHIFT #3: Cycle Your Nutrition Over Time.

Nothing works forever.

Your body isn’t the same as it was a year ago.

Neither are your mindsets or your lifestyle or even your goals.

As things evolve, we need to be open to evolving our diet to meet ourselves where we are at right now.

This means addressing hormonal shifts, the changes we see with getting older and even changes in our training or goals.

But it also means being open to adjust with the seasons as our motivation may change as well as our priorities.

I think this last component is especially important to note…our motivation and priorities.

We often think about adjusting our diet and workouts for our goals but we never consider what is realistic for our current motivation and priorities.

Sometimes we do need to put our focus elsewhere. Sometimes our fitness goals aren’t as big a priorities as they may have been at another time.

Embracing this is key. It’s how we actually keep moving forward and ultimately make more progress.

Too often we try to force January habits on our summer or holiday seasons. And that’s why we feel like dietary changes aren’t sustainable.

We feel like we don’t have the willpower or self control needed.

When really we just haven’t owned that our diet needs to cycle.

Change up how you’re tracking. Change up the macros you’re using.

Even change up the types of foods you include.

Stop forcing some arbitrary perfect clean eating standard on yourself. That is ultimately what sabotages us more than anything.

Often I’ll embrace seasons where I’m going to work in more fun foods. But that ultimately helps me include more quality fuel over the entire year and want to make more sacrifices at other times.

Too often we don’t realize that by trying to be 100% on point for a 21 day challenge, we cause ourselves to end up at 0% for more time than we were actually “good.”

This leads to us feeling like we work really hard when really our consistency long term isn’t there in the slightest. We end up eating worse overall.

Instead if we owned what we needed, we would have been 80% consistently to be better off long-term and use those times we worked in foods we love to make us want to eat healthier at other points!

We also want to recognize that by cycling, we can match what our body needs now. Getting older doesn’t doom us to gain weight. The menopot or that weight gain around our middle during menopause isn’t just something that HAS to happen.

That’s why SHIFT #4 is Match Your Life Stage.

Too often we blame hormonal changes or even health concerns for our weight gain.

And guess what? They do have an impact.

But our diet also has an impact on the symptoms we experience.

And sometimes we’ve even caused hormonal imbalances by how we’re fueling.

So instead of just writing off your goals, control what you can control.

Adjust your diet to match your life stage.

This means shifting your macros to account for what your body needs now but also taking a look at the types of foods you’re including and your micros.

We can develop intolerances to foods as we get older or even have nutritional gaps despite eating “healthy” overall.

Sometimes we simply need more of something because of hormonal shifts, lifestyle changes or our genetics.

Sometimes we can develop intolerances to foods, like dairy during menopause, when we never had problems before.

Even healthy foods sometimes aren’t right for us if we have certain health concerns – like even broccoli may be eliminated if you’re struggling with thyroid health.

This is why SHIFT #1 and #2 are so key.

When we track macros and track in general, we can note how we feel with foods and notice the impact to make small changes that add up to help us feel our most fabulous at every age!

And finally…SHIFT #5: Prioritize Sustainability Over Restriction.

We get good at what we consistently do.

Restriction may make us see results quickly, which is why we are drawn to it as miserable as it can be.

Not to mention, we slightly equate something being “miserable” or “hard” as meaning we’re doing more so it will be better.

We equate effort and hard with more control.

But that isn’t the case. It often is what leads to us not actually making true changes to our habits and routines.

We basically just light the fuse of a bomb that will explode at some point.

This approach pushes us so far outside our comfort zone we end up getting yanked back.

Instead we need to see pushing into discomfort as slowly expanding our comfort zone.

Embrace your lifestyle and even own your mindsets and views of different habits to address them.

Recognize your priorities to work around them.

Because if we don’t own our priorities they become our excuses.

The more we build off our current lifestyle instead of trying to reinvent our lifestyle, the more we make changes that stick to see lasting results!

Slow shifts add up! Stop repeating the cycle just forcing another plan!

