FHP 507 – 3 Perimenopause Training Tips and Aging Well with Hayley Hollander

FHP 507 – 3 Perimenopause Training Tips and Aging Well with Hayley Hollander

In this episode, I’m going to go over why you need to care about it NOW. I interviewed with Hayley Hollander on aging well and training tips for menopause and perimenopause. We’ll talk about heavy vs light weights – which is better? I’ll share a meal prep hack and a great bodyweight movement to combat the effects of sitting.

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100 Calorie Hacks To Lose Fat Faster (Try these 10 Tips!)

100 Calorie Hacks To Lose Fat Faster (Try these 10 Tips!)

You want to cut your calories a bit to lose some weight…

But you’re sick of feeling miserable and like you’re constantly giving up the foods you love to see results.

In this video I’m going to show you 10 ways to easily cut 100 calories or more from your diet without feeling like you’re missing out on the foods you love! 

Hey guys! It’s Cori from Redefining Strength where we help you create sustainable lifestyle changes to move, feel and look your best!

I know trying to create that calorie deficit can make us feel like we can’t enjoy the foods we love, or that our meals have to be bland and boring, but this restriction is often what also sabotages true lifestyle habit changes. 

That’s why I wanted to share 10 ways you can easily cut 100 calories from your day without having to restrict foods you enjoy or choke down ones you can’t stand.

And the 10th tip is the perfect way to include ALL of the foods you love while seeing better results faster! 

Tip #1 to help you cut back on calories is to make small swaps to recipes and ingredients. 

I see this tip shared frequently to help people reduce their calorie intake…which is why I want to make you aware of a common trap we fall into…

We make swaps that make meals taste…disgusting.

They FEEL like diet meals and aren’t like the originals at all! 

And that’s basically as bad as cutting out the food completely…if not worse!

Now what swaps you enjoy or dislike is very personal.

For me, as much as I even like cauliflower, cauliflower rice is NOT the same as rice in my burrito bowl. 

On the other hand, I have no problem using egg whites over real eggs on my breakfast sandwich. 

I have no problem feeling satisfied with a bowl of popcorn instead of chips.

Or I’m fine to use oil spray or even chicken or vegetable broth to cook in over adding tablespoons of oil to the pan.

The key is finding your balance to make meals more calorie friendly while still being enjoyable.

Try adding in greek yogurt over cream to a sauce. Or in baked goods, swap in applesauce for oil!

But find swaps that don’t make you feel like you’re choking down “diet food.”

Tip #2: Is to get pre-portioned snacks or individually wrapped treats.

Think about having that whole pan of rice krispie treats on your counter

Once it has been cut into, it’s there. And you can cut any size you want.

It’s easy to end up eating more than we wanted and more than we should at that time. 

That’s why buying pre-portioned snacks and treats can be helpful to start. 

It gives us a cut off and a premeasured portion to help us stay on track.

Consider even getting cereals, individual oatmeal packs and snacks in the 100 calorie or individual serving bags!

If you can’t find what you need already portioned out, you can make your own dishes and portion them out immediately so there is that set amount only available.

Tip #3: Make your favorite meals and snacks at home!

If you love going out, don’t avoid restaurants when trying to make changes. There are plenty of healthy options out.

However, if there are calorie dense foods you love that you CAN make at home, you’re going to cut out a ton of calories just through those homemade variations. 

You can choose what swaps to make, adjust the portion of ingredients or even completely remove things that won’t impact the taste for you but may add to the calories!

Try baking chips or french fries. 

Even make them in the air fryer. Little to no oil will cut back on calories and you can season them to your liking and make only the portion you want to eat. 

Try a homemade sundae with halo top and adjust the toppings based on what you like, maybe even swapping in some fresh fruit for a sugary fruit sauce. 

But have fun even testing out how you can make variations at home that pack less of a calorie punch!

Tip #4: Don’t wait to eat till you’re starving! 

The hungrier we get, the more our portions tend to expand at our next meal. 

