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The Habit Rock Pile

The Habit Rock Pile

by | Feb 6, 2025 | podcast

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Cori (00:00):
Welcome to the Redefining Strength Podcast. Everything you need to succeed on your health and fitness journey. Even the stuff you don’t want to hear, habits are like rocks we’re trying to carry across the field. So I was trying to think about making habit changes as we set new goals and how we usually approach habit change and why we often find that we can’t maintain the habits we’re trying to create and the times that we actually are successful. Not to mention even recognizing why certain bad habits are so easy to keep repeating and so hard to break. In thinking about all this, I came up with this visual that really helped me and I wanted to share it with all of you. It was this idea that we have these different size, big rocks, medium stones, small stones and pebbles all sitting in a pile, and we have this bag that we can use and carry about five pounds across this field, and we need to get ’em across the field to reach our goal, and we want to do this as efficiently as possible.

(00:59):
Most of the time, we don’t want to take extra long to reach our goal. So looking at this pile, I think a lot of times we go, okay, well I’m going to carry the big rocks across first, get as many as I can, and that way I’m doing it when I’m freshest, I’m getting these heavy things out of the way. So if we go to picking up the big rocks, which are those habits I think are often hard, most outside our comfort zone. They’re the ones we think, well, I can do this right now. So motivated. They’re the ones that are sacrifices that we feel like we’re kind of will powering our way through. It’s tracking macros when we’ve always said tracking macros is so overwhelming and we’re going to do it perfectly. It’s the two a day workouts. It’s some of these really intense changes that we make.

(01:34):
This all or nothing attitude type habits, those are the big rocks. And so we go and we put a couple in the bag and either A, we can’t pick it up, so we never actually get started. So overwhelmed with the weight of it, or we get halfway across the field and all of a sudden the bag ripped because it couldn’t carry that weight, and now we can’t even go back and start carrying the other rocks across in any efficient manner. That’s how we often approach habit changes, trying to do these big, overhauling heavy changes that weigh us down and ultimately sabotage us when we run out of that initial motivation and willpower. It’s like we had all this passion and then this passion bomb exploded on us and we couldn’t do anymore. So if you go back to that pile, we now have the medium stones, the small stones, the small pebbles, the medium and small stones we could carry a lot more of, but still, again, it might take us a little bit longer to go across.

(02:22):
These habits are things that might be a little uncomfortable but easier to do, or they might take a little bit more effort, be harder to do, but are more comfortable for us. So thinking about things like if you say working out, working out is technically hard, but if you like doing it, you might be like, this is the thing I can always do. I can’t change my diet, but I can change my workouts. Well, you’re comfortable being uncomfortable in that way. It’s technically a hard thing. You’re just comfortable making changes. So we have habits like that. We also have habits that for some reason we really just don’t like doing. We’re not comfortable doing, even though they’re so easy to do. Not even fitness related. I equate this to doing laundry. It’s not really that hard to do, not even that time consuming, but I hate doing it.

(03:05):
So we all have those habits. It might be meal prepping for you, it might be drinking more water, but those are sort of the medium stones and small stones, and we can get those across. But if we’re only carrying those across, it’s not that efficient. There’s times where we put too much weight in and we bog ourselves down or results don’t happen fast enough, so we lose motivation and we give up because we feel like we’re not there yet. Same thing can sort of be said for those small pebbles. These are the habits that barely push your comfort zone. They’re the really easy 1% changes, and while they can really add up, but we might even be able to carry a whole lot of them across in one go. This is often where we’re like, unless we’re really embracing sustainable changes, we’re like, Ugh, nothing’s adding up because these aren’t sexy.

(03:45):
They don’t feel like these massive changes for us. So it doesn’t give us that feeling of doing more. It’s often the things we really need to do, but again, it makes us not as efficient or create as fast a change. It’s sustainable, but we still have those other hard habits we might need to embrace. Sometimes it can help us work our way up to them, but we still have all this diversity of habit change we have to make. And we have only so much willpower. We have only so much motivation. We have only so many ways we can shift our priorities. So how can we manage to make habit changes that actually last? This is where you have to think about efficiency in that bag. What’s one hard habit change you can make? Put that into the bag. How can I fit some medium stones and small stones of bear on that big rock?

(04:28):
So how can I include some habit changes that are maybe a little less comfortable but easy to do technically or a little harder to do, but I’m more comfortable with sort of around that? And then how can I put in some 1% changes around that for maybe one of the other big rocks I can’t carry yet? So I’m using all that space efficiently. If I’m combining all these different types of habits into one bag, I’m going to make it across the field as fast as possible. And I might even be able to then say, Hey, I can actually take two of these big rocks. They’re not quite as big in the next go. And you might be able to do a little bit more, be willing to make a few more sacrifices. You are really motivated, or you might hit a time of year, be a little fatigued carrying the rocks across and recognize, Hey, I don’t have the same focus and intensity.