Dial in your diet to match your workouts and build your leanest, strongest body ever, implementing these 5 nutritional shifts, with my Metabolic Shred…

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4 Tips To Create The Life You Want (Act As If)

4 Tips To Create The Life You Want (Act As If)

by | Aug 21, 2025 | podcast

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Change Requires CHANGE

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If you’re feeling stuck and know deep down that you could be doing better, don’t wait any longer. Your life is not going to change until you take action and make a bold move towards your goals. If you’re ready to take control of your life and start moving towards the results you want let us help you achieve your goals. ⬇️

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Transcript:

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Cori (00:00):
Welcome to the Redefining Strength Podcast. Everything you need to succeed on your health and fitness journey, even the stuff you don’t want to hear, stop faking it till you make it act as if. So on the surface, these two phrases sound very similar, but there’s a big difference in how we mentally and physically embrace them. When we say to ourselves, fake it till we make it, we’re pretending to do the habits. We don’t actually believe we’re becoming the person who has that lifestyle, who has those goals. When we say act as if we’re thinking about the ultimate person we need to become and the ultimate lifestyle we need to live to have the goals we want to have and to reach the success that we want to reach. And then we’re just taking actions to become that person. And that’s the really key component. When we’re working towards a goal, even something that might seem vain or silly or not as serious in our life, we are becoming a new person.

(00:55):
When you are working to get leaner, you are going to have to do the habits, the lifestyle of that person who is lean. Now, that doesn’t mean go look for some influencer online and try and replicate their exact lifestyle because that will not be what fits you. You’re not trying to force yourself into a mold, but you are thinking about your current habits and how they might have to evolve and how your identity might have to evolve to be at that goal. And if you think about even leanness as the example when you’re going to a party, there might be times you choose not to indulge in the way you’ve always indulged, especially at the start of your weight loss process. But then at some other point you do or maybe you realize that hey, me, always trying to restrict myself when I’m going to this party, trying to force a mold of some ideal I saw on some influencer’s story is actually holding me back from embracing the lifestyle that balance that I want so that I can have the recomp, but also the lifestyle that I know I ultimately want to lead.

(01:48):
So it really is this process of acting as if you are creating a new identity to some extent, and that can be sort of scary when we think about it. It seems like this huge shift. Are we losing ourself? But we’re not. And if you really think about most of our life growing up, we’ve seen the biggest growth. We’ve been open to changing and a little bit more fluid and flexible with who and what we are. We’ve changed styles, we’ve changed haircuts, we’ve done all these different things. We’ve explored who and what we’re really meant to be. And at one point, that’s a good point, a good thing that we should be doing. And at some point it becomes something that’s sort of frowned upon. We should know ourselves better, we should have the set identity. And that’s where we stop seeing growth really happen and we ultimately hold ourselves back.

(02:29):
We sabotage ourselves believing that we have to be this one way. And part of it is the things that have worked for us in the past, things that either even others peers have told us, the people around us have convinced us that we need to do even things that we feel the societal pressure to do. But at some point we have to question, am I being true to myself and the goals that I want? Because every goal matters if it matters to us because we ultimately have to live with ourselves. We are the only one that does. We’re committed to ourselves for the rest of our life. So I want to talk about how you can act as if to really reach your goals and give you four tips. And tip number one is embrace the discomfort and show up Anyway. Making changes is hard because what feels sustainable right now, what feels comfortable right now is what we’ve simply always done.

(03:11):
The patterns that don’t take any willpower, that don’t take any thought, that don’t take any self-control. If you were to reflect on a lot of the things you do, you kind of run on autopilot. Even some of the self-sabotaging behaviors, there’s a pattern of X thing happens during the day. You have this emotional response and this mindset. You come home, you put your bag down the same spot, you walk in the same number of steps basically to the kitchen cabinet. You open in the same way. You grab things out in the same way you put on the counter, grab it, right? There’s this whole routine pattern that you’re unconsciously repeating. And so in order to change that pattern, you have to not only put in behaviors and actions, you want to do change mindsets, but you have to recognize it’s even happening as soon as possible, which is hard.

(03:49):
It’s unlearning as you are learning, but this is what drives that acting as if. And so even more than thinking about, I don’t want to do this pattern, think about the pattern that would be helpful for you if you’re stressed out, what would be a helpful thing to do? Because the more we think about those actions of the person we want to become, the more we embrace growing into them and we see opportunity, it feels like something we’re choosing to do over something we have to do. And we’re not beating ourselves up with guilt over the old identity even creeping in because guess what? No matter how much you act as if, no matter how much you become, no matter how many years down the road, and I say years for a reason, if you think about the transformation in a lot of time from school, you’ve been at school, college, high school four years, and that’s the time it takes to really shift identity at least.