Not to mention we even tend to eat things we aren’t craving or snack on whatever is available.

We end up consuming more calories than we need simply because we got too hungry before we ate. 

Whether you fast and eat one big meal or choose to eat 6 small meals a day, make sure you aren’t going into your meal so hungry you end up eating a bigger portion than you really need.

Consider even drinking some water BEFORE you eat if you have unintentionally gotten to the point of feeling like you could eat anything in sight! 

Even if it is just a handful more to tide us over for a bit longer, those calories we munch on when we’re too hungry to care add up!

Tip #5: Pay attention to the cut of protein you consume. 

Many of us have heard that we should increase our protein intake when we want to lose weight. 

And we should.

HOWEVER, if we aren’t careful, increasing protein can also dramatically increase our calorie intake.

That’s why we want to pay attention to the cuts of meat or types of protein we’re including. 

Now that doesn’t mean you have to cut out your red meat if you love it.

But on your burger, try swapping 85% ground beef for 90 or 93% lean ground beef. 

Or if you’re plant based, maybe swap in some tofu for tempeh to cut back on those calories.

Little swaps to the cut or type of protein add up! 

But be aware that something being advertised as “healthy” or lower calorie, it’s always what it seems!

Note the portion for those calories as you may end up buying turkey bacon only to realize that the portion is smaller than real bacon which is the only reason for the difference! 

Tip #6: Pack in the spices!

No one wants to choke down bland and boring food. 

If we’re cutting fat we want our food to taste amazing

So as you’re adjusting your nutrition, don’t slack on the flavor.

Pack in those spices to dishes so they taste amazing and you don’t feel like you’re missing out as you make swaps and tweaks to recipes. 

You may even find you can eliminate adding more sauce and therefore more calories from meals by packing in more of a flavor punch with seasoning. 

You may find a simple dollop of greek yogurt with ranch seasoning replaces your high calorie dressing. 

Or that extra garlic cooked in the air fryer with your crispy brussel sprouts makes them a dish the entire family loves!

Tip #7: Avoid eating on the go. 

It’s inevitable that sometimes we WILL need to eat on the go. 

But the more we can avoid it, the more we can make sure we’re not mindlessly eating or only consuming very calorically dense, easy to carry bars and snacks that don’t help us feel full or satisfied.

Protein bars and even nuts, while convenient and not bad to include, are calorically very dense and NOT very filling. 

So you just want to be aware of this when you are trying to cut out calories.

Instead try to pause for a meal when you can and consume something with more bites. 

Or if you do need to eat on the go, think about nutrient-dense smoothies that you can keep lower in calories. Adding in low calorie fruits and veggies along with even a protein powder for that boost!

Tip #8: Adjust your portion by just a little.

A little goes a long way.

Small changes add up and give us the ability to slowly adjust our lifestyle without feeling like we’re missing out.

Yet so often we just cut out anything we know isn’t “good.”

Which ultimately leads to us wanting it even more and eventually giving in to the cravings. 

Instead of cutting things out, adjust the portion.

Love your morning oatmeal? Try ½ a cup over ¾ of a cup. 

Want your after dinner chocolate? Try getting a mini individually wrapped smaller size! 

You may find there are adjustments you can more easily make and those that aren’t as satisfying so focus on the smaller tweaks that don’t make you crave more to start!

Tip #9: Simply READ LABELS. 

Many of the same foods have different nutritional breakdowns. Some of which vary more than others.

For instance, you can find greek yogurts that range from 80 calories to 170 for about the same individual serving size. 

Even breads and sauces that seem like the exact same thing can vary enough to add up over the day.

Even the same types of FRUIT vary with Fuji being more calories than McIntosh. 

So don’t be afraid to compare labels or nutritional breakdowns of foods! 

It goes back to those small swaps!

Plus, you may find an ingredient that you like even better that fits your macros and your calories even more.

And finally Tip #10…the secret to cutting back on your calories while eating all of the foods you love… 

Measure your food! So often we can simply cut out a few calories by actually measuring portions over eyeballing them! 