(05:12):
I’m fatigued mentally, even fatigued with the habit changes. I’m going to carry a few more small pebbles in this go. But that way you’re always moving across and you’re moving across as efficiently as possible. You’re keeping that forward with momentum towards your goal. Well, recognizing that different habits have different hard for us and that we can’t just always go at one speed, carrying only one weight of a habit, and that that’s also what sabotaged us. And along the way, we might get lucky and even find a sledgehammer where we can break down some of the big rocks into smaller stones that are more manageable for us to get across. But the more we look at our habit changes not just as one size, one type of habit, but as this diversity, the more we can really assess who we are, what we need, even at this stage season of life, time of the year, to be able to carry across those habits, to be able to use those habits to move forward towards our goal in the most efficient manner possible.

(06:05):
Love to hear your thoughts on this. Hope this really helped you embrace habit changes and even assess some of the habits you’re currently doing to see are these big rocks that are really hard and am I doing too many of them to sabotage myself and overwhelm myself and run out of willpower? Or am I only sticking with the small pebbles? And that’s maybe why, yes, this feels sustainable, but I’m not seeing results snowball as fast as I’d like, and I’m losing motivation because of that. Can I incorporate some of the small stones and some of the medium stones into this to really be efficient in how I’m seeing results happen and be able to get everything moving forward towards my goal a little bit faster?

 

*Note: This transcript is autogenerated there may be some unintended errors.

Are Bulgarian Split Squats Overrated?

Are Bulgarian Split Squats Overrated?

by | Feb 2, 2025 | Blog, Exercises, Functional Fitness

The Bulgarian Split Squat or Balance Lunge is a move you see all over social media. It’s even a staple in many standard gym training routines. Many say it is a “must-do” exercise or the “best” unilateral leg moves.

But honestly, it’s slightly overrated BECAUSE it is so often done INCORRECTLY.

It’s a move that’s far more advanced than we realize and many of us haven’t earned the variation we’re using.

So we don’t see the full benefit of the exercise. And even end up injured from it.

We wobble around and let our front knee cave in. We don’t lower down to the ground using the full range of motion. We rush through as we lose our balance.

Our training should feel hard with purpose. We want every move to truly pay off and yield the best results as fast as possible.

That’s why I wanted to share my favorite static lunge variation to start with and even variations of the Balance Lunge you may use instead.

But before I do I wanted to share 3 key form tips if you are using the Balance Lunge to make sure you’re getting the most out of the exercise!

#1: Set up at the BOTTOM of the lunge.

By setting up at the bottom of the lunge, you can make sure your feet are not only in the right position but also make sure you are truly able to work through a full range of motion.

Because the value in doing the Balance Lunges is in the range of motion. You’re increasing the range of motion to create more of a challenge and progress the exercise.

This increased range of motion puts muscles under greater stretch while loaded to help you see better muscle and strength gains.

It also helps you maintain a bigger range of hip motion. So if you’ve been doing that mobility work, you need to make sure you’re doing moves to fully strengthen through the range of motion you built.

Too often when we do Balance Lunges we aren’t actually going through the full range of motion completely defeating part of the purpose of using them in the first place!

We also aren’t stable in our set up because our feet are at odd widths. This set up at the bottom, allows you to focus on pushing the ground away and set up at a stance you can control.

You can choose to flex or relax your back foot based on your toe and ankle mobility. But make sure you’re creating that tension down into the bench or box either way to stabilize.

While more load will be on that front leg, you want tension through your back foot to balance as you focus on your front foot pushing down into the ground like a tripod with two points in the ball of your foot and one in your heel!

This helps you truly activate the muscles of your leg and even helps with knee alignment so that it isn’t caving in!

#2: Use torso and shin angle to your advantage.

We think of form as this very set binary thing – good or bad. But with so many moves, there are tweaks to form you can use to emphasize the muscles you want to work and even better suit your unique build.

With the Balance Lunge, you can change your shin angle and torso angle to help you emphasize more quad or more glute.

You can also use these two things based on ankle mobility and knee issues to work around aches and pains.

A more vertical shin angle will help you emphasize your glutes especially when combined with a slight more hip hinge or a slight lean to your torso.

Allowing your knee to move a bit more forward over the all of your foot while maintaining a more vertical torso position will emphasize your quads more.

Which you use will be based on your goals for the exercise. Everything should be included with purpose.

Also you may find that previous knee injuries or even ankle mobility issues impact the postures you use.

If you have issues with knee pain or ankle mobility, even due to previous ankle sprains, you may find you need to use a bit more of a vertical shin angle although you can play around with torso angle a bit.

#3: Adjust your depth!

The higher the bench or box you use, the harder this lunge is, creating more instability and a bigger range of motion. You need to be more mobile and stronger as you increase the range of motion you’re working through.
This makes changing the height of the box or bench a great way to progress this move potentially without adding weights. But it also means the height of the bench is something you need to EARN.

Yet so often we just think Balance Lunge and we just go to any bench around instead of finding one that fits our needs and fitness level.

Don’t be afraid to adjust the height based on your mobility and height. Also don’t be afraid to adjust the height to progress the movement without adding loads.

And if you do want to focus on lifting more, don’t be afraid to even go LOWER than you have in the past to progress and add instability while going heavier. There are so many ways to create progression through how we combine range of motion, stability and resistance!