(04:29):
And the call to the old identity is always there because it’s something that was easy or comfortable or good for a reason. But we have to recognize that there is this push and pull and that what we need to do to make a change will not feel easier or comfortable or sustainable often to start because it’s not what we’ve always done unconsciously. It requires that conscious effort to not only unlearn but learn. So there will be discomfort in that change. And the more we embrace that and even see discomfort as a good thing, meaning that we are exhibiting growth, the better off we’re going to be. And again, it’s not seeing growth or change as a negative, which we do, especially with identity. It feels like, oh, I don’t know who I am or I feel all these peer pressures. No, act as if really see that lifestyle you want to build and then embrace that discomfort and do it anyway, seeing that as a good thing.

(05:11):
And then tip number two, set identity driven habit goals. So often we think about goals as I want to lose weight, so I want X weight on the scale. I want these measurements, even performance goals. It’s like I want X amount of pull-ups. I want to be able to do race in this time. What about all the achievement that there really is in the habits you’re repeating? So if you think about it, if you want to become the person that has this lifestyle balance, that rocks those pull-ups, what are the habits you need to do in order to get there? Celebrating those habits is really key. And not only, okay, yes, I need to change my workouts to do that, but how are you fueling to feel your best? How are you recovering to feel your best? All these things are going to be shaping your identity.

(05:49):
And the more we even embrace that these things are shaping our identity because they’re changing our lifestyle and probably even going to require some changes in our environment, the better off we’re going to be. But we should set goals that are habit driven, that are changing our identity. So hey, okay, I want to go to the gym five times a week, and I really struggled to get a routine. Okay, so going back off of that, instead of just saying, I want to go to the gym, and that being the habit of I was good or bad because I went to the gym, which I again can create guilt. Think about how do I get myself to go to the gym? Okay, I shift my environment, maybe I put out my gym clothes, maybe I put my gym bag on the front seat of my car.

(06:21):
So after work I see it right there and I have to go, how can you shift your environment and then celebrate even just that shift in environment, maybe the first time you don’t go with the bag there, you still make the excuse, but then the next day you feel a little bit more of a twinge of, okay, I have to go. There’s no reason not to. And then that sets the pattern in place. So really celebrate those other changes in the shift in your environment, in the shift in your identity, not just the eventual outcome. Because those daily things that don’t feel like they’re adding up, they are. And often because we see ourselves every single day, if you look in the mirror, you’re looking in the mirror every single day. You don’t notice all the changes that are accumulating. That’s why someone else can be like, oh my gosh, have you done something different?

(06:57):
And you’re like, I look different. So really celebrate and even set those habit identity driven goals. How are you shifting your environment? How have you even reflected on who you want to become and really are implementing all the lifestyle factors to get there, celebrating that will keep you consistent. It’ll make you feel good because we also have to remember that momentum is built, motivation is built off of momentum and success snowballs. The more you do, the more you do. So we really want to think, how can I create this success mindset? And you will feel successful doing something uncomfortable because you’ll be proud of yourself and see your own strength on the days you don’t want to work out. And you do, you feel a little extra good about it, right? But then you’re also doing a habit that is identity driven in doing that.

(07:39):
Hey, I’m the person that is disciplined in doing this no matter what. So the more we celebrate that, the better we feel better ourselves, the stronger we feel, the more confident in our abilities, the more we’re acting as if even the person we need to be and the better our results are going to be and the faster often. Tip number three is create minimums. So you always move forward. Really, our lifestyle is built off of things we do consistently, and they’re very small things often yet. So often when we approach reaching a goal, we make these dramatic lifestyle shifts. We go on a plan, we force some world over evolving our lifestyle. And then I can’t tell you how many times I’ve thought this, I’ve seen other people write in about this or even say this to me, where they’re like, oh, if I can’t be perfect with a plan though, why do anything?

(08:22):
And if you think about that mindset, it goes back to the flat tire analogy that I love to use. That’s like getting a flat tire pulling over to the side of the road and being like, well, I can’t go anywhere. I might as well slash the other three. We would never do that. It’s ridiculous. But when we think about our nutrition plan, we think, oh, well, I can’t be perfect with it. AKA got a flat, so why do any of it? I’m going to slash the other three like the car and fire and walk away. But really what we need to do is say, okay, well how can I fix this situation or do as much as possible to get moving forward as fast as possible? Maybe you don’t have a spare in your car and you have to call aaa. Okay, well, at least I’m taking action to move forward.