It is easy to allow those portion sizes to become bigger and bigger, especially the hungrier we are or the more we want something. 

Not to mention, by measuring out things, we become more conscious of, and even avoid, mindless snacking.

Those bites, licks and nibbles add up! 

So measure and track your food.

It is not only accountability and eye opening, but it can help you make those other little changes to easily cut back on calories without restricting the foods you love or missing out! 

Often making changes to see results is about making the smallest change we can so we can keep replicating the habits consistently without continually draining our willpower.

Focus on starting with just 1 of these tips today!

And if you’re struggling to lose fat, check out these 2 tips next…

–> 2 Tips For Faster Fat Loss

 

FHP 506 – Why is Change So Hard? Alcohol, Holidays and Cardio!

FHP 506 – Why is Change So Hard? Alcohol, Holidays and Cardio!

In this episode:

  • We’ll chat about unlearning and why change is so hard
  • Michelle will share why you are NOT what you eat
  • I’ll go over the holiday balance and including foods you love
  • Then I’ll touch on ALCOHOL and the impact it can have
  • And finally I’ll share how you can get more out of your cardio with this tip!

Ready to make a change with the accountability and support to kickstart those results so you go into this new year feeling your most fabulous?

 Schedule a coaching consultation to discuss options for 1:1 coaching. I’d love to help!

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7 Secrets Of A 92 year Old Fitness Trainer (Be Strong at ANY Age)

7 Secrets Of A 92 year Old Fitness Trainer (Be Strong at ANY Age)

Blaming your age for not being able to lose weight, gain muscle or simply move better?

It’s not your age holding you back – it’s your belief in your own abilities. 

Whether you believe you can or you can’t, you’re right.

At any age, we can make a change and see better results.

Don’t believe me?

In this video I’m going to share 7 secrets to feeling, looking and moving your best based on this 92 year old fitness trainer – Takishima Mika. 

Hey guys it’s Cori from Redefining Strength where we help you feel, look and move your best at any and every age.

I already know what some of you are thinking, “Well she was always in shape,”

“She doesn’t have the health issues I have.”

“She doesn’t have the stress I have.”

And there is always someone who has it easier out there. But we need to focus on controlling what we can control.

That’s why I want to share these 7 secrets that trainer Takishima used to go from overweight and out of shape at 65, never having joined a gym before, to becoming a certified trainer for the first time EVER at the age of 87. 

Because if you don’t CHOOSE to make a change, no matter what life has thrown your way, you will never see the results you want!

Secret #1: Believe at any age you can make a change.

Takishima was 65 and overweight when she decided it was time to make a change. 

She wasn’t a former gym rat or athlete. 

She just realized that if she wanted to feel and move better, she had to embrace doing the uncomfortable and make those habit changes.

She could easily have found reasons not to make changes, blaming her age for her weight gain.

But instead she realized that only she had the power to make a change for herself.

At any age, we can choose to start something new. 

Will it be uncomfortable?

100% yes.

But it will also be EMPOWERING.There is no better feeling than overcoming obstacles and showing ourselves what we can do! 

Secret #2: Move every day – Use it or lose it!

Often as we get older, we start avoiding moves. 

We feel more out of shape. Aches and pains start adding up. 

So we end up moving less and cutting out so many of the movements that we actually NEED to be doing if we want to move better – even BLAMING them for causing our pain.

But our body was meant to move.

And if we don’t use that full range of motion, we lose it. 

It’s why Takishima moves every single day.

And not only does she work out, she finds ways to stay active around those sessions, even doing little things as she watches TV. 

She includes not only strength and cardio but also that mobility work.

Seeing the gym as that time to learn to control movement patterns we need to move well in every day life is key!

It’s that perfect time to work on our balance, stability and mobility so we can take on any challenges we want and move well till our final day on this earth! 

Secret #3: Focus on intentionality with your training.

Do not write a movement off. Squats aren’t bad for your knees.

Deadlifts aren’t bad for your back.

Moves aren’t evil or bad.