The importance of the height of the box or bench we are using is too often not appreciated and recognized, which is why I feel so often this lunge is overrated and misused.

Because if you don’t work through the range of motion you’re creating, you’re better off doing a different lunge variation instead and really learning to control it with loads.

Results come from quality of movement.

That’s why I love to start with the Split Squat and even return to this move to focus more on progression through adding heavier and heavier loads while maintaining mobility.

Because lunges are a great mobility and stability exercise for our hips especially when included at the level and in the variation that matches our fitness level, needs and goals.

The split squat is the most basic static lunge variation. But instead of your back foot up on a bench or box, you’re doing this move fully off the ground.

If you can’t yet lower your back knee to touch the ground, or hover right above it, you haven’t earned increasing the range of motion further.

If you aren’t yet able to go to the ground, you can also reduce the range of motion you’re working through to build up.

You can place a block under your back knee and lower to that over going all of the way to the ground. This is a great way to slowly build up that range of motion and hip mobility and leg strength but in a way you can control.

With this split squat, I love to set up at the bottom and focus on maintaining that even pressure between both your foot and back foot, whether you’re doing it off the ground or from the block. This push down into the ground to help you drive up centered is key to helping you balance and really engage your legs.

And like the Balance Lunge, you can adjust torso and shin angle to impact what muscles you activate more.

You can add load to this move as you can control that full range of motion.

And this is where there is extra opportunity in the options and variations of the split squat that you can even use to tweak the balance lunge to fit your needs.

With adding resistance, it isn’t just about going directly heavier all of the time.

You can change where you hold the weights from down at your sides to allow yourself to focus on your legs and grip and go heavier to up at your chest in the goblet position to target your core more.

You can even unilaterally load the weight and hold it on one side to work on core stability. Even holding a weight in the opposite hand from your front leg can help you target your glute medius more especially with that torso lean and vertical shin angle.

You can even change how you’re applying resistance by using a mini band over dumbbells.

The key is understanding there are options to really make this move fit your needs and goals.

And with the Balance Lunge, we so often only increase range of motion by placing our back foot up.

However, you can also progress the basic split squat by raising your FRONT foot up as a deficit split squat.

Even if you love the Balance Lunge and can work through that full range of motion, you may include this to emphasize different muscles and even create progression through the same but different.

Just like you return to the split squat to go heavier while having the more limited range of motion.

With the Deficit Split Squat, some may find this easier to control while getting the benefits of working through a bigger range of motion.

And a very small elevation can have a huge impact. It may even feel better for some with longer femurs or upper legs.

The deficit split squat can keep that front leg in more of a working range of motion and put the glute under greater stretch in that front leg. And unlike the Balance Lunge, you won’t have more of your weight in that front leg, making it potentially easier to balance with full pressure between both legs and feet.

So as you build up and progress, see opportunity in the options. But don’t just include a move to use it because someone said it was the “best” or a “must-do.”

Make sure every move you use has purpose and that you can use it for quality reps!

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10 Ways to Progress Your Workouts (Without Adding Weight)

10 Ways to Progress Your Workouts (Without Adding Weight)

by | Jan 26, 2025 | Blog, Exercises, Functional Fitness, Workouts

Weights are not the only way to progress your workouts and build strength and muscle.

And the more advanced an exerciser you are, the more you have to even turn to other forms of progression in our workouts to keep seeing results.

These tips are helpful too when training at home or traveling to help you create that challenge to build.

So whether you’re finding yourself stuck at the loads you’re currently using, don’t have heavier weights available or simply need to challenge yourself through the same but different, these 10 forms of progression will help.

#1: Combine Equipment.

Different forms of resistance work in different ways.

Combining two tools can not only help you add resistance when you don’t have a clearly heavier weight but also take advantage of the different ways tools challenge you.

Try combining a band with your dumbbell exercise.

This way you not only have the weight of the dumbbell, but the challenge of the band that increases as it is stretched and forces you to control and decelerate as it shortens.

You’ll be surprised by how even a light band exponentially increases the challenge.

You’ll even find this can emphasize or activate different muscles to a greater extent. Like on a single leg deadlift, you may be surprised by how much more you are able to engage that glute!

#2: Adjust The Range Of Motion.

Changing up the range of motion we are working through can help us challenge our body in different ways.

By shrinking the range of motion and doing more pulses with an exercise, we can spend more time under tension.

This can really isolate a muscle to work it to fatigue.

We can even work muscles under differing amounts of stretch to not only build muscle but address weaker links or areas in the movement.

And pulses can be combined with moves that work the same muscles through the full range of motion to take muscles closer to fatigue when we don’t have heavier weights.

We can also increase the range of motion for exercises to increase the difficulty of a move and load the muscle under greater stretch.

Loading a muscle through a greater stretch has been shown to not only improve muscle gains but also helps you really create stability and strength through a full range of motion so that you mobility work truly pays off!

#3: Create Instability.

When we think about making a move more unstable, we may go straight to adding in an unstable surface like doing a move on a balance board or bosu.