(08:54):
It’s still something that is a positive in the right direction. So we have to remember that something is always better than nothing. And the more we can embrace those minimums, the more we’re meeting ourselves, we’re at. Even if you think about it as boxes, right? Let’s just say you could jump up onto that tallest box a few times, but at some point you’re going to get too tired. You can’t keep doing, you’re going to injure yourself even. And then you can’t do anything. Versus if you started stepping up into the smaller box and then you got a little stronger, you could step up into the second box and then maybe even from there, you could cheat and step up in the second box and then go to the third from the second box. But these are a little hacks so that you’re ingraining these patterns.

(09:28):
You’re really building who and what you are. Because we have to recognize too that we see more of that pushback, that pain pushback, the more we push that comfort zone. So the more we can ease in, let it slowly expand, the better off we’re going to be. So just remember that the more you go all in, the more you push back against those changes you’re going to get. So the less you do, if you’re just doing a small habit change, a 1% improvement, the less pushback against that you’re going to get. And ultimately the easier it will be to continue to do that. And then off of that one, when that becomes normal, think about all the other little things you can add. And again, the more you do, the more you do. And all of a sudden these things feel a lot more sustainable.

(10:04):
You feel really excited by the changes. And so you feel like you’re choosing to do more over feeling like you’re restricted or deprive or having to do something, something you should do. So just remember that those small changes add up a lot more, and that’s really how we see that identity evolve. That’s how we act as if, okay, so if my ultimate lifestyle is X, maybe I can’t do all that right now, but what’s the first turn from my current location towards that destination? Not what the last turn is, but what’s that first turn that can really help? Then tip number four, take full ownership. Ultimately, whether you succeed or fail, it’s up to you because no, you can’t control everything that happens in your life, but you can always control your perspective of it. Do you see it as obstacle or opportunity if you fail, if you hit a hang up, if something happens that you have to navigate around, you choose whether or not you navigate around it or you turn back.

(10:56):
That’s it. And the more we take ownership and almost place blame on ourself for everything that happens, the more agency and empowered we become, the more agency we get and the more empower we ultimately become. And this is so key to recognize because I think we think of fault and blame as negatives. Like, I’ve been bad, I’ve done something wrong. No, by saying, oh, this was a mistake. How can I correct it? We can learn from it. We are being more empowered because we’re giving ourselves an even recognizing our own strength. We’re giving ourselves confidence in our ability to conquer anything that comes our way. So the more you can take full ownership, that’s part of acting as if faking it till you make it. You’re kind of saying, oh, well, I’m pretending to be this other person, and if these things don’t work out, whatever, acting as if it’s being like I am going to be all that I want to be.

(11:40):
And that’s taking ownership of your journey. You have this one life to live. Give it your all. See what you can accomplish. Take on challenges. Recognize that growth and evolution are a good thing, because honestly, whether or not you know it, whether or not you’re choosing to, you are changing because every force in life, everything that’s happening is changing you. I mean, your skin is changing right now. Your age is changing, right? We see the signs of aging. You are changing. What we want to do is control the direction of that change as much as possible. And that comes from acting as if and embracing that we are constantly evolving our identity to help ourselves reach our goals. And that comes then back to the minimums We set, the daily actions that we do and celebrating those as wins to help us keep going. So I want to encourage you, how can you act as if who is the person you want to become that has the goals you want to have? And what are small changes based on where you are right now, not where you wish you would be, not where you want to be, but where you are right now that can help you start on that path towards being that person? Because the more you take those actions, the more you become that person, the more you see your strength, the more you see your confidence, the more you really rock those results.

 

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10 UNSEXY Tips That Will Change Your Life

10 UNSEXY Tips That Will Change Your Life

by | Aug 17, 2025 | Blog, Diet, Exercises, Mindset

You want to look lean and strong and feel amazing and conquer any challenge that comes your way?

That means doing extremely unsexy, boring, basic, even tedious habits, you don’t want to do DAILY.

And I’m going to share 10 lessons I’ve learned to help you value and stay focused on the unsexy habits that lead to the sexiest of sexy results.

Starting with number 1 which is…

What you LIKE isn’t always what you NEED.

We like what is fun. What makes us feel good. What is comfortable.

This is often what we’re used to and what we’re doing currently.

But a new goal, a new phase of life, may dictate new habits that feel uncomfortable.

You have to embrace new habits to see a new result.

Success means some sacrifice.

To get a result that you like may mean doing some things you don’t enjoy as much.

You may not like brushing your teeth for example but you like not having cavities.

So step out of just seeking habits you like and instead take a look at your goals.

What is needed to be the person with those results?

Those habits you need drive you forward and often the longer we do them, the more we like them especially because they are a part of how we feel our most fabulous!

Lesson #2: You can only train as hard as you can recover from.