They just need to be implemented correctly based on our needs and goals!

Not every move is right for every person in the same variation. 

You need to be intentional with your training, which is why Takishima focus on those basics consistently.

Always work on that foundation.

Address those aches and pains and be conscious of what you feel working. Don’t just go through the motions or rush through your workouts. 

Our workouts are “practice” for moving better in every day life. 

And we have to remember, practice doesn’t make perfect if your practice isn’t perfect.

Focus on correcting compensations and imbalances in the gym so you can move well in every day life. 

Regress to progress to build up stronger so you are practicing those proper movement patterns to move well during daily life!

Secret #4: Embrace the 80/20 rule.

We get good at what we consistently do.

Yet so often we sabotage our own consistency because we try to hit some “ideal” or perfection with our diet that truly isn’t sustainable or enjoyable for US.

We try to force ourselves to do 100% instead of realizing that 80% is good enough to see results and maintain the habits LONG TERM.

Stop white knuckling your way through changes only to default back into old habits because you can’t keep suffering through restricting the foods you love. 

Embrace the 80/20 rule focusing on whole natural foods 80% of the time while including those foods you simply enjoy 20% of the time. 

Because, let’s face it, the more we feel we can’t have something, often the more we want it.

Restriction can create that obsession.

It’s why realizing you should be able to include things you want if you want them is key. 

This CHOICE makes it so much easier to create true changes.

While Takishima follows a diet rich in protein and whole natural foods with lots of fruits and veggies, she enjoys her wine and cake.

It’s all about realizing our unique balance to build a lifestyle we can truly maintain over time. 

Secret #5: Meet yourself where you are at.

You may not be where you want to be, but taking ownership of where you are currently is the key to moving forward.

The best results happen by meeting ourselves where we are at to make changes. 

So stop saying you can’t because of your injuries or hormones or age.

These are merely factors we need to account for when designing the best plan for US. 

Because there is always a way to move forward from where you are at.

Don’t try to force some ideal workout routine on yourself training 6 days a week if you aren’t even doing 1. 

Don’t try to force some restrictive clean eating plan on yourself where you have to cook elaborate recipes if you’re eating out for every meal. 

Don’t try to do burpees if you can’t walk 10 steps without getting out of breath or hurting something. 

Design based on YOUR current needs and goals.

Stop saying you’re doomed because you’re not.

One size doesn’t fit all.

What Takishima started doing isn’t the same training she is doing now. Over time she’s progressed moves and earned those harder variations while adjusting her nutrition based on what makes her feel best!

Secret #6: Never stop learning.

Life is truly one continual learning lesson. 

And the more we embrace that there is always more to learn and improve, the more we can keep growing and the better the results we will see. 

When we just say we can’t do something because of age, we’ve stopped learning and that is a surefire way to become a heck of a lot older way faster.

We keep our brain and body young by constantly testing our limits and learning new things. 

Question even the beliefs you hold about yourself.

Seek to even prove yourself WRONG.

Because when we are wrong, that means there is room for growth and improvement.

If Takishima didn’t seek to keep learning and challenging herself, she wouldn’t be a trainer at 92. 

She even seeks to continue her education daily through exploration of new topics.

Seek to learn new moves. Test your boundaries. Challenge yourself.

This is what creates growth and keeps us younger!

Secret #7: Implement a pre-bed routine.

Most of us know how important sleep really is to our recovery and health, but it is a hard thing to change or control.

So often we slightly overlook it as we make other lifestyle changes. 

But one way to help you get more sleep and more importantly even improve the QUALITY of your sleep is to implement a pre-bed routine. 

This consistent routine is a signal that you’re getting ready for bed and can help you relax to improve the quality of your sleep.

Consider doing a short mobility routine before bed. 

The deep breathing and relaxation of the routine can help you mental and physically unwind so you aren’t stressed after a long day.

Takishima does a few stretches to help her loosen up after the day and prepare for bed. 

This habit improves the quality of her sleep and even can be great preparation for movement the next day! 