And while these are ways to create instability and force muscles to really activate more and work harder to stay balanced, instability can also be created through taking a bilateral, or two leg or arm movement and making it a unilateral or single leg or arm exercise.

Exercises can be included all along that continuum from two sided to one sided as well based on our exact needs and goals and even to use progression through the same but different.

For example, you could do a two legged deadlift variation, an 80/20 variation, a slider variation, a bench variation, a hand assisted variation and then a full single leg deadlift.

And even if you can do the full single leg, you may use these others to create more or less stability based on the loads you have. Even combining two forms of resistance as you vary the stability demands!

You’ll even notice how other tools besides just an unstable surface, like the sliders, can add instability.

So don’t be afraid to get creative even using things like the suspension trainer or bands to add a little stability challenge to moves!

#4: Adjust Load Placement.

Load placement, or how you hold the weights or resistance, can not only challenge different muscles to different extents, but can actually be another way to create instability as well.

An uneven or offset load, holding two different weights, or a weight on just one side, can really challenge your core especially to stabilize and work.

Where you hold the weight can help you progress moves to target different areas without necessarily going heavier too.

Consider the goblet position, holding a weight up at your chest to work your core more during a lunge over down at your sides.

Even load just one side to work those obliques and fight that rotation and lean.

And on lower body moves, like reverse lunges or step ups, holding the weight in the opposing hand can even help you focus on targeting those glutes more.

But varying where you are placing the weight can create a new challenge to help you build muscle and strength!

#5: Change Up The Tempo Of Moves.

This can mean pausing and holding in moves, it can mean slowing them down or even speeding them up based on your goal for the exercise.

But adjusting the pace at which you do moves can really have an impact on whether you’re even working to build power or strength.

And both improving your strength and your power can help you build muscle overall.

Don’t be afraid to even use different tempos throughout the move.

You may slow down the lower down in a pull up, but return to the top quickly. You may even add in pauses at different points in the move to work on weaker areas.

Slowing down the eccentric especially, or the part of the move where the prime mover muscle is lengthening, can not only lead to greater muscle gains but even allow you to do a move advanced variation of an exercise than you otherwise would be able to.

And this can help you further build strength. I love using it especially to build up moves like push ups or pull ups!

#6: Spend More Time Under Tension.

Tempos really have an impact on your time under tension, but I wanted to mention time under tension, and specifically more time under tension as its own form of progression for a reason…

Because you can also impact time under tension through range of motion and even workout design.

With time under tension, you are getting a muscle to spend more time working.

Slowing down the tempo of a move makes a muscle work for longer, but so can adjusting the range of motion, both increasing it but also shrinking it.

In moves like even the Get Up Lunge, you’re increasing the range of motion of a basic lunge to go all the way down to the ground, but you’re also shrinking it in that you’re not standing up at the top.

So your legs never completely get a break. They’re in that working range of motion the entire time. And this can create a great challenge without you adding heavier and heavier loads.

Even adjusting workout design to combine moves or use intervals of work, which I’ll go over more in tip 8 can have an impact!

But getting those muscles to work hard for longer can help you increase that challenge!

#7: Switch Up Postures and Positions.

Simply adjusting the posture or position you are doing an exercise from can dramatically change the challenge of it and even the extent to which you feel muscles working.

We don’t realize how much we can often use other muscles or even seek out mobility from other areas to assist.

So even changing up an overhead press from standing to seated may make us have to check our ego and even go lighter with weights.

Changes in our posture can even help us target different aspects of a muscle.

Like a glute bridge and curl is going to hit our hamstrings in a different way than a deadlift because we are working the muscles by moving at different joints.

So don’t be afraid to vary how you’re doing those same basic moves or even consider how to include different exercises to target the same muscles!

#8: Vary Your Workout Design.

We can often get very “married” to specific ways of programming.

I often see people wanting their body part splits over the weeks and workouts with one move done in isolation.

Or they need specific intervals or circuits.

But we need to realize that sometimes varying up our reps, sets, rest intervals and such can really impact how we’re challenging our bodies.

Especially when you don’t have heavier weights, consider timed intervals of work to help you push past failure and do those few extra reps.

Consider even back to back intervals working the same area but with one move that is compound and one that is isolation.

This combination of isolation and compound can even be key if you don’t use intervals but do count reps and sets.

While we may often do a superset when we have heavier weights to allow one area to rest as the other works, sometimes doing back to back moves for the same muscle group can help us work it closer to fatigue when we don’t have heavier weights to challenge ourselves.

Don’t be afraid too to use different rep ranges. If you can challenge yourself for 6 reps great, but if you then have another move that you need 15 or even 20 reps to feel add up, don’t be afraid to use both rep ranges even in the same series!

But realize that how you adjust exercise order and even use different rep and set designs can have a huge impact!

#9: Increase Training Density.

How we design our workouts can also have a huge impact on our training density. But I think it is key to note this as a form of progression on its own.

Because training density is the amount of work you can complete in a certain amount of time.

And often to try to do more volume of work (more reps and set), our workouts just get longer and longer.

But this doesn’t have to be the case.