We talk about overtraining a ton. But a better way to truly address what is going on isn’t to think of it as just our training. Because it’s not.

We’re not overtraining so much as we’re under recovering.

We can do more in our workouts if our fueling, mobility work, sleep are all on point.

Too often we just adjust our training over taking a look at these other areas of our lifestyle.

So if you’re feeling burnt out or seeing your performance decline, start to look at how you’re recovering between sessions over just feeling like your workouts need to change.

Because one of the biggest reasons we start to feel like we’re under recovery is we aren’t fueling properly for performance or for recomp.

We’re so focused on eating less as we burn more calories that we sabotage our metabolic health.

Which brings me to lesson #3: Eat more for fat loss.

This can be a harder one to embrace as we constantly hear how weight loss is about calories in vs calories out.

Eat in a deficit to lose.

And while yes, a deficit is key, more isn’t better.

Slashing our calories lower doesn’t yield results faster.

It’s also often what leads to us quickly feeling deprived, restricted, miserable and like we don’t have the willpower to truly make lasting changes.

It’s why we may see the scale drop to start only to end up regaining more weight shortly after.

Create a small calorie deficit off of what you’re currently eating. Only even 100 calories to start.

This small change will be sustainable and while it won’t lead to the scale dropping 10lbs overnight, it will lead to you actually looking leaner and staying leaner while feeling fueled and energized.

Not to mention, you can’t stay in a calorie deficit forever!

Once you lose the weight, you do have to work to increase your calories and maintain your metabolic and muscle.

So you can’t just focus only on calories in vs out and starving yourself more.

It’s why macros really matter. Sucks but it is true.

And not only do they matter, but so often FEAR of one holds us back from making the changes we need.

Lesson #4: Don’t fear a macro.

Carbs won’t cause you to gain belly fat. Fat won’t make you fat either.

Yet too often I see one or the other of these macros demonized.

But if we fear carbs when we’re super active and slash them super low, we can not only end up feeling horrible but we can see ourselves gaining weight as our metabolism slows and we create thyroid issues.

And fearing eating enough fat can also have negative ramifications, sabotaging our hormonal health, metabolic rate and ultimately our body recomp.

We need a balance and we need to embrace that our balance with macros will shift not only as we progress toward our goals but as our body, activity level, workouts and even lifestyle evolve.

Want to build more muscle?

You may need to increase carbs from what you did to lose fat.

Going through menopause?

You may see yourself become more insulin resistant and need to increase fats.

Be open to evolution.

And that’s why Lesson #5 is Nothing is a set it and forget it lifestyle.

So often we start a diet or new program and instantly want to convince ourselves, “This is a lifestyle!”

But we won’t do one thing forever.

And while we want things to feel good and “sustainable” whenever possible to meet us where we are at, often to start changes don’t feel easy or like a lifestyle.

True changes that yield results aren’t often comfortable as we’re doing something we’ve never done.

And over time we will have to tweak and adjust further. Our body, needs, goals, lifestyle will all change therefore our diet and workouts will need to as well.

Even maintaining your results will mean adjusting your habits at times and setting little mini goals to keep you motivated.

So instead of searching for a forever fix, realize this is a forever process.

Constantly search for little ways to improve and set new goals to help yourself stay consistent with the habits.

And often when making changes it is hardest to embrace the ones that have the least obvious quick payoff…Like including that 3-part prehab process and mobility work daily.

So often we just want to get to the good stuff in our workout, especially when we’re short on time.

But a proper warm up is truly the secret to better results faster.

That’s why Lesson #6 is Do the boring mobility work DAILY.

Foam roll. Stretch. Activate.

Do this 3-part prehab process for even 5-10 minutes daily and you’ll be amazed at how much you keep those aches and pains at bay.

Too often we wait till things have added up to address them then are frustrated when we can’t train the way we want or see injuries holding us back.

The more we let the build up occur, the more we have to dig ourselves out of a hole.

Better to not dig ourselves the hole in the first place.

Prehab is better than rehab.

Do this 3-part process every warm up and even just a bonus 5-10 minutes on days off and you’ll be amazed at how much better you feel and how much you avoid sidelining yourself with aches and pains.

And if you’ve been blaming your AGE for you aches and pains?

Take a look at your mobility work.

This little bit of time committed consistently can help you move and feel your best…and even see better body recomp because you’re able to train intensely each and every session!

Then Lesson #7: Stop placing blame outside yourself.

You can’t control everything that happens.