A little extra mobility work before bed not only can help you relax but it can help you recover better between sessions, which is key as we get older!

Remember that everything seems impossible until we prove it possible. Don’t doom yourself with doubt before you’ve even tried!

Test your limits.

Embrace being comfortable being uncomfortable.

Challenge yourself to really see just how much more you can achieve!

For more tips to help you move, look and feel your best, check out my 5 best Exercises for LONGEVITY (And Overall Health!) video next.

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The Most Underrated Back Exercise

The Most Underrated Back Exercise

If you’re looking for an amazing exercise to strengthen your back while helping you avoid neck, shoulder and even lower back aches and pains, then you’re going to love this video!

In this video, I’ll go over how to do this amazing exercise, how it can help you avoid overloading your lower back if you feel it often during bent over rows and even some variations you can try to target your back in different ways and make use of any tools that you have! 

Hey guys it’s Cori from Redefining Strength where we help you feel, look and move your best at any and every age.

Having a strong back not only looks amazing but it can help us avoid neck, shoulder and upper back aches and pains as we get older. It can help us maintain amazing posture as well. 

But often when we do back exercises, we feel our lower back becoming achy during bent over rows or we simply feel our biceps fatiguing over our back being worked. 

Our back is not getting the full benefit.

That’s why I wanted to share this amazing move, the chest supported row, to help you really isolate and focus on building a stronger back!

First, I’m going to go over how to do this move and how it can help you really target your back before I go over how to adjust it to hit the muscles of your back to different extents even using the tools you may have available.

And at the end I’ll share two bonus tips to help you make sure you’re using this move to build muscle!

To do the Chest Supported Row, set an incline bench up at a 45-60 degree angle. 

I love using an EZ bar for this move to target the upper back and rear delts and also slightly restrict the range of motion so we don’t end up rowing back further than we are truly engaging our back. 

Grab the EZ bar in both hands with an overhand grip, pushing through your feet to drive your entire upper body really firmly into the bench. This will support your lower back. 

Making sure to keep your chest pressed into the bench, row the weight up toward the bench. Feel your shoulder blades move together toward your spine to pull the weight up. 

Do not let yourself arch away from the bench or start to curl the weight. 

Focus on that scapular movement without shrugging. 

Row the weight up then fully lower back down. Do not stop short of full extension. 

Now why is this variation so amazing for targeting your back while helping you avoid compensating or overusing your biceps or lower back?

Because the EZ bar will be stopped at the bench, this is a great way to make sure you stop the row before you start to extend the range of motion through only shoulder movement.

Too often when we row we will see our shoulders only rounding forward at the end as we try to make the row movement bigger pulling the weight past our side. 

The bench also helps reduce any “cheating” during the row. 

The bench supports your upper body, this variation forces you to really isolate your back over bouncing the weight or getting to cheat in any way. 

It also can help you avoid arching your lower back, which is often when we feel our lower back becoming achy during the bent over row.

Just be conscious to really push into the bench over trying to pull back off of it as you row. 

And off of this basic variation, you can play around with different variations, not only based on the tools you have available but also the muscles you want to activate or focus on more.

Not only can you simply use an underhand grip on the EZ bar to engage your biceps and lats more over your upper back and rear delts, but you can also mix things up using dumbbells. 

With dumbbells, you can even include a narrow grip variation, great for really getting those lats working!

And if you do have any imbalances, you can do a unilateral variation as well. 

It’s key we recognize the opportunity in small adjustments to moves to make them ideal for what we personally need and then even see the other variations as progression through the same but different.

Bonus Tips:

And two bonus tips…

This move is a great exercise to build muscle when included in your routine for about 8-12 reps. Especially starting out so that you focus on really isolating your upper back, this allows you to go heavy enough without starting to max out and find ways to cheat. 

The second tip is if you don’t have an incline bench, you can create space to row off a flat bench by stacking a few plate weights underneath.

For more tips to help you strengthen your back, and an amazing exercise to work on that scapular retraction, check out THIS BACK VIDEO next.