While we don’t just want to cut out rest from our workouts and turn our strength training into cardio and we don’t want to just add more reps and sets when we don’t have weights to create more fatigue, we can use training density to our advantage to see results.

Because often when we are training with lighter loads, a greater volume of work is needed.

This is also why workout design is so important to consider. Doing even things like timed supersets, compound sets or circuits, or Density Training, can be key to helping you get in more work without increasing time.
Your goal is to use harder variations and basically move more weight but without increasing time and through this create progression.

So consider each week how you can do a harder variation or another rep but in the 10-15 minutes you’ve set for that series!

#10: Adjust Your Workout Schedule.

Many of us may have grown up seeing those body part split workout schedules where each day you work a different area.

But not only have studies shown that more frequently working an area, 2-3 times a week, can be beneficial, but the more you don’t have loads to challenge you, the more you do want to use volume of work, or even training density to your advantage.

And this isn’t just in a single workout, but even something to consider over an extended timeline of a week.

If you are training with limited tools or struggling to build an area, consider adjusting your workout weekly split.

Consider more full body workouts or even hemisphere, dividing routines into upper and lower workouts.

You can even do anterior/posterior splits focusing more on those frontside vs. backside muscles in routines.

But vary what you’re including in your workouts to create that progression, even down to using different tools, different moves, different tempos, all of these other forms of progression, over the week to see results!

Remember we can create a challenge and see better results through not just adding weights but using these other 10 forms of progression! Which will you include in your workouts for a new challenge?

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15 Habits To Level Up Your Health & Fitness

15 Habits To Level Up Your Health & Fitness

by | Jan 19, 2025 | Blog, Diet, Exercises, Habit Change

We are what we repeatedly do. If we want to reach our goals, we need to implement new habits daily.

But creating new habits isn’t as simple as learning something new.

It’s first becoming CONSCIOUS of daily habits we’re doing that are so comfortable we don’t even realize we are doing them to unlearn AS we also learn the new routines.

This process is hard and it’s why so often we don’t make the changes we need or stick with the new habits for long.

It’s why I want to share 15 habit hacks I wish I’d learned sooner that have helped me now see fabulous and lasting results while continuing to grow and improve!

#1: Follow the one minute rule.

“I’ll just do one minute.”

Any time I don’t want to do something, I set a timer and just say I’ll do one minute.

I almost never stop at one minute.

I do more.

But this small commitment gets me going and it makes the change or habit feel manageable.

If you’re fighting doing something new and not feeling like it, focus on a change that only takes one minute or even set a timer and commit one minute to it.

You’ll be surprised by how much more you do!

#2: Make the habit EXCITING.

Don’t get me wrong, drinking more water isn’t exciting if you’re working on your hydration.

Trying to meal prep or workout at times isn’t always fun.

BUT getting a new and fun water bottle can make you want to use it.

Getting a new protein flavor or fancy lunchbox can make you want to meal prep.

New shoes or cool leggings? You’ll want to wear them to workout.

So find little fun things that can incentivize you to want to do the habits you’re trying to create!

#3: Do it FIRST.

New habits that aren’t comfortable, that aren’t yet a priority in our minds, easily don’t make the cut on a busy day.

“I’ll start tomorrow,” we may even think.

But when we won’t prioritize things when life gets in the way, we need to make sure they are done first.

By doing those habits first in the day before other priorities we know we will do no matter what, we make those new habits important.

And we make sure we make time for them before our energy or motivation slides!

#4: Share the love.

Ever notice you go back to a restaurant or place you thought was the best thing EVER only to realize it wasn’t that good?

When that happens it’s because the EXPERIENCE of that place got tied to other things in that day or event we loved.

We can use this love connection to our advantage and create good feelings surrounding the new habits based on what we connect them with.

Really love a TV show? Walk or do mobility work while watching it.

Love a podcast? Meal prep as you listen.

Connect new habits you aren’t crazy about to good feeling to find yourself mentally embracing them more!

And even recognize if you’re constantly connecting new habits to NEGATIVE emotions to create that push back too!

#5: Embrace the DIScomfortable.

Yes I know the word is uncomfortable but I say discomfortable because A….Discomfort is where growth lives but B. Because it makes you kind of chuckle and also lower that resistance against being uncomfortable.

It’s weird and that takes away some of the negative we often associate with hard new things.

But making yourself uncomfortable with something new every single day for a period of time really helps you create new habits.

Because the goal isn’t just the ultimate fat loss or performance goal you want. It isn’t just a long-term focus.

The goal is actually in the thing you do THAT DAY.

And the more comfortable you become being uncomfortable, the more bigger habit changes along the way don’t feel that bad.

So set a goal to do a new habit to be that beginner or learner and even feel awkward every single day even if the habit isn’t focused on your main goal.

Get discomfortable and see growth happen faster as you see your discipline with new habits improve because you’ve realized you can do hard things!

#6: Do as little as possible.

When we make habit changes, we try to do everything at once.

We want to do more because we want results yesterday. We want to be perfect.

And this is exactly why so many habit changes fail.

Instead we need to think of the overall habit we want and find the easiest, smallest part of it we could do almost immediately.