And there will always be something you can’t do or don’t have.

There will always be life trying to get in the way.

But there is also ALWAYS a way to still move forward.

The key is accepting responsibility even when something isn’t your fault.

When we just blame our lack of results on something outside ourselves, we don’t focus on what we can still do to move forward.

Don’t have weights? You can still build muscle through other forms of progression.

Don’t have much time to meal prep? You can still find healthy restaurants or quick reheat options.

There is always a way if we focus on controlling what we can control to see opportunity in the options over just viewing everything as an obstacle.

Lesson #8: Don’t tie habits to your identity.

I mentioned in Lesson #5 that constantly tweaking and evolving is key.

This is easier said than done though as habits become routine and learned behaviors we don’t even realize we’re repeating at times.

Especially when we start to define ourselves in some of our habits and even find a community around a certain way of training or eating.

And while our habits do shape us, if we fully define ourselves by them we won’t let them shift as our body, needs or goals change.

This ultimately can lead to us feeling like we’re working super hard not to see progress…

Or we may even find ourselves sliding further and further away from our goals as we cling to what used to work.

Who we are constantly evolves. Allow your habits to change too.

Our identity shifting isn’t a bad thing – it’s growth.

And we should ALWAYS want to grow as that leads to us feeling and looking our most fabulous till our final day on this planet.

Lesson #9: Slow down to speed up.

When we want results as fast as possible, we often try to make as many changes at once as possible.

We adjust as many habits as we can.

And that’s not a bad thing.

Until life throws something at us where our best laid plans go sideways.

At times like this, often we end up doing nothing because we can’t be perfect.

But this all or nothing attitude keeps us stuck in a loop of constantly starting over to never really see progress snowball.

Instead we have to realize when inching forward is still forward.

Sometimes during busy times of year we can’t do 6 workouts in a week. Instead of doing nothing, do 3.

While this may not feel perfect, this slow down in our habits ultimately keeps us moving forward so in a month or even a year we’re way further along than we would have been otherwise!

And finally the key to it all…

Lesson #10: Track track track track track.

What gets measured gets managed.

Plain and simple.

Part of tracking is having that accurate picture of what we’re doing to adjust off of so we aren’t just guessing at what is and isn’t working.

But another part of tracking is that we have to have a clear plan in place to give us direction.

When you have your GPS and roadmap laid out, you can track your progress on your journey and see where you are at.

You can see if you’ve taken a wrong turn even to help yourself get back on course quicker.

But if you have no idea of what you’re doing or where you are, you’re always basically guessing at what works.

This is what leads to us feeling like we’re working super hard to get nowhere!

Direction drives us!

And the more we track, the easier we make it to constantly evolve our goals and make the lifestyle changes we need.

So track what you’re doing and embrace that constant habit evolution to continue to learn and grow and feel your most fabulous till your final day on this planet!

Ready to build your leanest, strongest body ever and feel your most fabulous?

Schedule a coaching consultation today!

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Get Out Of Your Comfort Zone

Get Out Of Your Comfort Zone

by | Aug 14, 2025 | podcast

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Cori (00:00):
Welcome to the Redefining Strength Podcast. Everything you need to succeed on your health and fitness journey. Even the stuff you don’t want to hear, you feel awkward. Good awkwardness with a new habit or routine is a sign usually that we are making a change that we need to reach a new and better result because you can’t do what you’ve always done and expect to reach a new goal. Yet what is really comfortable is simply what we’ve always done and become used to. And we don’t recognize that when we’re young and we embrace that learning process. We don’t really think of the discomfort with things because everything to some extent is new. But at a certain point in our life, we’re doing a lot fewer new things, and so we get really comfortable with our habits and routines and some of them become so mindless we don’t even recognize we’re doing them.

(00:46):
And because of that, anything new introduced does feel really uncomfortable, a little bit awkward, and that strangeness to us makes us question if we’re doing it right. We also don’t embrace being bad at something and that learning process, which is often awkward, we can feel like a giraffe on roller skates and we push back against that versus when you’re always feeling like that, you don’t think about it so much. So that’s why as we get older, we start to see awkward as a bad thing, but if we don’t go through that learning process, we’re not going to make habit changes that we need because we do have to slightly evolve our lifestyle, evolve our identity if we want to reach a new and better result. And I can’t tell you how many times I’ve felt awkward with things like even doing a new form of video, doing the podcast for the first time, all of these things I had to learn how to do, and I felt really awkward and bad doing even sometimes now I feel awkward or bad with a new way of presenting something, and it’s something I have to embrace if I want to get better at it.