That guarantees action.

And feeling successful with that often allows us to do more and mentally resist the change less.

It makes it easier to become disciplined with each part as we build because it feels more natural to start!

#7: Think “How can I be lazy with this?”

The more we make things easy on ourselves, the more mentally we will resist the change and quickly embrace doing more.

And the simple fact is, we only have so much time, energy and willpower.

We do have other priorities. And if we don’t own them, they’ll become our excuses.

So any new habit I do, I like to think to myself not only “How can I make this easier?” but also “How can I be lazy with it?”

I buy frozen meal prep. I started with old workout plans I had that didn’t make me write something new.

I plan in meals I’ve already have made and frozen foods.

While sure, I wanted to cook more whole natural foods and create new routines that truly built, using these other things allowed me to be lazier and not have those excuses pop up.

So don’t be afraid to improve but find ways to make things easier on yourself and be a bit lazy.

Use those pre-packaged foods to start if you need.

Get a pre-planned workout routine even if you write your own eventually. But do something so you can move forward!

#8: Make the appointment.

When something is an appointment with a set date and time and even a reminder on it we can see we have to do, we are more likely to do it.

When we give ourselves wiggle room with vague goals of 3 days a week of workouts, it’s easy for us to say “I’ll do it tomorrow” until we run out of days.

So own your schedule, create the appointment and set a time and day with reminders!

#9: Let habits evolve.

Habits we create can and should change over time.

How we dial in our workouts or our diet during January when we’re motivated will be different than the balance we strike during the holidays or a busy time of year for us.

This isn’t a bad thing.

BUT we need to be open to evolution in how we implement things over getting focused on their being one perfect variation.

Always seek to assess where you are RIGHT NOW and let habits shift based on what you need to stay consistent at that time!

Sometimes less is more!

#10: Plan AHEAD.

Yup this hack is unsexy. Most of us know it. Yet few of us do it.

We try to track macros for the first time and don’t plan ahead then get frustrated when we haven’t met our numbers.

But change requires us to make changes and often the only way we can see the changes we need is to PLAN AHEAD.

Don’t let yourself get overwhelmed by not preparing.

Break down new habits and actions into little pieces you can do so you are not only prepared physically but even mentally for the challenges that may be ahead too!

#11: Pause To Reflect.

When something works, we often just keep moving forward.

When something doesn’t work, we either get down about the setback and give up or we try to brush it aside.

We don’t try to learn from both of these experiences.

But we learn more in the reflection than even in the doing.

We see what works. And we see what doesn’t. This is the way we can adjust to keep improving.

So as you create new habits, set end dates at which you’ll reflect and even tweak based on what you’re seeing in your progress!

But don’t get caught up in the doing and never pause to learn from it!

#12: Shut off your brain.

We’ve all been guilty of it…getting caught up in researching and learning only to never actually take action on something.

It’s why we can even sometimes think, “But I know what to do. Why can’t I do it?”

Knowing isn’t doing.

And in trying to learn all the potential outcomes or flaws or find a perfect program…

We can ultimately freeze ourselves with inaction.

Instead sometimes if you want a goal, you just have to choose a habit action and take it.

Then as you go, assess how it is working.

But getting started is often the hardest part. Once you get that out of the way and build that momentum, you can then seek to even learn more and improve.

The more you do, the more you do so do something to get started because thinking about what you COULD do will never move you forward.

#13: Question And Learn More.

Of course, there is a flip side to the “just take action” hack I just shared.

We also can’t think we know everything and are above learning and constantly questioning our own habits and mindsets.

Because it isn’t even that we’re learning these big new “ah-ha” things.

It’s often that we’re learning to be reminded of something in a new way at a time we need to hear it.

We’re learning to get perspective on something we can’t see from that outside vantage point.

So while we need to sometimes just pause our brains and act, we also can’t ever be above wanting to question and learn more!

The more you know, the more you realize that you don’t know. Always more to learn!

#14: Ask WHY?

There are habits we will mentally resist even when we break them down.

And when this happens, we need to ask WHY?

Because so often there is an underlying reason we need to address or NO habit will truly stick and be successful.

Yet too often we just write the habit off as not right for us over trying to truly learn about our needs, mindsets and priorities.
But the more we build that self awareness the more we realize how we can make changes that match what we need.

And part of asking why isn’t just diving into our own mindsets and beliefs…

It’s also about understanding why the change is needed.

The more we see the value and reason for the change, the more we will prioritize making it. The more we will value taking the time and energy to do it.

So use this powerful question to help yourself really understand what you need and the value of the habits to help yourself embrace them!

#15: Love Your Failures.

No matter how much you make small changes…

No matter how much you tweak and adjust…

No matter how much you try to connect habits and set appointments and evolve…

You’re going to make mistakes.

Suffer setbacks.

FAIL at things.

Life will get in the way.

Learn to love these experiences and celebrate them for the learning you get out of them.

Learn to love them because they allow you to show yourself your own strength to overcome.

Success isn’t despite failures…it’s because of them.

So mentally prepare for them and plan to use the experiences to learn!

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The Most Annoying Nutrition Tips ( 7 Things That Actually Work)

The Most Annoying Nutrition Tips ( 7 Things That Actually Work)

by | Jan 12, 2025 | Blog, Diet

“It’s not my workouts. It’s my diet.”

I struggled to make the nutritional changes I needed to see the fat loss and muscle definition I wanted for the longest time.

I tried to out exercise my diet.

But you can’t. At least not for long.

And the more we try to, the more we sabotage our long-term success. Not to mention the more we make it harder and harder to lose the weight and stay lean as we get older.

So as much as we may try, there is no way around making changes to our diet if we want to see results.

That’s why I’m going to break down adjusting your diet into 7 steps to follow and follow IN ORDER to start.

These nutrition tips are going to be annoyingly simple and unsexy and things you probably don’t want to do.

You may even think you’re above them.

But guess what? You’re not.

No one is above the basics and too often we think we’re advanced and lose focus on them which is why we don’t see results.

So suck it up buttercup. Take things back to basics and embrace the changes.

What ultimately feels sustainable and like a lifestyle balance doesn’t always start out that way.

And these changes will help you lower that mental barrier against change to create habits you can actually be disciplined with and see results snowball!

But remember, nothing changes if nothing changes.

So step #1…Get to tracking.

I know some of you are about to click back because you don’t want to track.

You hate tracking.

It’s tedious. Boring and time consuming.

It’s restrictive.

But guess what?

Your desire to avoid this ESSENTIAL habit is why you’re stuck feeling like you’re working hard without seeing results ever build.

And the thing is…tracking isn’t restrictive…although I do agree…it’s not the most fun or exciting of habits.

What’s restrictive is how we’ve cut stuff out in the past when tracking. JUDGED our own diet.

That’s why when you first start tracking you’re not going to cut anything out.

You’re not going to restrict or judge.

You’re simply going to TRACK.

Because then you’ll know what your diet looks like.

You’ll see areas that could use improvement but also truly understand how you’re fueling and how that makes you feel.

Tracking is truly EYE OPENING.

Then based on what you’re during currently, you’ll make changes that match what YOU need.

Not changes based on some “perfect” figure competitors’ diets that are totally unrealistic for your lifestyle.

But changes that meet you where you’re at to move forward.

Tracking will help you make SMALL changes that build over sabotaging yourself by doing so much you ultimately fall off because the EFFORT doesn’t equal the OUTCOME.

Too often we try to out diet time and ultimately just make ourselves give up because results don’t happen faster or equal to the effort we feel we are putting in!

Then step 2….add 10 grams of protein to 3 meals.

When we “go on a diet,” we jump right to cutting things out, and often the things we cut out, are the things we truly love the most.

But we’re not going on a diet with these steps.

We’re ADJUSTING our diet.

Which is why we want to focus on nutrition by addition.

This not only helps us feel more successful with the changes to want to do more, but it lowers our mental resistance against making harder changes as we go.

So first, add in about 10 grams of protein to 3 meals.

And if you’re like “10 grams?! What does that look like?”

It can be two eggs at breakfast with your toast. Or ½ cup of greek yogurt added to your oatmeal.

At lunch it could be adding another ounce of chicken breast on your salad. Or 2 tbsp of nutritional yeast used as seasoning on your current protein source.

It could be ⅓ cup of cottage cheese with ranch seasoning blended into a dip instead of ranch dressing for carrots as a snack.

It could be a serving or 85 grams of edamame added to your stir fry at dinner…Or a cup of bone broth swapped in to your soup or stew.

The key is SMALL changes to meals you already enjoy.

These small changes add up to a 30 gram boost over the day and helps us build our protein to between 30-35% of our calories for the day, which will help us lose fat as we retain lean muscle.

This protein increase can also help us feel fuller and more fueled to see better results from our training.

This ADDITION too of protein can even help us start to create a calorie deficit without technically adjusting calories.

Because protein has a higher thermic effect, requiring our body to expend more calories to digest and use it.

So while we’re adding, we’re also adjusting our calories in a way to start losing fat!

Step 3…Fiber swap.

The health of our gut has a huge impact on our fat loss results.

And fiber is key to our gut health.

It feeds and maintains our gut microbiome, which has beneficial effects on metabolic health, such as improved glucose and insulin levels.

Not to mention it helps keep us feeling fuller as we create that small calorie deficit.

So your next step, is to swap a food at 2 meals for something higher in fiber than what you’re eating currently to help you boost your fiber intake by 5-10 grams to start per day.

This helps us adjust our food quality with a focus on adding over restricting or cutting out.

It empowers us to make healthier choices but in a way we don’t have to first jump to eliminating things we love and want to include.

And these changes can be super small and as simple as swapping lentil pasta for white pasta.

Quinoa for white rice.

It could be using raspberries or blackberries over bananas in your oatmeal.

It could be a whole grain bread over a white bread for your sandwich.

Or adding in chia seeds to your greek yogurt dessert or breakfast smoothie.

It could be cutting your portion of potatoes at dinner to add a small side of broccoli.