(01:39):
So I wanted to discuss how we can embrace that awkwardness and see it as a good thing to truly make the changes that we need. And I wanted to share this quote because I think it’s a great way to frame it in your mind. We crave comfort, but comfort never created confidence. Part of what builds our strength, builds our confidence, builds our ability to overcome, is pushing ourselves outside our comfort zone, ak, embracing that awkwardness. So if we want to reach a new goal, we have to realize that that is building strength, that is building our ability to embrace discomfort. We also get more comfortable being uncomfortable in more ways the more we put ourselves out there because we say, Hey, I’ve done hard things in the past. I can do this again. So talking about tips and especially five tips to help you embrace that awkward own it, see it as a good thing one, and the first thing is really to just say good with it, right?

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I’m feeling awkward. Own it. Embrace the suck. Say, Hey, yes, this is a good thing. This means I’m actually making a change because if this felt comfortable, I’d have to question, am I doing too much of the same thing and falling back into the same pattern that I’ve always fallen back into, which has not yielded the goals that I want? So first just say yes, this is going to be awkward. When you’re looking at a change that you have to make are the habits and routines. Look at them and say, Hey, what will feel awkward with this? What is there going to be a learning process? Might I fail? And the more you own that, and you embrace that and you see it as a good thing, Hey, I am going to stumble with this. Good. It means you’re doing something new and you’re going to move forward towards your goals.

(03:09):
Then with that, realize that if there’s something that feels too awkward that you’re feeling too much pushback, pick just a small aspect of it to start with. So tracking, for example, if you are like, I’ve failed with tracking every other time. I know it’s awkward, I know it’s also something I need to do. Say, why have I failed with it? What’s one part of it that I can do that still feels a little awkward, still is pushing my comfort zone, but not so awkward. I instantly have walls come up and I turn back in one more run for the hills, right? So pick one thing. You don’t have to conquer all components of something right away. And where we see that awkward become a bad thing is when we’re trying to push too much into too many different things and we just feel overwhelmed with the changes.

(03:50):
So recognize feeling awkward is different than feeling overwhelmed with things that are different and outside our comfort zone and so far away from where we are now. It’s like you want to think about it as a journey towards your destination. Ride. A road trip, you might be pushing towards a turn that’s like six turns away and you can’t make that turn yet, but you can make the one right in front of you that leads towards it. So you want to think about how you can break down all those different steps into manageable pieces. So own the awkward first, but then also recognize, hey, am I trying to do an awkward that’s not the next step? And break things down because you don’t have to do everything at once, and that can make you have less of a barrier or wall come up against the strange that you’re about to encounter against the challenge or discomfort that you’re about to embrace.

(04:35):
Then number three, understand why you’re doing it. We prioritize what we value, end of story, and if we don’t own our priorities, they become our excuses. So if you’re thinking about making a change and you’re saying, I know I should track, but is it really worth it? Is it really good for me? Will it really help? You are not going to want to push through the hard to do that thing, but if you’re like, okay, tracking what gets measured gets managed, I have this accurate picture of what I’m eating. Oh my goodness, I could actually make smaller changes. I might not have to cut out foods I love because I could work this food in to hit my macros and still have my portions, or hey, I can actually adjust my portion sizes or not have to just only eat off this one approved food list.

(05:13):
If you can sell yourself on all the benefits of the awkward, uncomfortable habit, you are going to find a lot more value in doing it. And when the pain of staying stuck outweighs the pain of change, we embrace the change. When the pain of change outweighs the pain of staying stuck, we don’t move. And so we can’t always change the pain of staying stuck unless we gain more weight or put ourselves in a worse situation getting more injured, which we generally don’t want to do. But we can change the pain of change, which means we can break those habits down, as I already mentioned, but we can also really value them to feel like they’re more worthwhile to do because we see how much they’re going to move forward towards our goals. So break them down to find where the value seems worth it, right?

(05:54):
The effort seems worth the outcome that you’re going to get from it, but understand why you’re doing it, and if you find yourself pushing back against something really, really hard like a change, like increasing your protein, if you’re finding all the reasons why not to do it, recognize it’s probably the change that you need to make. It just feels awkward for some way, and you need to go research all the benefits to truly understand why you should value it and why you should prioritize it, and then find different ways to prioritize it. By putting things first in your day that might fall by the wayside because they feel awkward, uncomfortable, you’ll find any excuse not to do them. So find different ways to create that priority for something you don’t yet even fully value. Even if you logically value it, it’s not part of your habit or routine.