But it doesn’t have to mean us not still including the foods we love or recipes. It can just mean small adjustments in how we make those dishes or the exact portions we consume!

Step 4…Drink more water.

Proper hydration is essential as we increase protein and focus on fiber.

If we’re dehydrated we won’t see fat loss happen as fast as we’d like not to mention we can find ourselves actually feeling hungry when we aren’t.

Drinking at least 50% of your bodyweight (weighing in pounds) in ounces of water can help increase your metabolism and make sure you’re not suffering from cravings.

If you’re nowhere near this intake now after tracking it for a few days, focus on one habit shift you can make to get in an extra few ounces or two.

As a person that struggles to drink water at times, I’ve helped myself improve the habit by putting out a water bottle the night before by the coffee maker to remind me to drink as I get ready for the day!

I also find that infusing water or having Ultima always on hand and in my backpack, I have more of a desire to drink the water because it tastes good.

Ultima and things like Cucumbers or Oranges infused into your water can help you boost your electrolyte intake and improve your hydration as well!

Focus on increasing your water intake by connecting drinking water to even a routine you’re already doing and by even getting a fun water bottle you have out so you’re constantly having that visual reminder!

Step 5…Swap out ONE food that’s not serving your goals.

As you’re making these changes and seeing the daily implementation of these habits building, you want to push out of that comfort zone just a bit more to get results building a bit faster.

Swap out something that you know isn’t serving your goals to help you cut calories by 50-100 from your daily intake, increase your protein, and improve your food quality and micronutrient diversity.

This doesn’t mean jump to the food you love the most even if it isn’t the healthiest.

But it does mean pick something you won’t miss as much to swap it out or adjust the portion.

And start with ONE meal or food.

You want to focus on something that will start to create that small calorie deficit off of what you were doing when you just started tracking your natural diet.

So take a look though at your daily food intake.

What packs a bigger calorie punch? What’s a large portion you could cut back on?

And no you can’t say your protein source.

Although this COULD be a chance to swap in lower fat cuts of meat, moving from chicken thigh to chicken breast or 85% lean ground beef to 96%….

Also note healthy but calorie dense foods that you’re consuming over the day.

Things like nuts, while healthy, can pack a real calorie punch and may not be the best option for us as we are looking to lose fat. They are easy to overeat.

So swapping out nuts as a snack for a greek yogurt dip and veggies can help us lower our calories, increase protein and even feel fuller because we’re including a great food volume over the day.

Adjusting even things like your pasta dish from a full cup to ¾ cup of pasta while adding in veggies or another ounce of protein.

These little swaps can keep pushing us to create the balance we need, increasing protein and creating that small calorie deficit needed for fat loss.

But with this, more is NOT better!

Don’t get cut crazy and start eliminating more than 100 calories a day to start.

Eating too little can backfire and sabotage not only our adherence to the plan, which is so often why we feel like dietary changes aren’t sustainable or possible, but also result in us losing muscle, creating metabolic adaptations and not getting more muscle definition!

Start swapping things you know may not be ideal or adjusting portions to further prioritize protein and reduce your calorie intake by just 50-100 per day.

Step 6…Keep tweaking!

As you see progress build, keep adjusting and making improvements, going back through steps 2-5 to improve.

Where can you increase protein?

Where could you try adjusting carbs of fat to see how each macro impacts you?

Could you improve your hydration?

Even start to assess other aspects of your diet including your meal timing.

Focus on changes that even feel doable on the worst of worst days as you build.

And KEEP TRACKING.

Also own when your LIFESTYLE has changed.

What you do at one time of year when you’re motivated may not be the habits you need at another.

Allowing an ebb and flow to how you do the habits, focusing on even one of these steps more or less at times can be key.

At times we may be more motivated to really focus on those whole natural foods. At another, we may try to find ways to work in more foods we love because that is the only way we will stay consistent.

But we want to keep tracking and adjusting to meet ourselves where we are at.

Which brings me to Step 7…Don’t Excuse 1%.

Too often as we make changes and see results snowball, we get complacent. We start to self sabotage by excusing inconsistencies and deviations.

Or our priorities shift and we don’t use Step 6 to fully OWN them and adjust.

But there is nothing that can sabotage us more than saying, “Well I’m being good enough.”

Because often when we say that…we aren’t.

We’re ignoring all the little deviations that add up and slowly take us off course.

Instead keep focusing on tracking EVERYTHING to find a balance…

Track the good, the bad and the ugly.

This helps us avoid letting negative judgements creep in and truly helps us keep building.

It’s an acknowledgement of what is going on so we can see why our results are what they are.

Because so often we feel like we’re still working super hard with habits while things actually slide and this leads to us being frustrated when results don’t add up.

So don’t excuse deviations and keep tracking as you progress toward your goals.

Use these 7 steps to help yourself see the fat loss you deserve. And even spend a week really focused on each one before adding.

While this may feel painfully slow, it is key to creating that discipline and success mindset that makes us keep wanting to do more and feeling disciplined with the changes!

Because fat loss results and muscle definition happen from the daily habits we CONSISTENTLY do!

Success is never owned. It’s rented. And rent is due every single day!

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