(06:33):
Then from there, set tiny goals to get fast feedback because when we’re moving forward towards our ultimate goal on losing weight on the scale, we are not going to see progress every week no matter how good or perfect we are with the habits, our body doesn’t respond that way. Progress isn’t linear and nothing works perfectly all of the time, despite our best intentions. We’re not perfect with everything, but we need to find ways to see all the clues that success is really leaving us. So that means setting small goals first. So if breaking down your weight loss journey into small, manageable pieces where you’re tracking micro progress towards your goal, instead of expecting 10 pounds overnight, but not only small mini goals within that main goal of losing one pound every few weeks, but also complimentary goals, what other ways are you seeing that your habits are paying off?

(07:19):
Is your performance in the gym improving? Are you able to do another rep with a heavier weight or even just another rep with the same weight? Does your form feel stronger? Are you feeling less out of breath? Are you getting less sore and feeling really recovered? You’re fueling properly? Are your clothes fitting differently? Are people starting to notice? Is your energy better? Are you sleeping better? Is your skin clear? Start to notice all the different clues that success is really giving you and focus on really small ones because while they seem silly or does it even matter? Yes, it does. Even the fact that maybe you’re eating more fruits and vegetables, which will improve your health because you’re getting more micros could be a benefit of you tracking and making these changes and you don’t feel the payoff right away. But that small sign of success, that small change that you’re making will pay off.

(08:03):
But the more we really recognize all those different things and give ourselves ways to see that progress really fast, the more we’re going to embrace that discomfort and feel like it’s truly worth it. We’re going to own the awkward and feel like we’re moving forward towards our goals because of it and want to do more and be able to build on it. Then last but not least, I want you to reframe the struggle and stack the proof. So this goes back to having those many goals, right? The more you then say, Hey, not only saying yes, I lost a pound, but truly recognizing that, oh my goodness, I did this. This is how this paid off, and then relating it back to the habits that you did is super key, but stack the proof. Keep a running list of all the things you’ve accomplished because we get very microscopic in our view at times and very focused on the last couple of days that we’ve done or this one weigh in, and so we say, oh, I gained a pound this week.

(08:50):
Okay, well, you’ve lost 12 overall, even gaining this pound, right? We don’t reflect that. So stack the proof and put it in a place where you can really reflect on it all the time and then reframe any struggles you have. There are going to be struggles in that, but hey, this was learning because this is awkward and new, and in the learning process you have to make mistakes. You don’t get a hundred percent on every single test right from the get go. And if you did, you studied a lot, which is a lot of work, and again, reframing the struggle if you had to put in all that work to get that a hundred percent on the test. So it’s owning that any struggles along the way are that learning process and you improving and making things better, and that’s why the results are snowballing.

(09:26):
So keep that running list of all the success that you’ve seen from all those many goals that you hit in all the different ways and all the different clues that success is really leaving you. And then reframe any struggles to be like, Hey, this is how I accomplish these things by keeping going, okay, if I’m struggling right now, where can I maybe break this habit down? Right? Again, going back to the other tips, like picking one thing and then also making sure that you understand why you’re doing it. So if I’m struggling, okay, why am I doing this? Maybe my why is actually wrong now reflecting, Hey, I thought I needed to do this because of X, Y, and Z thing, but I’m actually including too much cardio maybe, and I need to back off, or I need to include cardio in a different way.

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Let me go research why this could be beneficial. But the more we understand why, the more we can also then see when we struggle, why something might not be working in the way we originally intended to work. So just to recap, first, normalize the suck. Embrace that awkward is part of it, and you have to go through that learning process, and just as we get older, we’ve gotten more into our comfort zone and we push it less. But if you want to reach that new and better result, you’ve got to do something new, which means being a little awkward. Pick one or two things, break those things down. Make small little changes that really meet you where you’re at, and then understand why you’re doing those changes. Also, make sure that you set tiny goals and that you’re trying to get that fast feedback on how things are working to see all the clues that success is leaving you, and then reframe the struggle and stack the proof so that you can see when things are paying off or if you’re struggling, what you might need to change and embrace that as a good thing.

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But I want you to just think that feeling awkward with something is actually a good thing. On that note, what’s the one awkward, hard, clunky thing that you are going to embrace this week that maybe you’ve been trying to avoid because it did feel so awkward? Reflect on that. It’s probably the habit change or routine change that you need to make the most to see the results that you deserve.

 

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